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my exboyfriend hurt me emotionally in ways that i never thought he would hurt me we have been broken up for over a year and im just now getting over the pain and hurt but i want revenge i want to get even i want him to hurt the same way i was hurting so what should i do to get revenge or get even without hurting my boyfriend (link)
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you need to just forget the ex all together. By thinking up ways to get revenge you are letting him win. You're still thinking of him. Biggest revenge is not letting him know you give a shit. :)
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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her? (link)
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Sounds like you need a long talk with her. Something happened on that trip (may not be cheating) that has her acting weird. Why is going back to school supposed to miraculously fix things? Get together and find out what is wrong. Does she have a sibling who you could ask if she doesn't tell you? Could be related to those new people she met. Do some digging and see what you come up with.
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sry for the length but i need help!
ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...
and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??
again sry for the length
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It could be that he just hasn't ever thought of you like that before. Why not ask him sometime if hes ever wondered how you two would do as a couple, see what he says. Once the subject is being discussed then let him know how you feel. :)
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Let him know you will be gone if you haven't already. Then if he tries to contact you he won't think you are ignoring him. If he isn't shy you may want to wait until he approaches you about it again. If you think you may have given him the impression that you weren't interested somehow, go ahead and mention it as in "when did you want to get together and hang out?" casually. :)
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I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks. (link)
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So long as he has a girlfriend do nothing. He could just be looking for more benefits which should not happen. If he breaks up with girlfriend and wants to start a serious relationship...not just friends with benefits BS,then go for it if its what you want.
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What can a married couple do to find an honest friend when no family lives anywhere near them? And the catch is, one spouse is disabled, early 40s, while the other spouse is in the late 30s. The married couple lives in a bad neighborhood where people are prejudiced against your skin color (i.e. "I don't talk to _____ people.") so making friends with neighbors is impossible. Both have bad credit & can't move at the drop of a hat. They're also not in "the middle class". Due to disability, one spouse ends up feeling jailed at home while the other spouse is at work. The one working spouse is then forced to due all the driving after a long hard day at work, and the same working spouse has to do all the housework. Both spouses don't drink and don't like bars, and the zoo in their city is horrible. With both spouses not sharing the same religion, where is this couple supposed to go to find honest friends without driving the one working spouse to the point of exhaustion? What kinds of clubs is the married couple supposed to go to when the disabled spouse can't sit or stand for a long time? Scrabble clubs require you to sit for a long time. It is socially difficult for one spouse to be in a wheelchair and have the other spouse pushing, and have people give you the time of day. Taking buses with this situation is impossible, as the disabled person is thought of as having less worth than an animal, because "they're holding up the rest of the passengers". With the one disabled spouse being sick, it is difficult for both spouses to be out all day Saturday searching for friends, as the sick spouse will have to usually return home due to illness. There does not seem to be a friendsfornicemarriedpeople.com site, so where does this couple go for honest friends? Being able to go to someone's house and pet their dog would be a blessed gift, as it takes away some pain. The only catch is, the couple cannot have a dog in their apartment. (link)
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How about visiting and maybe reading to older people in a nursing home? I know they are much older but a result could be making friends with the staff members, and the family members of those they visit with. Not to mention that some of the elderly are in kind of the same boat. A lot of them are stuck in the home because their relatives kind of park them there and forget about them. All parties would benefit.
Could the wheelchair bound person maybe be of help to a younger person with a disability similar? It may be hard for a young person to adjust. They may benefit from the experiences of someone whose been there. Young people can make good friends too. They also have parents who could be friends.
See if there is an organization in your area called Resource Center for Independent Living, or something similar. They give rides to handicapped people so they might get out more.
There are quite a few things they can do. Some of them may require a little volunteer work but they will be out there meeting people. Hope this helped you a little, or at least maybe gave you some ideas! :)
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im sick..i have a lil bit of a fever and yesterday i got with my boyfriend a few times but i got cold beofre i did but like do u think he is ok. i dont kno how he is feeling but what do u think (link)
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Its possible he could get sick too. I guess if he does you'll have to take him some chicken soup and hold his hand. He'll survive! Probably something going around. Feel better soon :)
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well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long! (link)
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Tell your dad you really want to get along with the woman (and try to for his sake), but you really don't appreciate her talking bad about your mom. Tell the wicked step that you want to get along and at least be civil but that you do not want to hear her opinions or comments about your mom. Very politely and very much like a grown up. :)
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Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.
P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?
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Treat her as you would any girl who isn't shy. She will open up once you get to know her better.
Ask questions and have her elaborate on her answers for you. She will get the hang of it before long.
A good first date could be a movie, wouldn't have to talk much. Then again a nice dinner where she HAS to talk might be even better. Ask her and see if she has something in mind. I bet you'll get an I don't care but you can ask to be polite (lol).
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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.
PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down (link)
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I'm afraid you're probably right about how she might react to the news. She doesn't let you see your boyfriend now and I doubt that your telling her is going to endear her to him more. She will probably blame him for it too. In this case I don't think keeping it to yourself is going to hurt anything. :)
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well I'm helping someone cheat on their girlfriend and I like him and he still likes me but I don't want to keep this a secret forever but I still wanna do things with him (link)
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I honestly don't think you'll get much sympathy from anyone here for helping someone lie and cheat. It is wrong...and I think you know it. Keep this in mind...If he cheats on her, he will most likely cheat on you. :)
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recently i just ended the three year relationship with my boyfriend all for good cause (basically, he's been treating me like pure shit lately. this includes verbal abuse, possessiveness, and odd male mood swings that he takes out on me). as you can imagine, i've grown some emotional attachment to him during those three years...and i want to know if there are some ways that i can move on?
like a co-worker asked me today if i had a significant other, and since i chose to end the relationship, the answer should be no, right? well, for some reason i still said that i did, when i know for a fact that it's over between us. it's like everything i look at or do reminds me of him, and it's bugging me because i don't want to go back. i never want to go back...yet i can't grasp the ability to just forget about it all and move on, ya know?
i want to hope that things will be alright, but i've done that all too much these past few years all ending in disappointment. i just want to feel happily single again, without a care in the world, without this horrible feeling on my shoulders...i just don't know how.
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I think the best thing to do is just get out and have fun. Date some other guys and get your mind occupied with all that. Once you find someone you really care about...memory of him will fade like magic! Right now it doesn't have to anyone you really care about. Just get back into the swing of dating. Get dressed up and go out with some girlfriends and just have fun. :)
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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.
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They may be awkward with it at first but I think any true friends will get over it. If they don't then you are probably better off anyway. You don't mention your age but younger people may just be uncomfortable and not really know how to react. Give them a little time and if they don't come around you'll make new friends. Just be yourself and don't let their reactions upset you. :)
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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do? (link)
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You aren't going to have a romance with him being that many miles away. Just be friends. Someday if you ever meet...then you worry about how much you like each other. In the meantime, enjoy your friendship. :)
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Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long! (link)
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Personally I don't know that I'd consider someone who talks 3 hrs on the phone to my boyfriend a friend of mine. She isn't respecting your relationship with him very much. He isn't either. Get them both together and confront them about it. One of them might look a little guilty. If you still don't believe him...find someone else who gives you the attention you need. :)
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me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!! (link)
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Does he not have any days off? If he can't spend at least part of his day off with you, or hang out after work with you once in awhile, then find a new guy.
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hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help. (link)
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The trouble is that everyone seems to think that the opposite sex is different somehow. Well, not when it comes to conversation! Just talk to them about the same things you would talk to the guy friends about. General things (not look at the boobs on that one type stuff). Just start talking. Music, school, friends, sports etc. :)
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sorry if this is long but i really need help.
ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do! (link)
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Do whatever you feel like doing. You can go out with him one time and if things are just to weird...say so. If not then have a good time and don't worry. No reason you can't remain friends if things don't work out. It may take time if one of you gets hurt but it will work out in the end. :)
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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH (link)
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So long as you do get it to him some way don't stress about it! A lot of people have the same problem...myself included. Just keep sending him those emails. Bye the way, they are extra special because he can keep them to look at again another time! :)
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Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.
He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.
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Its simple really. Tell him you want to keep in touch and give him your information. He will contact you or not. If he does, you know he likes you AND you have his information. :)
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