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Question Posted Monday July 18 2005, 11:37 am

my exboyfriend hurt me emotionally in ways that i never thought he would hurt me we have been broken up for over a year and im just now getting over the pain and hurt but i want revenge i want to get even i want him to hurt the same way i was hurting so what should i do to get revenge or get even without hurting my boyfriend

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x_beautifulgiggles_x answered Monday July 18 2005, 8:23 pm:
Sweetie,

Been there and wanted to do that. There is really nothing you can do. When I was 12 I was in love with my ex and he hurt me so much and in ways I never though possible. I want to do any thing to get him back but just look at it this way if they can hurt you in ways you never thought possible then they must not have feelings for you or for anything else so there really isn't anything you can do. Just block him out and forget about him. It's been almost 2 years and I'm still not over the pain of what my ex put me through.

Aunie

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nickieeldorado24 answered Monday July 18 2005, 6:13 pm:
i know how you feel..i've been hurt by a guy before but you don't get revenge..you just don't let them know that you're hurting and you manage to move on with your life. get involved with activities you like to do or just find someone knew to get your mind off of him! just don't let him know that you're hurting because than that's just like letting him win.

<33 with love nickie

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karenR answered Monday July 18 2005, 3:52 pm:
you need to just forget the ex all together. By thinking up ways to get revenge you are letting him win. You're still thinking of him. Biggest revenge is not letting him know you give a shit. :)

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VixenDark answered Monday July 18 2005, 3:09 pm:
1. Get a destructible object, or one you can beat severly.

2. Put the image of your ex on it.

3. Mutilate, attack, burn, and otherwise destroy the image of your ex. Spit on the remains.

4. Enjoy some peace of mind.

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ThonqyFriends answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:47 pm:
Okay you might not like this advice but it`s how it is i`m sorry. Getting revenge might sound good at the time but it makes you just as low as he is. Kepp yourself busy.. like do sports or find hobbies or depending on your age you can get a job ! Just don`t talk to him at all even if he asks you a simple question don`t answer him because he`s deffinatly not worth it. Hope i helped ! - courtney =)

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horsesare666es answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:36 pm:
Your being unbelievably petty and immature. get over your frickn self, it's been over a year forget about him and worry about your new boy and being happy. if your ex is such a dick he doesn't deserve your attention of time even if it is for revenge.

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