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Im so freaking confused
Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long!
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Personally I don't know that I'd consider someone who talks 3 hrs on the phone to my boyfriend a friend of mine. She isn't respecting your relationship with him very much. He isn't either. Get them both together and confront them about it. One of them might look a little guilty. If you still don't believe him...find someone else who gives you the attention you need. :)
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omgosh girl its ok! if your boyfriend says that he likes and loves only one person and thats you i dont know if i would believe him after what his brother tells me but then brothers could just be saying that stuff to get your boyfriend annoyed with him but i would sit down with your boyfriend and say ok you need to tell me the truth about what is going on and dont lie to me. if he still says that nothing is going on and that they just talk. i would go to your friend stacy and say look we need to talk and for her to tell you the whole truth.
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Well there may be something up between your bf and stacy. But it couldnt it possible that just maybe his lil brother likes you and wants you to break up with him? You really gotta think outside the box. I would myself think something was up between your boy and stacy. I would consider taking a break.-trix
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Oh hell girl, I would definitely believe his brother. Under a few circumstances; and they are..
1)his brother does not like you (because he might be just telling you that to get you to break up because he wants you)
2)his brother doesn't hate you (because he might just want to piss you off, to get you and his brother to break up simply because he dislikes you being with him)
3)his brother is mature (otherwise he might just be lying to get his brother in trouble)
Guys are all the same, they lie, they cheat and they break hearts. Believe me. I'm 16 years old and I think I am one of the very few smart people when it comes to relationships in high school. They never last. So if by chance he does like your friend, let it go. He's still immature and there isn't much you could do about him liking her. Esepcially if she likes him. They will hook up, date for a little while, then break up. It's like a routine. But if you really want a boyfriend, look for someone who you can trust, and who won't just stick around for a little while. But don't plan on any relationship with any guy to last forever. Atleast not when you are in high school, probably not even college.
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ok now first thing i would do is go to stacy and ask her and then i would og back to the brother and make sure again then i would talk to your boyfriend about the outcomes you just had with stacy and his brother. and if they both say he did say he likes stacy then you tell him he has one more chance and if you hear anymore shit hes been doing your gone no matter what he saids. and if stacy saids he never siad that and the brother isnt sure then your bpoyfriend has a very good chance of telling the truth but id still let your boyfriend kno he only has one more chance. i mean you cant keep waiting around cause what these things your heairng r tru. you can do better, and shouldnt wait around for him
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Sit down with him, and have him explain everything. If he fails to do that, dump him, because everything people are saying about your bf if falling on you. You'll know by then if he can't explain all this you have to dump him, because it's not worth it if there is so much confusion. If he can explain, both of you can sort things out.
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Out of the mouths of babies. Since your bf's lil brother has told you the truth before, I would at least consider the possibility that he's telling you the truth now. Your bf's remark does seem a bit odd, almost like he was tryng to see what your reaction would be before he makes his move.
Now on the other side At one time my best friend also talked to my bf all the time, and it was completely innocent. She even got us back together when we split up.
Ask Stacy (without getting into all the details about what was said) if your bf's lil brother asked her out. If she says yes, then you can probably assume that it's just revenge and go back to being in love. If she says no, I would wonder myself.
Since he's already cheated on you once, I would think hard about this. Most, not all, the time if someone cheats on you, they'll do it again.
Noone can tell you what to do. You have to follow your heart. Good luck and I wish you the best.
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well trust is the first part of a relationship.. do you trust him? if you do you should take what he said into consideration and rip the other explainations out of your mind.. and if you want to really know the truth the next time you SEE him look him in the eyes and say "I want to know one thing TRUTHFULLY" then ask him the question... tell him to look you in the eye and tell you what he's gonna say .. because it would be hard for him to lie while looking you straight in the eye.. to sum it all up just ask yourself if you trust him.. and if it's a yes then go with his explainion and if not.. go with the others... hope i helped.. =) if you need antying else just let me no
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