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True Love
Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.
He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.
ill rate ya if the advice is good.
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Hey, sup? Its really surprising, but I actually went through the same thing your going through right now. Honestly if i were you I would approach him in person and let him know how you feel. I understand that you might be shy and a little embarrased, but I'm also aware that he'd think that you really had guts to tell him face to face. If he tells you that he feels that same than def. exchage sn's and so forth..If he says that he doesn't feel the same towards you than: Option A> You could tell him that your fine w/ being friends and still get his sn. Option B> Avoid him for the rest of the time you'll be in camp. I mean it seems like your leaving soon anyway. Good luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want it 2. Xo
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Well you can ask him if he's got AIM or email or both cause you think he's really cool and would like to still talk to him after camp! Look/Watch his body language when he is around you if it's kinda flirty if he is close to you or comes up w/ ways to talk or see you then he likes you! You have to remember guys are human to and they are scared to say how they feel to cause they don't want to get hurt either so sometimes you have to make the move first and tell him and if he is really the nice guy like you say then he will say how he feels too! It shouldn't matter what skin color you are!! Hope this helped!!
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Its simple really. Tell him you want to keep in touch and give him your information. He will contact you or not. If he does, you know he likes you AND you have his information. :)
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if he thinks your friends then he wont think its weird for you to ask him for his screenname. if you really want to hook up with him and your too shy to tell you could get one of your friends to see if he likes you. then if he likes you getting his information wouldnt seem weird cause you bth like eachother. also when your shy in these situations just think...whats the worst tht could happen.plus this is a good sitution cause if he rejects you (which he wont) you wont see him again..i no this isnt alot of help but mabe you could im me so i could get somemore informaion about both of you guys..
screenname~denajah5
email~soclosebut2far@yahoo.com
hope i could be f some help
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It is very likely that he feels the same way about you. Since he is being nice and all. Instead of saying to him that you will miss HIM, why not say that you will miss his company, or his good advice, or his smile, or his jokes, or something like that. And then say, I wish we could stay in touch. then see if he gives you his email address. And then give him yours. If you send him the first email, try to keep it up beat. Don't say you miss him, just talk about your first week back home, etc. See if he writes back, something just as "unimportant". It is better if you both stay off the subject of "being in love" until you both get to know each other better, and email is a great way. Relationships are hard enough between two people of the same race, never mind people of different race. Get to know each other first as friends, and live with that idea for a while before you explore the other possibilities. To fall in love, you would both have to be very strong and confident personalities to make it work. But you can always be friends, no matter what.
HOpe this helps.
GOod luck to you.
Michele
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to get his email or IM you could be like
"we seriously need to keep in touch. whats your screenname and email address?"
yes i no its that simple. and i mean you could just ask him what he thinks of you or have a friend do it. thats what i always do.
hope it helps and hit my inbox if you ever need anything
xox megan
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YES! You are completely right. DO NOT send a messenger to him. That is the worst you can do. Just get a lot of people's sn's and email addresses that day and just ask him. I promise. It isn't weird! GOod Luck! <33
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You can ask his friends what his email or IM is, so you don't have to have them ask him, or if you bump into him you can ask him. But if you DO decide to call him, you can just ask casually, "do you have im?" or "do you have an email address?" and then say, "can i have it? I'm asking a lot of ppl for theirs so we can all keep in touch." He won't think think your an idiot because guys aren't insensitive jerks. It's alot easier to ask if you know him previously, or if he has other connections that you could find out easily, like xanga and myspace.
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