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:.Hey x3My name is Emily and blah blah blah.
:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.
:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.
:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.
:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.
:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.
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Hey. I'm a 16 year old girl and want to write a book by the time I'm 25. I want to write a book because I want to help people find themselves and discover what true beauty is etc...Anyways, I guess my question to you is how could I go about that? Where do you publish books and what kind of books would be appealing to you... Do you think people would buy high school drama or self-help books? Any information would help. Thanks alot
Well, I think that you should definitely write what appeals to you. Pick a topic you want to write about and think about a way to convey it. Don't think of the hardness but rather how you would like to write it. IT doesn't matter if the person next to you doesn't like your writing style because someone out there is bound to enjoy your book later on. The key to writing is to write about/in a way that appeals to you and not to satisfy anyone else.
There is this site called storywrite.com and it's truly a great site. I'm on there everyday [my name on there is Im The Black Parade] Anybryars, I'm sure that you can use that site to get inputs and comments on your story or chaptered sotries, etc. The site is packed with readers and writers so it might be a great help to you =)
Also about the publishing, try looking up online and find if there is a publisher near you or ask a school administrator =)
Good luck!!!
Ok, I don't know if this is in the right category, but skin probs can be under health right? Anyway
I got this new skin care product because my friend tried it and it worked great on getting rid of her blackheads and stuff like that. So she ordered some for me, and it has worked, and I've washed my face with it 3 times. After the 2nd time I saw some(not much) of dry skin, and my skin was flakey(sp). And I washed my skin a 3rd time and my skin is more flaky, and I went and put Moisturizer from my new skin care thing and it didn't work, I had some old moisturizer from this Almay wash and it used to work, and I think it helped some. But I was wondering if my flaky skin could be from my new skin care thing or it is because of how hot it got outside and also could it be from I used to wash my skin with not burning hot but pretty hot water to lukewarm?(My skin can be put in hot water without getting really dried out) Thanks in advance!
Well, the first thing is DO NOT wash your face 3 times a day. You should only wash it twice a day with lukewarm water. No cold. Not hot. No almost hot but not really hot to lukewarm water temperature water.
It will probably be because of the product. Your skin isn't use to being washed with that product. So stay away from it until your skin gets normal. Then start using it once everyday and when it's sorta better, use it twice a day. Don't scrub your face but massage it gentely. After you use it, put on oil free moisturizer [make sure it won't clog pores]. Try avoiding the sun too because most of those types of products don't work well with the sun [they make your skin very dried out/give you sunburns/tans etc]
IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!!!!!oh yeah and i didnt have sex!!the stupid pregnancy test was wrong!
ok why do all of you think that i had sex willingly i could have been raped......but i am still a virgin just to let you know but i was getting symptoms of pregnancy so i thought i was.....so i took the test twice and it said i was so i asked what to do and i aprriciate all of your answers!!but i went to the docter and she said i wasnt but had no clue why i had the symptoms!and thank you again for supporting me with your answers!!
heres a real question now:
my mother always gets on my nerves how do i stop that?i also asked her to be serious with me but shes always being stupid i hate it!what do i do?
Um...okay...thank you for that lovely announcment but I'm sure that most people here have no clue as to what you're talking about.
Anybryars. You need to specify. It's like asking someone "I'm in the middle of the ocean. Can you come get me?" Just sit her down one day and list the things that she does that gets on your nerves. Talk to her calmly and nicely. If she doesn't listen to you, tell her "That is exactly what you do. I can't talk to you if you're not willing to listen and I can't listen to you if you don't listen to me" or something like that. Just get her to listen, talk to her calmly, and etc.
ok so yeah i have this problem....i'm not really fat or anything , but the fat that i do have is placed all wrong. my legs are really fat , around my hips i'm really skinny , but i've got fat at my stomach , and my uper arms. it's really anoying me. are there any simple exsersises i can do at home? cuz i don't have a fitnessstudio nearby , and there arent any oportunities 2 run either.
please help!!!
Hmm, if you can't run, that would be a little iffy. You need to do aerobics to get rid of excess fat first--then do specific exercises to really trim down/get fit.
Buy an aerobics video if you can and do it at home. TRY and run a mile 3 times a week and slowly increase your speed/amount. Running will definitely help you with your leg problems.
Pull ups, flexarm hang, push ups, curl ups, squats, lunges, and all those stuff will definitely help you.
Here are two good sites:
http://www.military.com/NewContent/0,13190,Smith_051904,00.html
http://www.foodanddiet.com/NewFiles/thighs.html
And remember--getting fit doesn't mean exercise. It means exercise and healthy diet too. So cut out junk food and stick with healthy, fresh veggies and what not. Don't skip meals. Drink lots of water...don't indulge yourself wiht carbs and fat =)
Ok my friend just turned 15. last yr. she was a little over weight, in aug. (when we returned to school) she looked great she lost a few pounds. however she was still losing weight until she is basicly skin and bones. in dec. her parents took her to a doctor because they suspected something. She has to go every 6 weeks for a weigh in. Every visit she weighed less, and according to her nothing felt wrong and she was eating alot and NOT throwing up. The test showed nothing either. They said if she didnt stop she would have to go to a therapist.
However, last week (Fri) she went to the stomach dr. and was put on medication. she and her bff said it was some disease that makes her throw up her food. i asked (to her BFF not her):"Is she bulimic?" She said no.
What else could it be? I mean to be frank, her BFF is very controlling and they only hang out with each other 24/7. She is hardly ever at home. She spends breaks/weekends/afternoons with her and her cousin, who is also losing wieght. She is also home alone for several hours after school and she could be doing stuff.
So basicly is there some other disease or what?
I don't know if there is an actual disease that makes people throw up but anybryars.
ED are common among teenage girls with all the tabloids telling people what they should look like: impossible.
If she is bulimic, there should be several signs that the doctors would've detected like brittle hair/nails. Blueish/grayish colored nails [lack of nutrition], bite marks on her fingers, worn out teeth [from stomach acid], etc. If they don't find any, I'm not sure if she would have an ED [unless this is recent].
You should suggest to her mom that she see a nutritionist so they can plan meals/exercise programs together to get her back on track. And try to spend more time with her but do NOT assume she has an ED of any sort until you have solid proof that says "She has an ED" Because she could be going through really hard stuff that's putting her under constant stress. Anybryars, good luck to you and your friend =)
at the moment i feel really down and depressed.i have been feeling this way for weeks.i just hate my life.i have to my mam but she just says how coukld a 13 year old girl be depressed/what do you have to be depressed about?the thing is i dont know why i feel depressed i just do.i really hate my life.i start crying for no reason.i feel fat and ugly.and your proberly going to say its because im a teenager and all teenagers feel this way.my friends arent the way i am.ya they dont like things about them.but i just really really hate my life.sometimes i feel like why on earth am i alive.i have no reason to be.i dont get alongf with my sisters abd im always fighting with my parents.why am i like this?please help me?13/f
Your mother is wrong to think that a 13 year old can't be depressed. I've been deperessed since 5th and I've attempted several suicides since then.
If your mom gives sh*t about you, she should be concerned and take you to a clinic or a doctor and see if you are clinically depressed. If you feel hopeless, worthless and feel like not living for weeks [24/7], then you are either depressed [chemical inbalance] or you're suffering from keeping up frustration and what not bottled in for too long. Tell your mom that.
i heard the ddr is a fun way to burn calories and work out ..is this true? and if so, how effective is it, how long do i have to play for? and are there other ways to exercise that are fun and you don't really notice you're actually exercising, like playing ddr?
Swimming--you have fun but you don't realize you're burning fat...that is if you're actually going to swim and like swimming.
Dance like a maniac to songs that you like XD
DDR does have you jumping around [if you play the advanced songs]. There is a mode called "Work Out" [I believe] and you can pick that. Once you pick that, it will ask you how much calories you will want to burn. You pick the amount of calories you want to burn and you just start DDRing. After each song ends, it will tell you how much calories you have burned. And you just keep playing until you reach the amount of calories you want to burn. Unless you play it for hours straight, it's not as effective as doing real exercises like running and pilates and such. But it's pretty nifty =) But the thing is that if you don't already have it, it's pretty pricey. And I don't know if the ones at the arcades have the Work Out mode. And if you don't have the hard pads, it's kind of annoying because the pads slide around [I have a styrofoam one & they work well].
Good luck =)
13/f
Tonight I'm going to a mixed boys and girls sleepover, and the guy I fancy is going to be there. I want to look good, but I can't be too dressed-up because it's a sleepover, not a party. Also, I would like to wear something a little rock chick.
So my question is, what should I wear?
Thanks in advance, xxx
If you're a skirts person:
Wear jean skirt. Plaid. Black skirt that's a little frilly. Not tight or puffy or anything.
If you're a jeans person:
Get some jeans that has been acid washed, ripped, torn, or have patches in some places. Any color you desire.
On the top, match a t-shirt and a spaghetti strap top to go on top of the t-shirt. Add wristband, bracelets, beads, etc. Wear a ribbon on your head if you want. As for the shoes, wear sneakers, flip flops...whatever. Converse are pretty but if you don't have them, don't go out and buy them. Anybryars.
For pj's, get a cute pj bottom and get another spaghetti strap shirt to wear on top =)
I am a 19 year old female trying to lose 20 pounds. I am pretty set on healthy eating plans, and I do 4-6 days of 40 min cardio a week (usually elliptical with a mix of bike, or running sometimes) but i want to incorporate weight training into this. I don't want to bulk up, I just want to have slight toning and less "jiggle." Would 3 days of lower body and 2 days of abs/upper body be a good plan? Suggestions are needed!
Yes but vary it from time to time because your body will get use to a regular routine. So switch it up with different exercises/duration/vigor/routine so your body will be more likely to burn more fat =)
Eating is a very important part too so don't minimize the importance of it!!
Good lucckkk!!!!!
my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!!
If she's on the pill, she should be pretty safe but still to be sure, have her get a pregnancy test done a week or two later...go to a clinic or get a PT
OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
Well, she's probably very proud of attracting so many guys. I don't know how long she's been doing this but if it continues on for the next week, just tell her straight on that you are NOT jealous but it's getting annoying. Ask her how she would feel if you bragged about the same thing over and over agian incessantly. Meanwhile, just tune out and try to change the subject. If she doesn't get the point, then, well, just tell her straight on that well, what I said above.
Good luck =) And if she persists, I'm always online
I used to be really good friends with this guy I go to school with. We're still friends but I get the vibe he doesn't care about me anymore. I really like him, and have for months but never said anything because I was afraid of ruining our friendship. Now he has a girlfriend that he is always with and always talks about when he isn't with her. He doesn't pay attention to me anymore and never starts up a conversation with me. He doesn't ask to hang out anymore and even when I ask, he is always going to see his girlfriend. I have a small jealous hate for this girl and she has changed him so much.
I still like him but hate him at the same time. I don't know what to do and I don't want to like him but he is amazing and I can't help it. How do I either become good friends with him again or completely forget about him?
Well, having a gf/bf can change a person dramatically or not at all. It seems like he's really into this girl and you don't want to break it up, right? He is your friend, listen to him, support him, an dbe happy for him. It's understandalbe that most of his focus had turned to his gf but that's normal. He might not even notice what his doing...probably isn't.
You, him, and his gf should just all hang out one day. Just invite them over to your house or go to their house and talk. You might even grow to like his gf. And then your outlook will change. You're just jealous right now and you don't want a little jealousy to get in the way of a good friendship.
So meet his gf, get to be friends with her. If he lieks her, you should like her too. Erm, yeah. Then one day just call him up and ask if he can talk. If yes, talk. If no, write him a note. Say something along the lines of "Your gf seems cool" and "We're still bff's right?" and "It feels like I haven't been able to just hang out with you alone in a long time" and "We should hang out sometime soon...alone"
Good luck =)
15 f
Ok so my boyfriend was having a sweet 16. Today and I went with my best friend whose his cousin. It was so hard to convince my mom because I was grounded the day before and so I could go to the party I increased my punishment to a month! So when I got to the party he kissed me and greeted me. That was all. then he went back to his friends. So I also saw him sitting next to a girl and offcourse I got jelous so he came and asked me if I wanted to dance and I said no so he danced with his cousin. I was also with my sister at the party (she's 17) she said she felt unconfterable and she wanted to go. So I called my bf over and asked him where was the train. So he tried to explain and he ended up telling us that he would take us. I got so excied becase finally I could spend some alone time with him.So when we were leaving we went outside and he was about to take us then my friend said "ill go with him to walk you guys" then someone called him inside and he went and came back and said he wasn't going to walk me anymore. So I ended up going with 2 of his bestfriend and my other friend. I'm thinking about braking up with him because he left me and didn't take me to the train it was like he didn't care about me. Why were his friends walking me? He should of? I am really mad. Am I just overreacting like maybe he didn't want to leave his guests alone? Should he have taken me to the train station? But in the party I didnt feel like he was paying enough attention to me. Should I brake up with him? Please tell me if I am overreacting or not? Thanks! Sorry if it was long!
You know the trite phrase "The world doesn't revolve around you"? Well, the world doesn't revolve around you. It was his 16th birthday and since everyone's sweet 16th birthday is so freakin special, he was probably very distracted. I mean everyone would be distracted at their own birthday regardless of what age they were turning. It is their birthday, one day that they can have the world focus on them. Well, people they know anybryars.
So, he was just probably talking to the girl, no biggie. I mean, he's not breaking the law by talking to another girl other than you. You talk to other guys, right? Doesn't mean you're cheating on him or anything. Erm, righto. Anytoros, about him not taking you and rather his friends taking you, chillax. There is an explanation:
It's his birthday, right? Who would want to leave their own birthday party? Who would be willing to leave their birthday party, nonetheless their own, to take their gf to the train statione [or wherever he was planning to take you]. You should actually be thankful to him that he even offered to take you and leave his own party. So his friends didn't want the birthday boy to miss out on his own party and offered to take you guys and let your bf enjoy his birthday.
So be happy. People would want a bf like yours...someone who'd even care a little about their own gf during their big birthday. So the next time you see him, clarify with him that you were a little jealous and that's why you said no when he asked you to dance...and do not break up with him!
Duno wat catorgary to put in lol
but ii need help well the other dya right
i was in bed but i asnt sleep light were closed and all anyways right when i was in bed ii couldnt move and i could hear these sounds like whoosh whoosh whoosh like wind and then all of a sudden it weent black and white blacka dn white flashing inf ron of my eyes im so scared please some one tell me whta is it please friends said it wasa ghost some said devil i duno im really scared pelase help
Okay, how do I explain this:
You were sleeping but aware of what is going on in your surroundings. So, you were sleeping and you could hear sounds going on around you and so you believed that you were awake when really you were sleeping and dreaming the flashing things. That's happened to me several times before so don't spaz. It wasn't a ghost or a devil coming to take over your body.
It was like a dream while you were aware of your surroundings...bleh. Chillax =)
I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)
Thanks!
Whenever you have sex for the first time, there is not possible way to avoid breaking your hymne "popping your cherry" so yes, your cherry probably did pop.
It's normal to be sore and bleed slightly after your first time...but if it continues to be sore [pain increases] over the next several days and if you keep bleeding, you might want to go to a clinic and get it checked out. And you don't have to worrry about them telling your parents.
~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other. my life is very messed up i hate it hes all i really had.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
this happened on friday and we still havent talked were bffs. what should i do?
To the "his style changing" thing, friends rub off on friends and he might just be getting some influence from you.
Well, here's a question to answer your bf or bff question: would your hug him or kiss him? Which are you more comfortable doing? Also, are you willing to sacrifice a good friendship such as this one and go out with him?
I can't tell you if he likes you or not because I don't know him nor have I even met him nor am I him. So, I think you should just straightout tell him that you like him instead of playing a cat and mouse game. Just tell him "I think I like you more than a friend and I was wondering if you do too." or if there is a school dance coming up, aks him to it. If he says no and says he sees you only as a friend, back out of it saying that you couldn't find someone so you thought you two would go together as firends but guess ont.
But my best advice for you is to tell him directly yourself "I like you more than a friend, I think" or somehting like that. Go out with him. See what it feels like. If it's awkward, remain friends. If not, pursue it.
How do you kiss...hmmm well, it will come naturally. Just let him take the lead and follow what he does. There is not guidelines as to how people kiss. You just sort of go with the flow and get used to it naturally and figure it out yourself.
You can tell your mom directly or indirectly by just dropping hints here and there. You should just approach her one, regualr, normal, blunt day and say "I like so and so" and just start with that. If you don't want to, don't. If you want to, go ahead.
;) Good luck
Ok, one of my bff's(Let's pretend her name is Casey) is 15 and...let's just say she doesn't have that much self confidence, and she doesn't believe in herself. She always has a baby voice like "Wait...wait for me." or she'll repeat things over and over, and sometimes when I'm talking to someone else, she'll poke me and say the same thing the other person said to me. She doesn't act mature for her age, because(to me and my other bff(let's pretend her name is Dani) she hasn't had anything happen to make her be more mature, you know?) and both me and Dani agree that she is getting annoying because of that. I told her already that she doesn't have that good of self confidence, and that me and Dani will help her get and I told her I had a book that would help, but I remember when I read them they didn't help me that much. So can anyone help me try to get her confidence up? and to get her to be more outgoing? If this helps, her personality is like shy, doesn't like speaking in class, speaks really quietly, and stuff like that! Thanks for your help in advance!(Sorry if this was long!)
What you are asking us is to change her. I mean the way she could be acting might not have anything to do with her self confidence. Everyone matures and grows at different paces and people should accept that. Anybryars--take her to a party. Get friend get together type things and have her participate. Have her join a team like debate team or forensics team [forensics team helped me a lot]. Erm, just have her do something that requires a lot of talking. Take her to parties, hang with friends, join teams, etc.
how many carbs fat and calories does rice have? please tell me like how much like 1 cup two cups and yeah..
second.. is pasta
and third is does fruits make u fat? thans!!!!
Well, it all depends on what type you're talking about. They can be raw or cooked. White or brown. Whole grain and what not.
Here are 2 sites that are really helpful:
http://www.craftmax.com/calories/
http://www.calorielab.com/
As for the fruits, they have natural sugar in them and you can't avoid them. Fruits are an essential part of your diet so don't cut them out compeltely but regulary eat a sufficient amount. Not all fruits are fattening but if you overindulge yourself with them, then yes, they can make you fat but not significantly--not as much as a cookie that has the same amount of calories. So eat the right amounts of fruit and you will be fine =)
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i really really like him and i think i even may be in love the thing is even though we clearly love each other it's just that my family on my dad's side is really racist and they found out about the fact that iam dating roosevelt and the thing is he's black and iam white please don't give me any more lectures about only dating people in my own race i don't think i can take another lecture on interracial dating iam on a verge of a nervous breakdown right now so i really need your help.
I've already broken up with him 3 times and i don't think neither of us can take another breakup becouse yesterday i was actually crying on his shoulder at school so we started going back out again but i really don't know what to do please help me.
p.s racist people suck.
There are always going to be biasts, homophobes, and racist no matter where you go. The best thing for you to do is this right now.
Your family is going to have to understand that racism is stupid and pointless. People are people and that is that. They need to let you go out with whoever you want and they shouldn't limit your choice with race. Tell them that if they can't accept the fact that you're dating with another guy from another race, they're going to have to deal with it. Tell them that you're not going to be talking about him or bringing him to your house often and that if they don't like it, they should ignore it because you're not shoving it in their face.
IF that doesn't work, keep going out with this guy. If people let racism break up their relationships, no relationship in the world will work. You don't have to inform your family that you're going out with him. Meanwhile, try to persuade them with the fact that racism needs to be gone. If all else fails, then..well, ask someone else for plan B
14/f
since arond the middle of feburary ive been eating healthier and trying to give up sweets and junk. the past half a month ive actually been eating 3 meals and healthy snacks inbetween. i gave up sweets for lent and i dont eat any junk food anymore. i am eating well and i havent cheated at all. i think i lost a few pounds because my scale said i was around 120 but now its more like 115ish? i also have a thinner stomach and a few friends told me i looked skinner which is good. im just curious though, i havnet goten my period in over a month. i got it last feburary 15ish and its not here yet. my period is really weird at times, like one day it will be heavy and the other its not even therre (its normal for me though). but its really late and im curious that it might be because of my new eating style?
Well, eating can definately affect your period but what you're doing shouldn't affect it too much. considering that you're only 14, your periods are bound to be very irregular. I sometimes had times where mine would skip 2 months at a time.
If you're picking up on exercise, lack of sleep, stress, differed eating habits, your period will be affected. If your period doesn't come in another 2 months [by the end of May], go see a doctor and see what's up