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Ignorant friend doesn't care anymore
I used to be really good friends with this guy I go to school with. We're still friends but I get the vibe he doesn't care about me anymore. I really like him, and have for months but never said anything because I was afraid of ruining our friendship. Now he has a girlfriend that he is always with and always talks about when he isn't with her. He doesn't pay attention to me anymore and never starts up a conversation with me. He doesn't ask to hang out anymore and even when I ask, he is always going to see his girlfriend. I have a small jealous hate for this girl and she has changed him so much.
I still like him but hate him at the same time. I don't know what to do and I don't want to like him but he is amazing and I can't help it. How do I either become good friends with him again or completely forget about him?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, having a gf/bf can change a person dramatically or not at all. It seems like he's really into this girl and you don't want to break it up, right? He is your friend, listen to him, support him, an dbe happy for him. It's understandalbe that most of his focus had turned to his gf but that's normal. He might not even notice what his doing...probably isn't.
You, him, and his gf should just all hang out one day. Just invite them over to your house or go to their house and talk. You might even grow to like his gf. And then your outlook will change. You're just jealous right now and you don't want a little jealousy to get in the way of a good friendship.
So meet his gf, get to be friends with her. If he lieks her, you should like her too. Erm, yeah. Then one day just call him up and ask if he can talk. If yes, talk. If no, write him a note. Say something along the lines of "Your gf seems cool" and "We're still bff's right?" and "It feels like I haven't been able to just hang out with you alone in a long time" and "We should hang out sometime soon...alone"
Good luck =)
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Talk to him. Walk up to him and say 'hey there stranger'
After that, hang out with him more. Maybe even with his girlfriend.
You cannot force someone to love you but you can tell him your feelings. You never know how it may turn out. Give it a try.
But being brutally honest, he has a girlfriend...that's not the right time to explode your feelings.
-Jennifer
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Ok, well, yound lady...what does this teach you? SPEAK UP. Don`t jusst let some other girl come in because that WiLL happen; that`s life. Well, you can let him know how you feel, and if he feels the same way, then GREAT! You guys can go out. However, if he tells you he doesn`t like you in that way, then just be all, oh yeah that`s cool.
& don`t be hurt.
because this DUDE is probably retarded, just like all the other teenage boys in the world.
Also;
tell him how you feel about him ALWAYS blwing you off for his girlfriend.
Hope I helped!
<3L.
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