my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!!
Additional info, added Wednesday April 11 2007, 12:35 am: she is on the pill and she did take her dose today. she will be kicked out of her family if she is pregnant please help
the pill shes on is at the highest level her body can take
p.s and what if i did cum?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LadyH answered Sunday April 8 2007, 9:56 pm: In your additional info, you stated she's on birth control & took her dose today. Well this is what you need to ask her: Has she taken it within the same few hours, every single day for the past week or two? If the answer is yes, then the likeliness of her becoming pregnant is pretty slim when a) birth control is 99% effective with PERFECT use. b) you did not cum inside her (although you can still get pregnant from precum.) & c) you used a condom with spermicide. With those 3 cases, it's very unlikely she could get pregnant. But like I always say, if there's any chance - I suggest your girlfriend goes to a local Planned Parenthood clinic within 72 hours after sex. In my area, they have emergency contraception (the morning after pill) for $28. (May be less or more depending where you live.) If she's over 18, she can get it over the counter within minutes. I don't know the process of getting it when you're under 18, but it's still available! It's better to be safe than sorry. So don't assume anything; take the extra precautions while you can. [ LadyH's advice column | Ask LadyH A Question ]
AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Sunday April 8 2007, 9:55 pm: I'm going to be completely honest with you.
She's not pregnant. If her period just ended today, that's one reason. It's more then likely impossible for a girl to get pregnant while she's on her period. If she's on the pill, then you really shouldn't have anything to worry about. It's great that you used both the condom & the pill. It's really smart and most people don't do that. Don't worry about it though seriously. She won't be pregnant & you can hold me to that, I promise. [ AMYGWENDOLiNExO's advice column | Ask AMYGWENDOLiNExO A Question ]
cheney232 answered Sunday April 8 2007, 9:48 pm: well it actually dpends. although you may not have cummed in side of her if the condom broke while you were doing you cant be sure, the chances are she isnt but just wait a while to see if her period pass's in the mean time just stay calm because there isn o use stressing your self out about it, and if she was on her period when you guys did it odds are shes not [ cheney232's advice column | Ask cheney232 A Question ]
Diane_Delilah answered Sunday April 8 2007, 9:38 pm: TELL HER TO TAKE THE FUCKING MORNING AFTER PILL NOW, she should be fine. JUSt be really careful. It should take liek a day to get. Good luck that happened to my best friend the 1st time she had sex. Scarriest shit of my life. [ Diane_Delilah's advice column | Ask Diane_Delilah A Question ]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Sunday April 8 2007, 9:14 pm: since she took the pill, she will probably be fine. dont stress about it. but next time.. be a little gentler so it doesnt break lol
xox hope i helped [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
lbwhite89 answered Sunday April 8 2007, 7:37 pm: The chance that she is pregnant given the fact that you didn't cum in her and she is on birth control is very small. However, she should buy a few pregnancy tests and do it a couple times over the next few weeks.
Like I said, the chance is small, but it's still there. If you were in the middle of having sex, even if you didn't ejaculate inside her, your pre-cum probably got inside her and that contains sperm too. Also, the day her period stopped probably isn't the best time to have sex because of the chance of the condom breaking. If she didn't take her birth control yesterday (like if she was on the placebo week before today), there's a chance of pregnancy.
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