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am I overreacting or not?
15 f
Ok so my boyfriend was having a sweet 16. Today and I went with my best friend whose his cousin. It was so hard to convince my mom because I was grounded the day before and so I could go to the party I increased my punishment to a month! So when I got to the party he kissed me and greeted me. That was all. then he went back to his friends. So I also saw him sitting next to a girl and offcourse I got jelous so he came and asked me if I wanted to dance and I said no so he danced with his cousin. I was also with my sister at the party (she's 17) she said she felt unconfterable and she wanted to go. So I called my bf over and asked him where was the train. So he tried to explain and he ended up telling us that he would take us. I got so excied becase finally I could spend some alone time with him.So when we were leaving we went outside and he was about to take us then my friend said "ill go with him to walk you guys" then someone called him inside and he went and came back and said he wasn't going to walk me anymore. So I ended up going with 2 of his bestfriend and my other friend. I'm thinking about braking up with him because he left me and didn't take me to the train it was like he didn't care about me. Why were his friends walking me? He should of? I am really mad. Am I just overreacting like maybe he didn't want to leave his guests alone? Should he have taken me to the train station? But in the party I didnt feel like he was paying enough attention to me. Should I brake up with him? Please tell me if I am overreacting or not? Thanks! Sorry if it was long!
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i understand he left you because it was HIS party ...his party without him? doesn't sound so good . if the situation was different like, it was someonelse's party and he didn't walk you home i'll brake up with him but maybe not this time...also its normal to feel jealousy when he talks to a girl i mean at least your not like me i would have think something like "oh he stayed at the party probably he'll be dancing with someone else and sent his friends to walk me home so he can be with another girl" i know , stupid . but hey don't get this thing too far understand that was his bday and didn't wanted to leave the party although i understand you would have wanted him to do it :) just tell him that you felt kinda left out the situation and you understand it was his party but also he should apppreciate in al the trouble you got for going to the party :) good luck :) hope i heelped
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i would sleep on the breaking up part for now..
you are overreacting a little bit but its understandable. I think he just didn't want to leave his guests, because it was his birthday party, after all.
hope i helped :)
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You know the trite phrase "The world doesn't revolve around you"? Well, the world doesn't revolve around you. It was his 16th birthday and since everyone's sweet 16th birthday is so freakin special, he was probably very distracted. I mean everyone would be distracted at their own birthday regardless of what age they were turning. It is their birthday, one day that they can have the world focus on them. Well, people they know anybryars.
So, he was just probably talking to the girl, no biggie. I mean, he's not breaking the law by talking to another girl other than you. You talk to other guys, right? Doesn't mean you're cheating on him or anything. Erm, righto. Anytoros, about him not taking you and rather his friends taking you, chillax. There is an explanation:
It's his birthday, right? Who would want to leave their own birthday party? Who would be willing to leave their birthday party, nonetheless their own, to take their gf to the train statione [or wherever he was planning to take you]. You should actually be thankful to him that he even offered to take you and leave his own party. So his friends didn't want the birthday boy to miss out on his own party and offered to take you guys and let your bf enjoy his birthday.
So be happy. People would want a bf like yours...someone who'd even care a little about their own gf during their big birthday. So the next time you see him, clarify with him that you were a little jealous and that's why you said no when he asked you to dance...and do not break up with him!
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You might be overreacting just a teensy bit here. Your boyfriend most likely had a lot of guests to tend to. It would be really rude if he had left his party. In situations like that, it's hard for a guy to constantly give his girlfriend attention.
I'm assuming that, because you think you're overreacting, your boyfriend normally never acts this way. If that's the case, then this was most likely just a big understanding and a one-time thing.
I could see you getting mad at him if he left you to find the train all by yourself, but he didn't. He made sure there was someone there to walk you. When he was called inside, his parents might have told him he wasn't allowed to leave the party.
I don't think this is anything a good talk with your boyfriend can't smooth over.
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Alright, I think you mightve overeacted because, well the reason why he didnt pay a lot of attenti to you is because you didnt want to dance. PLus, maybe you should ask him why he couldnt walk you home before you make conclusions. I don't think you should brake up with him untill you have all the facts. This way, you know what really happened.
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