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I want to make my hair wavy. I already have natural waves, but they aren't that strong, and anyway they're frizzy. My friend uses mousse and scrunches up her hair, and she also uses tongs. I told my mum I wanted to make my hair wavy, but she keeps saying that the only way you can have waves in your hair is to get a perm. It's not, is it?? Because my mate says she's never had a perm. But whatever I say, my mum keeps saying that you can't have wavy hair unless you get a perm, my mum ALWAYS thinks she's right, I can't get through to her. Anyway, how do you make your hair wavy? Please tell me any products/tongs etc that are good, and if there are any sites that tell you how to get wavy hair then I'd appreciate it. I used to curl my hair with tongs, because I did Irish dance competitions. But the curls just fell out like 30 minutes later, so if you know how to actually keep the waves in place, that would be helpful too (I tried tresemme gel spray but that didn't work). Thanks! xo (link)
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You can get what they call a wavy perm..could be the easiest way to go.I do have a site for you to try. The also have a newsletter that you can sign up for.
www.thehairstyler.com
Go to hairstyle articles,on that page go to the art of hairstlying...there is a section on left side of page that says hairstyles with a subcat.on wavy.
Hope this helps.
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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up? (link)
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This is any easy one! You simply tell them that you prefer to keep your private life private.They don't need to know all the details of your life. Something like "I don't kiss and tell" would work too....If ya wanna sound mysterious! Leave it at that, make them wonder.
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I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.
Thanks~ Jessica (link)
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When you are old enough to accept the following responsiblities.....Being a mother,The possibility that you could get a disease that could change your life forever.Think about it very seriously before you do something that changes your life forever.
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My heart is broken. My friends do not speak to me. People at school believe I won't fight back. What do I do when nothign is right anymore? It is impossible to be myself. This world is full critics. You think this is overreacting? You're wrong. I don't know how I go from day to day. All eyes that land on me judge me for what I look like. Well, that is completely incorrect. If only you could hear what they say. It does not make me depressed, It is not the people out there, but in my own home which make me weep at night. My own parents! People accuse me of witchcraft, drugs, cutting, and stealing(among other things that don't even cross my mind). How would you feel if everyone you thought loved you, began to look on you with pity and disgust. It's unbearable! What should I do? My nights are dark, but my days are even darker.
Signed-
Longing for the Stars (link)
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I think you are a bit depressed.Being depressed can also make you feel like the whole world is against you when it actually isn't.I will suggest you get a doctors appointment and have a check up.Don't be affraid to tell how you feel.They won't tell anyone else, they're not allowed to.
Your pretty melodramatic,maybe you should keep a journal. Sometimes it helps to write down what you are feeling.
If you want something diffrent... let me know this.Why are your friends not speaking to you?
What will you not fight back against? What are people saying about you? Why do people pity you? where do they get the idesa that you are cutting etc.? Whats up with parents? Feel free to leave answers in my inbox and maybe can be of more help.
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(Sorry if this turns out really long!) I've only been cutting myself for a little over two weeks but I'm already addicted. I told my boyfriend first because I vent to him a lot. I trust him and he can comfort me. Then later I told my teacher and she suggested for me to talk to my school counselor. My teacher told my parents, too. My mom talked to me but it wasn't about ME, it was about what my sister went through. It wasn't helpful. So I talked to the couselor. She freaked out and kept telling me, "You can't do that! STOP! You have to stop! If you do it again I'll tell the principal!" That is not what I expected from her. It wasn't helpful or encouraging. It was threatening! It almost made me want to cut! Later that day I was sitting alone in the gym slicing the skin on my arms and my Gym/Health teacher saw me and made me go alone in a room with him to talk. He kept telling me that even though life may suck now, it'll get better because I "have a good mind". I didn't think it was helpful either, but I started crying. Everytime I had to talk to someone, I wanted my boyfriend there holding my hand helping me endure it. I feel uncomfotable around everyone but him. One day my teacher actually tried to send me home because I was cutting and crying and miserable. I told her I didn't want to go home, I just wanted to talk to James. (James is my boyfriend.) She said she couldn't let him out of class. I glared at her and wouldn't talk to her. She called my parents and they took me home. The whole time I wanted to scream, "I JUST WANT JAMES!" When I got home I just reread old notes from my bf. He's the only one who can comfort me and it feels like he's the only reason I go on living. Do I depend on him too much? How can I stop cutting if I have nobody to talk to? Please comment or give advice! Sorry so long! (link)
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You need to talk to a diffrent kind of counsler.I can't believe a school counsler would talk to you like that, she needs to think about a career change,
Go to or call you local emergency room at the hospital.Explain it to them and tell them you need to talk to someone. They will take care that you get the help you need.If you are underage you will probably need a parent to be with you.What about Dad? Is he in the picture? Might consider him.
It's great thet you have a good friend like James,but this is really a big deal and he's much to young for you to put the burden of this problem on his shoulders.He might get sick of it pretty soon and move on. You need to get some help before you mess up your life and relationship.
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I have this friend that has a cancer but I dont know wut kind and he was doing really well untill the day of my uncles b_day.
We got a call on the phone that said he wasnt doing to well and that they gave him some medicine that they usually give people who are about to die.
I am so worried wut if he dies and we will never be able to see him again.
He is only 17 years old
HELP WANTED.
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Unfortunatley There is no really good answer to this question.A lot of people die of cancer and there isn't much we can do but love them while they are here.
Not all cancers are fatal either even though they can make a person pretty sick. Sometimes the treatment they get for the cancer makes them extremely sick too. But, they need the treatment and usually feel better when it is all finished.
The main thing I want to tell you is this.Sometimes when a friend is really sick like this we stay away from them because we don't know what to say or how to treat them. Please don't do that. Go visit him and treat him as you always would. Don't be afraid to ask him about his cancer, he may be relieved to talk to you about it.Not talking about it may make him uncomfortable around you.
If the worse happens be happy that you had him for a friend even if only for awhile. You will always remember the good times you had.You will be sad for awhile and that is normal.I'm sorry to hear about your friend.I hope he gets better real soon.
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May 1st I'm going to have to wear a white dress for this really REALLY important thing of my entire life. I've been eatting like a pig beause... I guess its anxiety. Well I want to loose weight. Also, avoid the things that make me gain weight. I was thinking of diet pills but I hear they are REALY bad for you. Anyway, any tips to loose as many weight as I can in less than 2 months? Im not exactly looking for permenant diet plan just... an emergency one. Maybe if I only ate a certain amount of calories... or didn't eat or drink nothing but water... or... did a certain excersice. I don't know. Please pretty please HELP ME! Thank you sooo muh for your time! (link)
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Exercise.Go walking every evening or do something else you like to do...Turn on some tunes and dance yer ass off. Lots of it.Eat normal meals just stay away from junky,salty stuff like chips, cookies desserts....If it's good don't eat it!
My lifesaver is yogurt. If you want something good try the boston cream pie...low fat.
Stay away from pills and quick fixes, I've tried them all and they do not work. Exercise is the big thing.Good luck, weight loss or no I am sure you'll look fab.
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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I had a friend who did this too! I would just zone out until she finally shut up.I never new anyone who could dream of the same person EVERY night.And dream so much that she could talk about it ALL DAY LONG! Unless you want her to get upset all you can do is ignore and hope she gets over it soon.
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hey do you get what this means>>>>>whats your flavor (link)
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cheesecake........with strawberries on top
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ok, my mom an dad have been fighting for like ever.they always swear at each other an stuff.my dad drove away a couple days ago to get away from my mom.thank god he came home.im afraid they r gonna get devorced.i need advice!!! wat shud i do???
sighned,
xxjewlsxx224 (link)
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I have to agree with anubis50. Thats what I would have said myself. Parents sometimes have big fights and that doesn't mean they will get a divorce.Keep that in mind.I'll also add that the reason you should say something is...Sometimes parents get so into fighting that they just forget someone else could be listening.They need it brought to their attention that you overheard and were upset by it.
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I like 2 guys and i dont know what to do because i dont know which one i like more! what should i do? (link)
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Just like them both.Whats wrong with that? Your not married are you?? Really, You've gotta be friends first anyway so be friends with both.You will choose the best of the two if it comes to that.
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Why do guys always have to date popular girls?Why cant they date a regular girls? (link)
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Most are just plain immature.You know, people seem to be afraid to be who they are and do what they want.They want to be part of that popular crowd.Fortunatley most guys grow up a little once they get out into the real world. They are not ALL like that though so hang in there.You just haven't met the perfect guy for you yet!
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our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx (link)
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I don't know why she would be acting that way.Is she all of a sudden better than you because of this party? I think not. She probably met some people that are not in your regular crowd.
My daughter had this problem with a friend in high school.The friend had this notion that if "You are friends with so and so how can you be my friend?" I thought it was crazy then and it is STILL crazy today.But for some reason there are girls out there who still do it.You know what? they eventually get over it if you just go about your business like you really don't give a shit.I hope it works out the way you want it to.
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My friend has just decided that he would like to join the army. I think this is crazy because he is really sensitive and I don't think he could handle it. It doesnt really help matters that I really like like him. I don't want him to go, I'm scared something bad will happen to him or that he'll be killed. I really don't think he should go because of the way he is. What should I say to him to stop him going, I really don't think he would be able to survive it.
Thanx millions for anyone who replies
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If he feels that strongly about it I don't think you'll change his mind. You just have to be strong, write him letters and let him do his thing.I know it is scarey but he needs you to stand behind him not against him. okay?
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this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high. (link)
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need some more info. How old is he? Age can be a big deal for boys if they are 18 and you are not.check out some of the previous questions about that.
All that said be friends.You can be friends without dating.He sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants.I think he probably likes you but maybe he can feel that you are a little more serious than he'd like.I would just sit back and see what happens if it's meant to be it will be.
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Ok, this might be kind of long but here goes...I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we are really getting on eachothers nerves, we fight over little things a lot and its getting old. He's always by my side and following me, hes really clingingy and hes just getting annoying. Don't get me wrong, he is the best boyfriend I have ever had--literally--and the longest relationship, but I just want to be friends right now. I don't want any boyfriend at all, but I have issues with breaking up with people. I don't like to hurt people's feelings I hate makeing people feel bad or cry, and I need some ideas as to how I could break up with him, but let him know I still love him, we still have a very big chance, I just need a break and want to be friends for awhile?
I rate high to answers that don't offend or piss me off.
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You have to be truthful with the guy even if it hurts.Honesty is a big deal in any relationship. Just tell him how you feel, you need a break because your feeling smothered.He will kick up a fuss but he will get over it. Be sure you tell him that you still want to hang around now and then ( if you do) You just need some time without commitments. Good luck to you.
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ok the guy I'm crazy about is also a good friend of mine. And for the last week I've noticed he's been hanging around with B and I thought he liked her a lot. And today I saw him writing a note that and he was asking her out. Then after school I talked to him and said, "So did u give it to her?" and he said "yeah, but it's because I'm being forced into it." and so I asked him what was going on, and he told me that B's friend W has been driving him crazy trying to get him to go out with B, and he's sick of it so he asked her out and really only wants to be friends with B. (which made me really happy by the way... ) so my question is, what should I do now??? (link)
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This could get sticky youngin' Is this B a friend of your's? If so does she like this guy? Are you willing to loose a friend because of this guy? Do you think he may have just told you that a friend wants him to go out with B because you showed an intrest in him? These things you should ask yourself before you go for it.
If B is not a good friend and you think he is being truthful, go get him.
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OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's (link)
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I'm glad you realize that you are to young yet.That it a good sign! At 15 you're going to be curious it just goes with the territory.
The truth is you won't know until it happens if you're going to wait until your married.Sorry, it just kinda happens.
I'm older so I will leave the comments about young girls emotions to the younger advisors. I will tell you that it is an emotional roller coaster no matter what your age, unless you have a heart of stone there is no way around that one!
Curiosity and questions are perfectly normal at age 15 though so carry on as normal!
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if you go to a gyno and you shave is that a bad thing or good thing? what do they say? (link)
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I've worked in a doctors office, They won't say anything. It's not a bad thing so don't give it another thought.
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What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone? (link)
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I know it is hard when a family member leaves home. Your brother is just going out there and living his life and you will one day too. The best advice I can give is for you to get you a big writing pad. Every evening before you go to bed write someting to your brother. When you get a few pages mail it to him. You write a journal and keep him up to date on whats happening too.you may not be able to see him for awhile but you can keep in touch.Writing is really better than a phone call even because you don't have to remember what was said. You can read your letters from him over and over again...he can too. I'm sure he's gonna miss you too.Go buy some paper!
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