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why are guys so picky
Why do guys always have to date popular girls?Why cant they date a regular girls?
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Guys are immature, especially at high school. Most are not ready to be in a strong relationship. They do not want to be outcasts, so they do what their friends do, and date the populars. Who knows, they could like one of the normals. When they go out into the real world, they get more serious, and realize that you date girls that you like, not because of their status in "the food chain."
Hope I helped!
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Well, you are probably not popular because you are not confident. You should build your self esteem, because you are awesome and beautiful and deserve respect. Also, it is the type of guy you are going after. If you are a nerdy girl, like I am, go after a nerdy guy.
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well guys like who they find attractive and confident in themselves...and the popular girls are masters at both of those fields...
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well, not all guys are lyke that, you know? Some guys just like gurls with fake asses and big boobs and stuff. But there are some guys that are sweet and like girls because of their personality, not just because of their looks. Its usually the case that popular girls will be more likely to kiss their boyfriends then regular girls, and that prolly part of it. But dont get too into that stuff cause there will be guys that'll be as sweet as can be. I hope I helped.
xOo Nikki xO
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Are you sure? Anyways, I think its because you notice popular girls more than regular ones. A popular girl is known by everyone, but how can you meet a regular girl or know what her name is?
And I guess that popular girls appear to be more confident, guys like confident girls.
If its not because of that, its probably some shallow guy thingy "oh man your so lucky! youre dating the most popular girl in school!" something like that.
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Sarah f/16
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Good question, but I think I've got the answer. Notice that when you're a child, your clothes don't match, when you play with boys they act the same and they were fun to be around, and then fast forward to about 14. Guys are immature, girls mature, and everyone splits up, and theres more hatrid. More than half of the guys are jerks, because they have to show off, Guys showing off for their friends means the following:
*Dating girls who are known in the entire school, and are pretty, and bitchy.
*Not kissing, because being truly in love is considered pathetic.
*Not talking about the girl, just the ones that are 'hott' and the ones they'd love to see naked and crap.
*And not writing love notes because it is considered completely uncool and gay.
Basically, when you're a teen, you have to choose carefully between guys. But most guys you will find are completely cruel and immature. If a teen guy finds romance in an average girl, so help him, because the rest will think the average girl is stupid and prude. And if that guy kept going with the girl, (he most likely woundn't) People would make fun of him, and no guy wants to be considered sissy like, and mushy just because they are in love. When they get older, they learn that dating average girls that are pretty and unnoticed are the best you will find. So until then, love lives suck. Sorry for the negativity.
-TheTeenGirl
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my boyfriend is (obviously) not dating popular girls, or attempting to date them (as far as i know.)...maybe you're just lookin for the wrong guys. and yeah...they're also lustful and immature and eventually someone will come along who has learned to look past these flaws and is looking for someone worth getting to know (which would be you.) hope i helped! <3
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anonymous -
Guys date popular girls for a variety of reasons:
1. They both hang in the same social group.
2. Popular girls have the admirable social status.
3. Popular girls are confident (which is a great quality in a girlfriend).
4. Popular girls tend to be attractive.
5. Popular girls know how to have fun (guys won't get bored).
Don't stereotype that popular guys never like regular girls cuz it's simply not true. The reason why they never publicly reveal their feelings is because perhaps their afraid of the risk that it might cause to their reputation. Trust me, some popular guys do like average girls.
Throughout my previous school years, I was always the quiet, smart girl. I always got along with everybody, but I was not considered popular (more loner'ish). However, one of the popular guys had a liking to me; how I know is eavesdropping when he was standing with his friends behind me lol. So don't prejudge people, some popular people are really cool (note, the snobby ones SUCK!).
Hope this helps!
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Most are just plain immature.You know, people seem to be afraid to be who they are and do what they want.They want to be part of that popular crowd.Fortunatley most guys grow up a little once they get out into the real world. They are not ALL like that though so hang in there.You just haven't met the perfect guy for you yet!
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Because they are egotistical morons.
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Well, it doesn't matter anyways. Since you're probably in middle school, and no one cares about you in middle school. And when you're actually ready to have a real relationship (the "let us have sex now that we're old enough to buy creams and other useless junk" kind), no one's going to ever see people they knew in middle school anyhow.
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Guys usually date the so-called "popular" girls for one of two reasons:
1. Because the guy is shallow and knows that the girl is "popular" and is only dating her because he knows that it will make him "popular" as well.
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2. Because the popular girl is one of those girls that's popular because she's just really outgoing and easy to get along with and always acts like herself and gets along with everybody and is really confident. Guys like that kind of girl because they know that a girl like that won't make things awkward if they start dating.
Just be yourself, and the right guy will come to you. There's someone out there for everyone.
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because the preps pay them to date them and they give the guys whatever they want so then the guys go out with them and they way to solve this is to kill the preps
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because alot of guys are assholes.
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