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ok, my mom an dad have been fighting for like ever.they always swear at each other an stuff.my dad drove away a couple days ago to get away from my mom.thank god he came home.im afraid they r gonna get devorced.i need advice!!! wat shud i do???
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Don't worry, my parents do the same thing, for about 14-15 years, longer than my age, and they're still together. They just hate eachother. I really would like them to get a divorce, I don't like my dad very much. Just let it happen. If they can't stand eachother, let them divorce. It'll be quiet, and I doubt they'll do what you tell them to do.
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Honestly, there's really nothing you can do. So many parents get divorced. I understand it's hard to cope with. But try to think positive. Think of how your parents could be happier. Some relationships just don't work out, and it's better if they seperate. IF they get divorced, you can go to a therapist to help cope if you need to.
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Some parents get married, and then they just don't like it. It's not your fault, so don't think that. Your parents need there space, and it will actually be O.K if they DO get a divorce.
*Good Luck*
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hey. If your parents are not happy together they should get a divorce. But you will always see them both* Or you could sit them down and talk to them really hard about this..tell them how hard it is on you. I hope it works out for you!! Hope i helped ~<3~Best of luck Michelle
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well, fights happen... all you have to do now is remind your parents how much they love each other, maybe cook dinner for them and leave them alone... Ever seen parent trap?
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Sit them both down and tell them to sort it out between them and get all the secrets out sometimes couples spilt up because its for the best and they stop loving each other
roxie
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I'm sorry, it sucks when stuff like this happens. There really is nothing you can do if they are going to get divorced. Just always remember that it's not your fault.
My parents divorced when I was seven and I found it kinda hard, but you get used to it after a while. And there are some benefits - there's much less arguing. They are often friends after the divorce rather than enemies within the marriage. You kids get more attention because they feel kinda guilty. You get twice as many presents at birthdays and stuff - one from mum, one from dad rather than one from both of them. Excellent bargaining power - if your dad won't let you eat cake before lunch, say 'mum'd let me' and he'll let you :P
If they do get divorced, it'll be really sad and take a lot of getting used to, but it will be OK, I promise! 3/5 of all marriages end in divorce now, 2/5 of those involve kids. Just be there for any brothers or sisters you have and stay strong! If you ever wanna talk to someone who's been through it, just add me on any of those addys on my profile :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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I have to agree with anubis50. Thats what I would have said myself. Parents sometimes have big fights and that doesn't mean they will get a divorce.Keep that in mind.I'll also add that the reason you should say something is...Sometimes parents get so into fighting that they just forget someone else could be listening.They need it brought to their attention that you overheard and were upset by it.
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There isnt anything to do but be concerned. Its normal for people to fight everyonce and awhile, hopefully they wont get divorced. Sometimes people fight over the dumbest things! Just dont think its your fault, thats the worst thing you could do.
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Sorry darling but you can't really do anything. This is between your mom and your dad. It's like a relationship you want to get out of and no matter what anyone tells you, it won't change your mind. The only thing you can do for yourself is make sure you keep in touch with both of your parents and hopefully they can still remain friends for your sake.
♥ Always,
Maria
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Well, maybe you should talk to the parent you feel most comfortable around. Ask them if everything is ok, and ask if they might get a divorce. But don't just go flat out and say, " Are you getting a divorce?". Ask who ever you are asking and be comfortable around them. Say this if you want." Mom, (or dad). You guys have been fighting a-lot lately. And I just wanted to know if everything is ok. Are you guys going to get a divorce or something? Because I really don't want you to!!". You could say that. But you really don't have to.--Hope I helped!!-Sam<3
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Well alot of parents get divorced.. and its not ever good.. um you should talk to them but not at the same time cause that might cause a fight.. jus wait for a right time to talk to em...much luv dez
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I know exacly what you are going through. It was really hard for me when my parents are fighting. My parents even said that they would get a devore. Couple of weeks later they were back to normal. Now they are fine. I'm sure your parents wont get a devorce. They will stop fighting in a lil bit. Just give them time. If it helps maybe you could spend the night at your friends house so you dont have to worry about them as much. I hope everythign works out. x0
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