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I get so nervous!
Okay, I have a problem. I don't know if it's normal or not. I guess I'll start out by saying I'm fairly outgoing and loud. Anyways, my friends and I and some other guys went to this guy Micheal's house today. Micheal's a 9th grader (I'm in 8th) and we were there for like 4 hours without his parents home. Anyways, when basically everyone except one other guy had left, we started cuddling on his bed. He was holding my hand and like rubbing his hand on my stomach and stuff while we were watching a movie and earlier we held hands while I was just sitting on the bed and he was on the floor (his matresses are on the floor) and I don't know, I liked him being there with me and doing stuff with him, but I got so nervous! I don't know why, I just felt kind of awkward. Do any of you get this way too?
P.S. Micheal likes me if that means anything for details.
-Christeena
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i get nervous to but its more like butterflies in my stomach. but if you kno you can trust this person and let them kno you get nervous around them they might go away.
hope i helped
peaches_n_cream552
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As long as you aren't uncomfortable in a bad way, it is normal. Being nervous is normal too, especially if you like the guy, too. Remember, to be careful and don't be pressured into anything you feel you aren't ready for. There is plenty of time for relationships, right now try and enjoy school, friends, and life. I am not saying stop liking him, or ignore him, just make sure you can control yourself and be prepared to use the word 'no' when you feel uncomfortable, in a bad way. Hope this helped ^_^
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if your not used to doing that with guys then yea it would be a little award but thats totally normal and you probly got nervous because you liked him. hope i helped
~jj~
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It's okay to be nervous. You're young and pretty inexperienced in the making out/being in love department, and it's gonna' feel awkward. You're doing weird stuff that you've never done before. Just make sure that you aren't doing anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or anything that you don't feel like you're ready to do. There's a difference between "butterflies-in-your-stomach" nervous and "I'm-not-ready-to-do-this" nervous. And make sure you're not being taken advantage of.
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Well, Sorry Chrissy, but I never had a boyfriend.
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Hey
well this is a dude so this is what i owuld think if i were the guy ok if like i did all this and u seemed like you liked it then i would keep doin this and edventually do more probably make out wit you then if you didnt seem like you liked it i wouldnt do it again i would jus kinda take it slower but for a guy it has to be rele clear if you liked it or not so if you didnt like it and you acted like you did then the next time he does this if he trys to grad your hand or rub you and where you need to jus take his hand and put it back by him or jus b like im goin to get a drink and then he should get that one. lol. OK but if you like it and you are just nervous then you will edventually get used to it and you will want to do more. then this will seem like nothing.
if you want to ask me some more questions then this is mi sn thingy ill help you
ok
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When i first started to be round my boyfriend more i felt awkward like only the first time i was with him then after that i was so comfortable and not nervous anymore...i loosened up and everything..much luv dez
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u should tell him to stop if u dont like it but if u do i dont see the problem
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Hi Sweetie,
Once this guy that told me he liked me and wanted to hook up and stuff got touchy. I haven't really gone though that a lot. Well that time I was okay and everythig a first. But then I when it had been that way for too long I got uncomftrable and moved away. it ws weird how natural it had been one second and then... it got awkward. I guess you have to take things slo.w We were stnding up hen that happened... you took it too fast l.o.l. or so I thik.
Take care. Be good. ~Blessed Be...
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A lot of girls get nervous, especially if they're around the guy they're crushing on. Try to be yourself around him. I'm sure once you start hanging out with him more or spending time with him alone, you'll get more comfortable with him. A lot of girls are shy and nervous at first and this is totally normal.
♥ Krissy
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Of course it is normal! Especially if you know for sure that he likes you or that you like him. A lot of people get nervous because they don't know how to act because now they see a certain someone differently. I know everyone says this, but just be yourself and you will be more comfortable around him.
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to answer your first question some people get nervos I did when my boyfriend did that. It will be okay.
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