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OBSESSED!!
I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!
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try to help her get with the boy an d then maybe once in the reletionship she will lean off all the details and have other things on her mind.even if she would rather just continue crushing let her.it is good to grow seprately."a funny thing with friends is that friends can grow seperate and yet never grow apart"
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Well she is young and she probably gon act like that til she gets her first boyfriend.. jus tell her its kinda annoying after awhile and ask her if she could stop being so Obsessed with guys and calm down jus a lil bit.. much luv dez
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My best friend!! Seriously, she is my long lost twin haha. I love her to death but for most of our friendship she was boy crazy doesn't sound like she was as bad off as your friend but she was pretty bad. If you talked to her about your feelings that's all you can do. If you don't give her the attention she wants she'll realize you are not interested and lessen up her obessesion she'll be afraid of messing up your friendship.
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Yep, my friend is like that too. Next time she gets mad ask her why it's a problem that you want to talk about something else a change. Tell her life shouldn't be about boys. If she gets mad play the "I'm not talking to you game" for a while. It will help her get her priorities (sp?) in check. Or just ask her to try and not talk about boys that much when your with her. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Try to explain to her about the boy, and how you feel when you talk about her. Or just change the subject when she starts gabbing away about him.
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I had a friend who did this too! I would just zone out until she finally shut up.I never new anyone who could dream of the same person EVERY night.And dream so much that she could talk about it ALL DAY LONG! Unless you want her to get upset all you can do is ignore and hope she gets over it soon.
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Its a stage in her life...she will get over it sooner or later
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Shell get over it! thats just life hun she is most likely all caught up in her hormones!
If she turns on you and doesnt hang out with you then she wont be as much of a best friend as she was before. You said you loved her like she was a sister to you but liek most sisters they all growup. She wil get over it trust me!
Hope I helped! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
& hearts; aSK_M3_90
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I think eventually her obsession of boys will go away to where you two can talk about other things! Don't worry, you won't lose her. I think it's a stage every girl goes through! I went through it in 6th grade but now I can have conversations other than guys!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Well I would just go with the flow and do the mhm... yup... ok... cool... I see.. That will show her your bored with hearing about him and that she is getting boring to talk to cuz that is all she ever talks about. Thats a good remedy and works for me whenever i hear constant stuff so give it a shot-trix
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I don't know. I don't hang around stupid people like that (mostly.) Whack the back of her head or something.
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Well, if you're friend likes someone. Support her. You probabley will get to that point as well. So, the next time u see her, tell her that you're glad for her and tell her that it's impossible for anyone to not like her.
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Yeah, there are alot of people like that. My sister is totally like that. She loves to talk about her boyfriends and crushes. I don't really like to, but I just listen and nod and then I'll change the subject to something that I like to talk about. When she keeps going back to it, I just tell her that I don't really wanna talk about it and if we could talk about something else. Same with my best friend, since she's dating a guy and she's in love with him and he's cheated on her. I try to tell her and she won't listen, so we just don't talk about it, but she's still my friend. You won't loose your friendship over a guy if it's a true friendship. Just tell her how you feel. Be honest and everything should be fine.
Good luck with it, Elle.
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It's alright hun, calm down a bit. You're not going to lose her over a guy. She just started the crushing stage and so will you. Something every girl goes through. Of course she's going to be crazy over this guy because it's her first crush. And she's going to talk about him none stop, but the best thing to do is listen to what she has to say. I know it may be annoying, but your her friend and that is what friends do; listen to one another. And when she gets her heart broken (if she does), always be there for her. She's going to need you. Remember: Guys only last for so long, but friends are forever!
♥ Krissy
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Some people are just like that, when they like somone it's all they think about. Maybe when she's talking about him, chnge the subject.
Good Luck, Rox.
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Just talk let her talk about it. Most people will not stop talking about someone if they like them it's natural. Get use to it because you will have everyone of your friends like that sooner or later including your self.
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okay um thats jusy natural me and my friends do that all the time all you have to do is talk to her about it and act intersted and she will get over it ..everyone goes thu a stage like that
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