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Hi. My name's Roxi, or Rox, and I'm 15. I live in New York, and I have a boyfriend named Jacob who means everything and more to me. We've been together since 8th grade, and I'm in 10th now. When I graduate I'm planning to go to Yale, Brown, or NYU. I'm not sure of my carrer choice yet, but I'll figure it out soon, since I'm going to need to. I have brown hair, and blue eyes, no contacts or glasses. I have 1 sister and 1 brother. My sister is Jenna, 13 and my brother is Matt, 15. My mom is a single parrent, the age of 30. My so called father left after he found out my mother was pregnant at the age of 15. I barley talk to him maybe 5 times per year. The only present Matt and I get from him is $250 on our Birthday, Christmas, and Easter. My sister, isnt from "my father", she's from John. He was Matt & I's father figure, untill he'd found out he'd gotten my mom pregnant. Up and out he went. He talks to Jenna often though, lucky for her. I guess I'm done rambling on about my life. Now I'll try and help yours.

some people care too much.. i think its called love - winnie the pooh

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How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone?

A. When they go against you
B. When your become farther apart
C. When you constantly fight

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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!

Some people are just like that, when they like somone it's all they think about. Maybe when she's talking about him, chnge the subject.
Good Luck, Rox.

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I like 2 guys and i dont know what to do because i dont know which one i like more! what should i do?

..Talk to them, and either pick one and get to know them better, see if either of like you, or just talk to them, and see wich one's personality, ect.. you like better.
Good Luck, Rox.

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ok well there is this boy at school that i like a lot! but ive already gone out with him and his brother. I havent seen his brother, Randy, in 3 years.but his brother,Travis, goes to my school.his brother hasnt even talked to me and its been 3 months hes been going to the same school as me. but if i ask him out and go to his house and Randy is there how can i tell randy that im with his brother and not him?i want to let it down easy on him, ok. **** i rate**** 5 if really good

Well, do you really like him enough, to possibly cause trouble?
If you dont, I'd probally just let it go.
But, if you do, and tell him, just be truthful. Hopefully he'll understand..

Good Luck, Rox.

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I like one of my friends [who is a qirl by the way] as more than just friends. She knows I'm bi, and we joke all the time about hooking up. She also said that after she gets her first boyfriend that she'll go out with me because she hasn't figured out if she's straight or not. Should I wait for her to make up her mind while she's totally crushing on one of her guy friends, or should I get over her and find someone new? Help please! xox

Well, if you truly like her, wait and find out. But if she ends up being straight, dont be dissapointed, cause there is a chance she'll be.
So when you're waiting for the answer, I dont see why you couldn't just find someone for the time being, and maybe you'll like them more than her.

Good luck, Rox.

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tomorrow is the last competition and i have missed two of them already my coach was so mad. Im not particepating but im still in the team so as she says i have to go. I have no ride or anything my mom says i cant go if i dont everyone will hate me what should i do?

There are a few options here.
A. Call the coach and talk to him/her. Explain your situation
B. Get a ride from a friend.
C. Get a ride from someone on the team, who dosent have to go out of their way to just go take you to a competition.

Good luck, Rox

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