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I like one of my friends [who is a qirl by the way] as more than just friends. She knows I'm bi, and we joke all the time about hooking up. She also said that after she gets her first boyfriend that she'll go out with me because she hasn't figured out if she's straight or not. Should I wait for her to make up her mind while she's totally crushing on one of her guy friends, or should I get over her and find someone new? Help please! xox
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Get over her. That's what I would do. Being bi is nasty, so I wouldn't do it. It's hard to find bi's unless you have a bestfriend that is one!
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Get over her. Because being bi. isn't always a good choice. I mean, your less fortunante to find another bi. like you.
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Well I see you have many options here. You could wait for her.. and if shes bi and you guys hook up thats awsome - but you also have to understand if she's not and respect her for that.
Since she's lookin around right now you could too. Just bc you like her doesnt mean you cant find someone else. And if neither of you have luck then you guys can still be together.. but you might also find some awsome person to be with and be happy!
Just go with your heart. Plus your only 14 -- you'll experience MANY people and get many heartbreaks!
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Well, if you truly like her, wait and find out. But if she ends up being straight, dont be dissapointed, cause there is a chance she'll be.
So when you're waiting for the answer, I dont see why you couldn't just find someone for the time being, and maybe you'll like them more than her.
Good luck, Rox.
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If you really like her give her time to think straight and figure it out because I think chooing your sexuality can sometimes be very hard to figure out.Give her time and she will come around.
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well i guess move on.. i mean if you think shes going to come around sometime soon then wait.. but there might be a chance she could decide that she is straight..much luv dez
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you dont have to wait for her, but you dont have to move on completley either. just date around, and when the time comes talk about it. shell still be there after youve dated other people, and shell still be there after shes dated other people. you cannnot rush someone into making up their mind about stuff like this either, so just give her some time to think about it and experimentbut dont ignore her or get over her or whatever. just know she needs time.
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you should find someone new right now but u can always go back to her after she gets her 1st bf u never know how long they will be together
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You can go find someone else for the time being -- And after she dates this boy, go for it with her...you dont have to just drop her -- Just dont miss out on anything while waiting
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