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Question Posted Saturday March 5 2005, 7:43 pm

ok im best friends with this girl i knew her before but this year we are best friends. but whenever we make plans they'll either change or she'll blow me off! i dont know why! and we've been best friends all year and i have never been inside her house but shes been to mine so many times, and she says its because shes self consicous about it but do you think shes lying? SO my question is... why do you think she is being like this and is she using me?


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Additional info, added Monday March 7 2005, 7:56 pm:
there are reasons i think shes using me... but id rather not put them on here b/c i dont want it to be obvious to her that its me since she comes on here but for example some of the things i have and money .

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analovezya answered Sunday March 6 2005, 8:32 pm:
Maybe she's poor, and embarrassed about it.

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Browny4541 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 7:00 pm:
She might be using you. Sit down and calmly talk to her about why she blows u off. See if you can get it worked out.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 4:05 pm:
i think that she has a reason..but she could be using you.. but i dont know what she'd be using you for.. jus make plans with other people.. much luv dez

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sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY answered Saturday March 5 2005, 11:41 pm:
YESSSSSS!!! Girl, look around! She is just using you, and I really don't think you are best friends. I mean me and my 2 BFF's are at eachother's house like EVERY weekend, and we try very hard to hang out with eachother! I am sorry to break this to you, but I don't think she is your best freind..let alone friend..at all! Hope I helped!

((~*~Becky~*~))aKa((~*~Lil QT~*~))

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p_rOd answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:58 pm:
i think that maybe this girl is embaressed of her house i dont think shes using you ..u should ask her why shes blowing you off
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laceylikesthecolorblue answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:47 pm:
maybe she just wants to be friends and ive been in a situation like that and i went out with my friend and it didnt work out. there isnt a good chance that yall will stay together if yall ever go out and i think you should give her some space cause theres other girls out there and she might need some time to think about whether she likes you or not.

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MummuM answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:21 pm:
Maybe she really is self consicous about her house, you never know. Tell her your her best friend and your not going to stop liking her just because of what her house may look like. It doesn't sound like she's using you, more like not being a true friend to you. I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. How you get sad when she ditches you and such because your always excited to be able to hangout with her. Maybe something is wrong lately that she rather not do stuff with anyone. I think you really have to talk to her though. Ask her why she's been doing this and you don't feel like you really have a friendship anymore, because your never able to hangout. If she really is your best friend, she'll understand and change.
♥ Krissy

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monkeyturtlerockhippo answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:18 pm:
ok.... well i have had a friend who did that and i hated that. I would just talk 2 her and say that she has been blowing u off. If she just says no...then you should just take a break from her and let is slide. Then try later


~hope we helped-Alleycat-didi

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