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I have this friend that has a cancer but I dont know wut kind and he was doing really well untill the day of my uncles b_day.
We got a call on the phone that said he wasnt doing to well and that they gave him some medicine that they usually give people who are about to die.
I am so worried wut if he dies and we will never be able to see him again.
He is only 17 years old
HELP WANTED.
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Sooo... sorry to here about your friend having cancer. My friend's Mom has lung cancer and is going to die in about 9 months. I know that you must be worried about your friend. That's a young age to pass away. Don't think about how your friend has cancer and how he's going to die. Just think about all the things you are going to do with him NOW. NOW is the time to do everything that you 2 are going to miss out on. Just help your friend as much as possible and good luck with your friend. Tootles!
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Try to be there as much as possible there nothing you can do because its cancer just show you care and he will be grateful. I kno how you feel my grandpa died of cancer and i felt so helpless watching him but i couldnt do anything except show i care
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Dealing with a problem like that can be tough. If that person truely means a lot to you, you should be with him as much as u possibly can, pray for him. Just be with him, and just hope for the best. Theres not much you can do.
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Hi Sweetie,
It never hurts to pray for a miracle. Every once in a while... they do happen.
Either way the only thing I avdvice is no matter what happens stay by his side. Spend as much time with him as you can... and talk about happy thigs (na matter how difficult it may seem). He is going through a hard time, too. If these are his last moments or even if they are only he first of the rest of his life, I'm sure he wants to see you happy. I know happiness may be asking for too much... try to be as strong as you can... for him.
My best wishes! Have a goodnight and ~Blessed Be...
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go and see him and make sure that he knows that you care about him. if he does die...dont let him die with out knowing that. and pray!
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I have lost a lot of people to this horrible disease. You are in a case where you don't know what's happening. And to watch somebody go through this disease is the hardest thing to do. You just have to be thankful for the time you get to spend with your friend and hope that nothing bad happens but if it does the best thing to do is write your thoughts down if you have nobody you can really confide in and realize that your friend will be in a better place. Your friend is going through a lot of pain. If you need to talk I'm here, been through this a lot.
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Aw well if you can i would try to go see him.. maybe try writing your feelings down on paper about how you feel about the whole thing..much luv dez
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What if he doesnt die and you get TO see him again?
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whatever you do.. DO NOT CRY IN FRONT OF HIM.. that would make him feel worsee.. EVERY chance you have.. pray for him.. god will answer your prayers and send an angel down 2 protect him!! i will also pray for him!!
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Calm down about it. Even if he does die, just keep saying that ol' phrase ' He's in a better Place'. Also, Try to write about how you feel in a journel, and think about how much worse it would be if you had to see him suffer. Don't worry about a thing, and you'll be alright!
Prayers to you and your friend!
--COOKIE--
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The best thing you can do for your friend right now, is to just be there for him. Don't let him see you cry, be positive around him. Check into what kind of medicine he was given, look it up on the net, that will help you understand more about his situation. People with cancer can survive. It is not a death sentence anymore. There is now great medicine's and Chemo-Therapy for cancer patients. Be strong for him, that's what he needs most right now.
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aww hunnie.. theres nothing you really can do. In times like these theres nothing really that you can do. If he is too far gone then you just have to keep in mind that he wont be suffering and he will be able to watch over you.i knwo that ppl say that suffering part a lot.. and ppl hate to hear it but its true.. like.. how would you feel if you were in all of that pain and in the hospital all the time. Wouldnt you want some peace? just go see your friend and tell him that no matter what you will never forget about him and you love him so much and that you will think about him everyday let him know what is on your heart.. .and if you want to talk more about this IM me on x3ashleybabyx3. hope everything works out and i hope I helped you out a little.
-Ashley
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Hope for the best! Think of all the good times. Go talk to someone, like your parents or friends, or write in a journal to get all your feelings out. Send me something if you want; I'm here to talk. ♥ Kristen
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Im really sorry to hear about your friend, but you should remain optimistic. Make him love life even more than he does now, help him enjoy every single second of his life. That is all you can do right now, it all depends on God right now.
But they say physical illness is connected to emotions and stuff. If someone doesnt feel like living and gives up, its out of our hands. But if he keeps wanting to live and fights the illness, he really might make it!
And about never seeing him again, stop worrying, remain optimistic. And one day, we'll see all of our loved ones (the end of the world). He wont be gone forever, he will stay in your heart and in your head, you will always remember him, so you'll keep his memory alive.
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i had a friend that died just this monday he was 17 it sucked i dont really have any advice tho
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How am I supposed to help you? I could calm you down....i guess....talk to your parents or gaurdins.
Good luck with ur friend!
:) Browny4541
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Unfortunatley There is no really good answer to this question.A lot of people die of cancer and there isn't much we can do but love them while they are here.
Not all cancers are fatal either even though they can make a person pretty sick. Sometimes the treatment they get for the cancer makes them extremely sick too. But, they need the treatment and usually feel better when it is all finished.
The main thing I want to tell you is this.Sometimes when a friend is really sick like this we stay away from them because we don't know what to say or how to treat them. Please don't do that. Go visit him and treat him as you always would. Don't be afraid to ask him about his cancer, he may be relieved to talk to you about it.Not talking about it may make him uncomfortable around you.
If the worse happens be happy that you had him for a friend even if only for awhile. You will always remember the good times you had.You will be sad for awhile and that is normal.I'm sorry to hear about your friend.I hope he gets better real soon.
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Help what? Alot of cancer treatments work, not most, but alot. So whatever. Just hope for the best I guess?
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Make the most of the time that he has left!
♥ Always,
Maria
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