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my really good friend is moving june 22, and i want to do something special. im not sure i can have a party so...does anyone have any ideas? even if you have an idea for making something would be helpful.

I think you should make scrap books for eachother soo you can both remember the fun times!

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see i dont know what to do i like this guy alot but he wants me to tell him why i like him what should i do?

Tell him it makes him feel wanted
*Lauren*

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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!

Get too know him better talk to him at school and if you guys dont go to the same school hang out with him outside of school

*Lauren*

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Ok I am 13 and in the seventh grade.There are some guys that like me but they wont ask me out. (I dont like them though) And every sigle person in my school has had a bf or a gf no lie. Except me I like some people but they wont ask me out and its kind of embarrassing. I sont know how to act or what to do. I mean I am so popular and all serious. But soem times I wish I wasnt bexcuz I think that guy dont want me if I am.
there is only 54 more days of school and I havent had a bf before.. plz help

Um dont brag the your
"SO POPULAR" cuz um huni guyz wont like you thats probably the reason or your prude or maybe your not trying hard enough

*Lauren*

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this incident happened maybe about a year ago, but i'm still baffled to this day on what really happened. read on and see if you can decode this guy's actions...it's long, mind you!

i had a really good guy friend throughout all of high school. we both hung out in the same group, and i was known as the bachelorette (i never had a bf before and all my friends did). when i got together with my boyfriend, my guy friend started acting funny as in at first in big shock, then being distant toward me, and then "maybe" flirting with me?

why i say maybe is because he tends to do that with all of the girls in our group. he tends to joke a lot, but one thing he almost never did to me was touch me in any way shape or form (not even playfull hitting). when i got together with my boyfriend, he started acting kinda clingy like when the group departed for class he walked with me instead of them. as for the touching, he sat really close and made up excuses that could be played off as "joking". everytime i questioned him about it, he denied it and said he was "joking around". but if his behavior changes like that i don't think it's joking...?

i hardly ever talk about my bf cuz all my friends were currently single at the moment and i did it for their sake so that it doesn't make them feel bad. and whenever i do (very rare), my guy friend gets really quiet. later on that year he claimed to be mad at me because i talked about my boyfriend too much, which isn't true! he started ignoring me, giving me dirty looks, and vice versa.

it's odd because not long after i hooked up with my bf, we talked online and he admitted that he liked me. later (way, way later) down the line my boyfriend decides to call him up and told him to just leave me alone. it got kinda intense, and i called my guy friend and asked him the reason why my bf doesn't like him is because he said he liked me on the internet that one day. i asked him if he meant that, and he said no, he was "only joking" that day.

to this day i really don't even know how this guy feels about me. does he like me or was he playing with my head? can anyone tell me?

Yes he most defintly likes you can't you tell hes flirting!! Ok well when you and your boyfriend break up try and give him a chance but dont let his feelings ruin your relationship with your boyfriend! If he is a true friend he will respect that your going out with another guy and he can wait his turn! Your taking it one guy at a time your not a player rite?

*Lauren*

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OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
thanks girls

Your fine its gonna happen soo dont freak ok?


*Lauren*

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i have picked at my down there and i got a cut and when i pee, it hurts! is that usual? i know its not a bladder infection
thanks

Ya its usual you picked at it and it gave u a cut

*Lauren*

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Again this boy Roshon has been bothering me. With all the touching me and walking me to class things. I mean he is cool and everything but in the hall I see him doing it to other girls to just not as much as he does it to me. And he still talks about me. This morning when he tried to walk me to class. The only way he will get his hand off me if I pull away and say I will talk to you later. And the bad thing is he is only. I don't know how to say it but he goes up to my chest. What I mean by that his height. Do you know how weird that looks? Anyway help please!

Ok first you need to confront your boyfriend about what he is doing to those other girls and if he bothers you that much tell him!

*Lauren*

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I like this guy. Well my friend likes him too. The thing is they're sorta going out. What happened was they started going out but my friend dumoed him. I was so happy I might have a chance and he could tell I wanted to go out with him. I think he wanted to go out with me too. But then my friend told me that she didn't mean it and she's afarid he won't say yes now. I think he will. Now I'm kinda sad but happy for my friend. I don't know I have mixed feelings about this. I don't want to mess up their relationship by telling him. What do I do?

Go for who you like she cant stop you I know you guys are friends but she had her chance but, if he doesnt like you then let her have another chance dont ruin your friendship for a guy who doesnt like you

*Lauren*

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is it normal to every so often not have your period for a month? i have never had sex and im 14 thanks..

Ya its normal it will eventully come. If you get it for the first time and then the next month you expect it to come at the same time dont. Your period will come off and on at first then later on it will go at a regular bases.

*Lauren*

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For those who know about my constant problems I have with C then here comes another problem if you don't know then you know now. Well anyways me and him have been getting along good so far but all of a sudden today. He is kinda mad at me I think. I mean he didn't actually talk to me today and he hit me. Usually me and him we play like that but today he actually hit me like he was mad. If I did something bad I am sorry for it. But what should I do. I can't just say that I am sorry because he hasn't said one word to me all day except for this morning when I asked him was something wrong. He didn't respond in a happy manner so I left him alone. What should I do I really really like this boy!

Never ever let a guy hit you hit him back no matter how much you like him! That happened to my friend she liked a guy alot and he hit her and she acted like she didnt care and soo he thought oo ya I can walk all over her and then one day it got bad and he hit her soo hard with a badmitten racket that now she has a permanent mark! If you dont want him to hit you either tell him not to hit you or hit him back!

*Lauren*

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my fingernails are pretty long...but VERY thin! everytime i go to do something they either break or bend easy! i want hard findernails and not for them to bend as easy anymore...does anyone know how i can do this?

Hey you can go to like a nail salon and they will give you like this clear nail polish and it will make your nails hard and you have to keep using it or it will wear off and you wont have hard nails anymore

*Lauren*

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and I'm feeling selfish lately. Yes, I know it's not good to be selfish in a relationship, but I'm selfish with attention. I always want his attention because I never get it at home. Like whenever he's playing guitar or something I'll just like mess with his guiatr till he stops playing... he says he thinks its cute? My sister is going away for college next year and everyone is paying attention to her, my parents even admit it. I got straight A's the other day and they never said congradulations.. considering that was the first time in my life to get straight A's it kind of hurt. So, you see my reasoning for wanting his attention alot. I've told him this and he said he understands and all, but I can't help but thing I annoy him sometimes. Lately I've said I love you and he'll say it back, but in a tone where he shouldn't of even said it at all... I don't know if what i'm doing is wrong, because I'm beginning to think that it is. I don't want to lose him because I need him really bad right now. Should I stop being selfish and let him do his own things and suck it up that I don't get attention? Or should I just keep the way I am...

-Signed
Sincerly,
Me

Dear me: Ok eventully your boyfriend will hate that you are selfish and you have to remind you parents that they have you too!

*Lauren*

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ok im 16 and my bf is 19......he was a pub. safety off. at the local mall and a girl he worked wit asked him out and he said no because he had a girlfriend (mind you she is his age) so my bf got fired and now that he dont work there evrytime i go to the mall shes always on my ass...and just friday she almost threw me out of the mall because i raised my voice to a girl who was talkin shit bout me........is there a possibility i can get her fired?....and will it get my bf in trouble for datin a 16yr old?

No you guys cant get in trouble unless u guys have SEX and you can get in trouble because shes got a little jealousy on her mind and if you want to raise your voice to a girl who was talkin shit the other girl who is jealous has no right to almost kick you out! talk to her manager
*Lauren*

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I have this friend that has a cancer but I dont know wut kind and he was doing really well untill the day of my uncles b_day.
We got a call on the phone that said he wasnt doing to well and that they gave him some medicine that they usually give people who are about to die.
I am so worried wut if he dies and we will never be able to see him again.
He is only 17 years old

HELP WANTED.

Try to be there as much as possible there nothing you can do because its cancer just show you care and he will be grateful. I kno how you feel my grandpa died of cancer and i felt so helpless watching him but i couldnt do anything except show i care

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Okay my friend likes this guy, but they broke up and he doesnt lik eher at all..so she had a new boyfriend...and i started to like her ex so i told her so she wouldnt be mad at me..but she got mad and we are in a fight now...and then she broke up with her new boyfriend cause i like her ex.. and ithink shes gonna try and get her ex back so i dont have a chance but im not sure...i dont know what to do cause i was only trying to be a good friend by telling her that so she wouldnt have to find out if i like dated him

OK well she should be gratful you didnt go behinde her back and its her ex and obviously you moved on so she should be a friend like you have and let you have her ex! she should moved on soo why cant he with you? Its not like he cheated on her with you so why should she care

*Lauren*

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okay. i went to a church thing last weekend and me and some guys shared a drink, all of our drinks got switdhed up.. etc. i think i ahve mono. b/c i have been really tired... and i have been going to bed early, and i have had headeaches, and my throat / glands have benn hurting. do i have it? please help.. i rate high.

* please dont delte

Ok i've never had it but I think you need to talk to a parent and you need to see a doctor ASAP because if you wait too long yo dont kno what will happen

*Lauren*

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