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I am 15/f and I am iching and burning down there and it hurts like heck and I dont know what it is...I have recently had sex like almost a month ago and I am scared that I may have something...could anyone tell me what this could be? If so thanks I need to know a/s/a/p...I'm scared that this could be something bad...please help me I will rate high ...thanks (link)
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You need to go to a doctor.You probably have a urinary tract infection, BUT, it could be something else as well.Be honest with your doctor. I know it will be hard to do but it won't get better unless you do. It could get worse. Say something to mom today.You can leave out the sex part, just tell her you think you have a urinary tract infection.They can be caused
by many things.But be sure you tell the doctor you have recently had sex.
Was it unprotected sex(no condom)? If so COULD, but not necessarily be an STD. do not let yourself go untreated.
If a condom was used,you most likely have a UTI or even an allergic reaction to the condom.Either of those things need to be treated to.So make doctors appointment.
Doctors have to keep your conversations confidential, so don't hold back information.Make mom wait in waiting room.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend now for 3 monthes. I am 14 years old. Last night, we went to a house party. Ther was this game were we had to give head. I didn't want to give his bestfriend head, but all the girls were doing it. The game was called "rainbow."
I feel so guilty, and gross, what can i do to feel better?
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That doesn't sound like a good game to me.I wouldn't play it again.Sex is not a game it is serious business.
By the way, any boyfriend who would approve of this is not a boyfriend I would want.He also has no feeling for you.All they want are girls to give them head they really don't care who they are.
Don't do it again OR associate with those who did. There is nothing you can do about feeling guilty except learn from it.Remember that sex is between two people who love each other, or at LEAST two people who care about each other.Save orgy type behavior for perverts.
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Ok well I was talking on the phone to my bf last night, and I was on the internet. There was a banner-ads at the top of the page, and because I was bored I read it to him. It said "find out how well you kiss by taking this quiz". And he asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was a banner-ad thing. He then replied "I wonder how well I can kiss". I then just said "um, ok".
My question is- do you think he wants to kiss me? I want to kiss him, but I don't know if the feeling is mutual! We are going on a date tonight, and I want to know if he might kiss me.
Thanks I RATE 5's!!
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it sounds to me like he might have been doing a little flirting. He may just kiss you tonight.
next time he says something like that you need to say, I don't know maybe we should just find out.
Have a good time tonight!
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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me
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go out with him.You'd go out with a girlfriend and think nothing about it.A friend that happens to be a boy is no diffrent.You don't have to be romantically attatched to go out on a date or be friends with boys.Who knows, you might find you like dating him!
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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something... (link)
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perfectly normal! Don't worry about it. Some guy will find you one of these days. You have plenty of time yet!:}
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ok..on my lower buttcheeks i have little red bumps..i dont know if theyre pimple(they dont have heads) or if its just a rash from my undies..im realli not sure what it is..does anyone know or even have a remote idea what it could be? thnx
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Could be either one but probably just little pimples.Not much can be done about them though.
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me and my bf broke up last month. and i still really like him, he says he doesnt like me and when i try to get him to like me by like being all like touchy feely with him he is like stop i dont wanna like you again. but i want him to like me agin i cant find some1 i like just as much. we still talk on the phone for hours and we still hang out but what do i do?? i cant get over him but i dont really want to. how can i get him to like me again? (link)
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You probably can't.He's told you how he feels so don't bug him or you'll make him mad sooner or later. You will have to be happy just being friends.If you keep bothering him though you may lose the friendship too.Just stay friends and if he's going to change his mind one day he will let you know.
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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks (link)
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Nothing turns a girl on like you being yourself and giving her your attention.
Talk, be nice and polite, treat her with respect.
Neck kissing doesn't hurt! Neither does simply holding her hand.
Have a nice Easter!
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My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how? (link)
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If he tells you to break up with him do it.
Next time though don't give in to his whining and take him back. He knows how to push your buttons and he's doing it.If it's been a year and he can't treat you better than he does, call it quits.
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i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia? (link)
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Who told you that? No. Won't give you anything but a high electric bill! Mom and dad would probably like it if you could try and shut it off, but it won't hurt you.
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where is a good recipe website? (link)
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oh geesh, there are hundreds out there! You punch recipes into google and you'll get hundreds, thousands! I like the ALL RECIPES site for one. It's the first to come to mind anyway.Don't stop there though!:}
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my friends say i talk about this kid i like way too much, and now that i think about it i kinda do. what can i do to stop? i mean i like him so much i can't get my mind off him. what can i do? (link)
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you can think about him without talking about it.
I'm sure you like him but when people can't talk about something else now and then it gets a little boring.
Why don't you go talk to him? Who knows he may like you too:}
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Hey well i am like having all these problems with my mom and i love her very much but she just yells at me sometimes for like nothing and im really freaked out because she gets me mad and depressed i feel like killing myself or like cutting myself!
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All teens and their mom's have problems sometimes. I think it's because they know you are growing up! That can depress mom's sometimes!
Sit and have a talk to her ( when she's in a good mood) and express your concerns.
Do not start cutting or killing yourself.You are not alone in feeling this way, and can be helped.
Talk to mom, or another adult you trust and get some prfessional help for these feeling you are having okay?
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Lately, I've been feeling REALLY lonely. How do I tell my parents that, I don't want to be here anymore? I'm tired of my friends, I'm tired of my family, and I'm tired with the people around. I do hang out with good people who make good decisions--I'm not tired about that. But I don't feel completely happy with them. I sometimes feel a little left out, and I do blame myself for not being more "in the loop". But I don't have that many things in common with them. My parents are also good people. They give me the things I need and have brought me up pretty well. They really are good parents. I'm just sick of living here and being lonely. I feel like theres no one around. I recently just lost my "best friend". She was great, but I did realize that she wasn't exactly the kind of person I want to be friends with (she constantly reassured herself by making fun of other people, she was REALLY competitive @ EVERYTHING, etc.). Is there anything I can do, or anyone I can talk to, or IM? (Theres a lot of other things I'm upset about) Is there anyone who's been in a state of depression or anything? Because I seriously need to talk to someone. (link)
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Everybody has some depression at one time or another.If it gets out of control you need to see someone about it though. A profesional. You are right about telling your parents.Maybe you and mom can have a "girls" day and go out for lunch or something and just have a good talk.I'm sure she would be really happy to help you out.And would be really pleased that you respect her opinion.
Since so many teens have wondered about what depression is, I have put the symptoms in my column under generic advice.So if your concerned about your symptoms feel free to go there and read them.:}
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My boyfriend wants me to kiss him before he kisses me. At least I think so. It seems like it because after we go somewhere together...for example we went to the movies. When I got home i was talking to one of his friends online and he said hows come you didnt kiss him? And I think he should kiss me first!!! What should I do?? (link)
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Actually it should be a spontaneous thing.You both should just sort of kiss without worrying who's gonna go first!
You need to tell his friend that if he wanted to kiss you , you were right there.Not his business anyway.
At least you know that he's thinking about kissing you!Good sign, right? Don't fret about it. It's gonna happen!:}
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yesterday was the talent show at our school, and me, and my xbestfriend were both in it, but not together. she went before me, and i was right after her. when i got up on stage i saw her hug the boy i like. i almost choked on a high note. he's not my boyfriend but im still REALLY jealous and REALLY worried he's gonna start liking her. is this normal and what should i do? (link)
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Oh it's normal.If you are really worried go after him yourself.Go up to him and start a conversation.Get him to notice you.
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My boyfriend and i were in my aunts hot tub, and well i had my period so we couldnt do anything but neither of us knew if condoms still worked as well in water as they do out? and do they make ones for jsut water..i know its a dumb question but i dont know..pleeze let me know!! (link)
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I've never heard of ones for underwater use.Could be a good idea though! Any inventors out there??
I don't know why it would be a problem really so long as it stayed on:}
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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
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Yes I have. It has been that way forever.
I'm afraid I don't know why exactly.
Do you know that way back in the 1800's if a woman got divorced she was considered one too?
I got pregnant when I was a senior in high school.That was 1975.I took a lot of grief for that then.Friends would have nothing to do with me even.Well, I thought they were friends!So, you can imagine what it must have been like way back!
So, while some things have changed...even since 1975.Some stigma stay around for ages.I mean,getting preggers in high school is unfortunatley not all that uncommon these days and girls are no longer thought of as "BAD". By most people anyway.And they can continue with school,If i'd have been found out I probably would have been kicked out of school!
Guy's on the other hand, are considered really a stud! My husband, Yes we've actually been married 30 yrs in June! Took some ribbing but was not considered a slut or anything near!
Sorry for running on and on.But hopefully one of these days girls won't get the worst end of the deal here.It is totally unfair!Since I didn't sleep around and my hubby was the only one I'd ever been with, I don't feel that I fell into the slut catagory, and neither do most of the other girls who get called one!There have been some changes. Let's hope for more!:}
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is it possibl for a person to not like someon anymore, but not be over him (if that makes sense!). because that's what i think is happening 2 me. i liked this guy A LOT for A LONG TIME, but the thing is that he was a jerk about it (i'd tell the details for u 2 understand it better, but it would be soooo long...) . anyway, i don't think i like him any more (no more butterflies in my stomach, no more going out of my way just to see him go to his next class, no more of his name on my notebook, etc.) . but the thing is that EVERYONE knew about it (even my english teacher!) and whenever i get into a convo w/ anyone, they always bring him up, and i can't 4get about him...that is, nobody will LET me. i still think about him occasionally, but not in the same way, so i don't think i like him. but i still think about him, and i haven't 4gotten the feelings i had 4 him. is it possible that i don't like him, but can't quite get over him? or do u think that i still like him? whatver it is, how do i 4get about him? i rate 5's 4 ne1 who helps! (link)
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truthfully, the butterfly thing doesn't last forever anyway.All relationships start to get comfortable after a while and evolve in all different directions.
However, if you feel strongly that you no longer want a bf/gf relationship with this guy then get out of it.
Simply tell those who ask about him that you don't date anymore and that you really don't care to discuss it.
You will always have feelings for those you have cared about.They can change though.But aren't easily forgotten right away.You can still be friends if you'd like to without the pressure of a bf/gf relationship.:}
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ok so here it goes i'm a 15 year old female ok i already asked a question about what am i supposed to do to get this guy david's (whom i like) attention; now i have a nother question kind of related to that....he knows that i like him and we actually talk somewhat now we started talking a couple days ago but actually talked in person when i was at my bestfriend diana's house and david and my friend michael decided to come over, so we were talking except i wasnt doing much talking i was kinda laughing at whatever i thought was funny mostly the stories i was reading in a magazine but i guess i wasnt talking that much becasue he was around and i was afraid i was gonna say something stupid. so i guess my question is what should i do to get him to i guess like me back or find out whether he likes me back?? (link)
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You're talking to him and that is a good start!
Do you have any clues what he's interested in, like music? Something you can really talk about with some confidence so you won't be to afaid of sounding stupid!
You know boy's have those same fears.So, next time you get near him don't worry about saying something stupid just try to make a conversation that will last a while.If you do say something stupid, well, make a joke of it.
Since he has been talking to you I think chances are good that he already likes you some anyway.Just muster up your courage and talk to him.You should have talked about the funny article you were reading! That would have been good. Do that next time too! Good luck:}
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