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i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything (link)
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No it isn't. These guys are pedophiles. They will be arrested and thrown in jail if found out. Stay away from them and if smart tell parents and have them arrested.
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When my friends and I are in a group and talking, it's easier for me to make a conversation and i'm comfortable talking to everyone. When I'm one on one with a person, it's very uncomfortable and I don't know what to talk about so there will be this awkward silence. Why is this happening? What can I do? (All girls by the way..) I have no boy-friends..How do I make them? I'm incredibly shy and soo insecure! (link)
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Probably because you don't know any one person in the group well enough to hold a one on one conversation. Maybe you don't have enough in common with ony one person in the group.
If you want to make boyfriends you need to go talk to some guys. Hang around them a little and get them noticing you. :)
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I'mm stuck in the middle of my two friends... they always get in fights and its extremely annoying...i m better friends with one then the other, but i dont wanna take sides... wat do i do to stop this?
thx.
annoyed & in the middle (link)
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Let them know you refuse to pick sides. Tell them to fight somewhere else when you aren't around. Basically just refuse to tolerate their behavior. :)
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i want out with this guy, he was cool and stuff and yeah..then after we broke up my friend (lets call him billy) well billy told me that he talks crap about me all the time and then when i talk to (ex) he says" No i don't" but billy is a really good friend of mine...and my ex lets call him joe..well i still like joe but then billy and other people say he's stupid and a fag and stuff and says all this stuff about him, i still like him but like he thinks i'm stupid or something and he told me he doesnt like me...i told him everything one night and he never anwered me back...i just let it go...anyway billy keeps telling me stuff about what joe says about me, i dont wanna get worked up into things but i dont wanna loose a good friend like billy, Who do i believe? What do i do!!!? help me please. xoX (link)
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I think you just ignore the ex. Billy sounds okay but I would tell him that you really don't want to hear more abouot the ex or what he says.:)
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ok this about the internet this dude talked me in to haveing internet sex and i did not want to but i dont know how he got me to do it but i fell realy bad now like i did something realy bad i blocked the dude and dleted him but can some one tell me y i fell so bad (link)
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You feel bad because you know it was wrong. You did the right thing by blocking him out. Be careful who you talk to in the future because the world is full of weirdos. Stop feeling bad, its over and you learned something from it. Just don't do it anymore. :)
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I have this friend, she's 2 years older than me (I'm 13 and she's 15) but she says I'm mature and she always wants to hang out with me. She went out with my bro's bff twice then after he broke up with her the 2nd time, she was depressed and I helped cheer her up, that was last summer, then when school started she went to the high school and i'm in the junior high, she became friends with my bros and their friends, it felt like she used me to get to my bros, cuz she'd come over talk to me for 5 min then be like where are the guys? Now she and this guy are going out again, and everytime I hang out with her she's cool but when the guys come back home, she ditches me and hangs out with them.. I know she's older than be but I love her to death... what do I do? Do I drop her or do I keep her and hope she changes?
help~thanks! (link)
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She probably won't change. The guys are just more important to her right now. So long as she is still being friendly with you, I think you will just have to accept the way she is. One of these days you too will rather be around all they guys. :)
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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help! (link)
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He doesn't sound like good boyfriend material. I think you should remain friends. I think you will probably feel jealous until you have a boyfriend of your own. :)
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I'm 17 and I;m not allowed to go to dances. I feel really left out sometimes when my friends talk about it on and on for age. My mom and dad think I'm too young and they think bad stuff happens at dances. Another problem is, I don't know how to dance! Please help! I rate!! (link)
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I think 17 is old enough to go to dances myself. That doesn't help you much though. I think you need to have a talk with them. Tell them that you are feeling left out. Explain that you are a responsible person and that they need to start trusting you some. They need trust that they brought you up to know right or wrong and that you will behave accordingly. Dancing isn't that hard. I'm sure some nice guy would be glad to help you out. You probably have some girlfriends who would help too. :)
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How bad is it that I hate my husband's parents and they hate me? Will this ruin my marriage? (link)
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I guess that depends on how often you will forced to see them. If it is an occassional holiday thing then you can tolerate each other. If you have to see them every week it will be a little harder. I think so long as YOU at least try to be civil when you see each other things will go okay. Just remember that they are his parents and he loves them...even if you can't stand them. I don't think it has to ruin your marriage. :)
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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?
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I think its great that you and mom have such a good relationship. Sure why not tell her.
At 13 I think he will kis you when he's ready. You're a little young yet. You really haven't had any real dates yet probably. You will get a kiss when the time is right for you both. :)
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i like a kid, and like he is mean to me, and my friends asked him why he didnt like me, and he said cuz i'm stupid. but i'm not, i just say a lot of random stuff.but like everytime he talks to me hes all smiley, but the problem is that two other girls in my grade flirt with him. so i feel like i have a competition and then my other friend likes him, and she is closer with him, and i really want to go out with him. (link)
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Why would you want to go out with someone who is mean to you and calls you stupid? Let the other 2 girls fight over this joker. You go find yourself a nicer guy. :)
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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long! (link)
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A lot of guys your age just aren't ready for the girlfriend thing yet. Sooner or later they will. :)
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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say (link)
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Don't be talked into doing things you don't want to do just to hang on to a guy. If he cares about you he will be willing to slow down until you are ready. :)
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The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what? (link)
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Sounds like it to me. Thats why its best to have these talks away from school and friends whenevr possible. They interrupt at the worst possible times! Talk to him again. I think he just wasn't sure what to say. :)
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ok so im dating this guy tom...we have only been dating for a few days now but he has met my parents and they love him...my entire family and even my brothers friends adore him... its so cute...well the day he met my family i also met his mother...well..she hates me...when i was around she seemed to like me just fine but tom called me like 2hrs after he left and he told me that his mom hates me and doesnt want him and i dating...like he said that he doesnt want us to break up because he realli likes me and stuff like that and of course i dont want us to break up either...i mean ive only met the woman once and shes messing up my relationship with her son already...i was realli polite and stuff when i met her and stuff and im realli not a bad person...im just a simple 16yr old girl...its like im sum whore or anything but she hates me...neither tom nor i kno why she hates me...what am i supposed to do?? (link)
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Did she act like she hated you? Mothers usually don't hide their feelings that well. Is it possible that he is using this to get out of your relationship? I think you need to have a long talk with him. If his mother actually does hate you, then he should be able to give you her reasons so you can figure out what to do. :)
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im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.
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I think he's probably being honest with you since he mentioned it to you. I think you should simply ask him if he is going to his prom. If he wants to ask you he will. If you have a way to get to his prom then you could mention it I guess, maybe he wouldn't know that information. :)
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okay so i really like this guy Luke* and a lot of my friends have said he likes me as well. Only problem, he has a girlfriend in a different school. He sits behind me in class and he is always talking to me and putting his head on my shoulder (no hes not trying to copy my answers haha) he teases me too and when I say "ugh i hate you right now." he says "oh no .. you love me!" and he is constantly hugging me and stuff but I dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I dont know what to say because I have already told him he needs to teach me to ice skate (because ive never done it) but I dont know his girlfriend and I dont want to like screw up their relationship. What do I do?? (link)
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Its good that you are thinking of the girlfriend. I think you can still be friends. If he wants to make the relationship more, make sure he has broken it off with the girlfriend first. It may not happen right away, but I think he does like you. :)
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ok so im going out with A hes great. I dont no what i would do with out him. We've been together probley going on 2months now. See we used to go out last year. We went out for 9 months then we bothe picked to braek up cause we were both cheating well i really wasnt but yeah it was. Well see the thing is hes lives in NY now thats why we broke up held it together for the 9 months he was gone but we couldnt do it any more. So now were back together and hes great i love him with all my heart but we wont be able to see each other for like 2 years. OMG I HATE IT. But this is the catch im falling for someone eles while ive been waiting :( i feel so mean to do this to A but i like B so much. I went out with B like 2 or 3 months after me and A broke up. He was great to.The sweetest boy youll ever talk to too!! And i mean that so much. But dumb ass me dumped him cause she didnt get to see him enough and it was hard it really was i cryed. Now we been hangin out again and he told my friend he liked me again and he was going to ask me out. HE told lots of people that. Well like three days later i was gettin ready to tell him how i felt and then he told me he like some other girl so i didnt even tell him how i felt and like he didnt even no i liked him and we never even talked about getting back together. But now he told me like a week ago it wasnt gonna happen. Should i tell him how i feel and see if he likes me and dump A? Should i stay with A even though i no hes gonna get hurt from all this stress of being so far? I just really dont want to hurt A cause me and him went through so much last year trying to keep it together being so far apart and we were so stressed out. I really like B but im so scared to tell him how i feel. And this week ill see him and it will be great to tell him but i feel so dumb cause what if he dont feel the same..... PLZ tell me what to do plz...
Love,
Sweetie Pie (link)
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Long distant relationships don't usually work out unless you have the means to see them often. I think if its going to be 2 years before you can see A that you probably need to stay friends only until the situation changes. If you are still in school, you'll want to go to dances and all that. You can't do that with a guy who is miles away. You need to have fun with someone a little closer to home. I think B wouold be the better choice for now. If you send email and all that to A though...remain friends. You never know what could happen in the future. :)
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I'm a girl, and here's my situation... Okay, I like someone, but he all ready told me he just wanted to be friends. Later, he didn't talk to me for a long time, and got a girlfriend. I dunno what it means when he says that he just wants to be friends, and then he all of a sudden doesn't talk anymore to me, and only gives me a slight head nod when I say hi; no more high-fives or anything. I mean, he seems like the same guy, but he acts so different around me. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend, and I'm not so positive if he's going to act that way around me still. I really love this guy, but I'm just getting unsure of what he's doing. He's not the shy type I don't think, and I dunno how I can approach him with this kinda stuff. He probably knows I like him, still.
HELP! (link)
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It might be he thinks he needs to distance himself from you because of your feelings. You need to tell him that you miss things the way they were. Let him know you can handle it if all he wants is to be friends (if this is true). :)
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My boyfriend was been depressed latly so i have been wanting to do something nice for him..well im only 15 and he's 17 so getting places isnt a problem since he can drive...well i donno what to do for him..i was thinking of getting him a new watch or makeing him dinner or takeing him out to dinner but im not sure. does anyone have any idea's or suggestions..or maybe share something you have done nice for your BF??
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I think if you listen to him while he unloads his problems you are probably doing the nicest thing you can. Making him dinner or baking him a cake would probably not hurt a bit though. :)
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