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in the middle
I'mm stuck in the middle of my two friends... they always get in fights and its extremely annoying...i m better friends with one then the other, but i dont wanna take sides... wat do i do to stop this?
thx.
annoyed & in the middle
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Don't pick sides. If you want to stay friends with both of them then do. If they ask you to pick sides tell them that they are both your friends, and that you want to stay friends with them both.
Hope I helped!
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umm well i've def. been in your place. i guess all you can do is tell them that you don't wanna take sides and they'll understand. :) lOvE*lOvE
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Let them know you refuse to pick sides. Tell them to fight somewhere else when you aren't around. Basically just refuse to tolerate their behavior. :)
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I wouldn't allow someone to eveR put me in a position like that. If these people aRe youR "fRiends", then I hope to God that they have moRe Respect foR you than that. It's *THEIR* pRoblem if they bReak up, it's simply unfair of them to tRy and make it *YOURS* PeRsonally, I would Refuse to have to select one fRiend and see who stays and who gets pissed and decides that this silly feud is woRth thRowing a fRiendship away oveR, if anyone at all. I wish you well! Hope I helped!!
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talk to your friends tell them how you feel. just whatever you do dont lose the friend your the closest to. or the one who knows all your secrets.
<3 isabel
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Tell them to shut the fuck up ! lmao j/k no but really .. Hmm get with them in one place,and let them talk out their differences and yes , it is very good;; dont take sides because the other one is eventually going to be sad/mad and not going to talk to you ...but but but i consider you talking their problems out ! if you have any questuons please feel free to ask ! ♥Vic
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That happened to me too. I told them that they need to both get straightened out because they kept tugging at me, so I left them both alone. They sorted things out on their own and became friends and we all got along... It's not very likely but maybe it'll work for you too.
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They shouldnt be saying that its because of you or w/e...if they wanna fight let em fight but you don't need to be in it..if it is something really stupid just drop it...no need for anyone to take sides...xOox
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Just tell them you dont wanna be in the middle of things. If they wanna fight about stuff, they can leave you out of it.
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Talk to them about it! tell them that your always stuck in the middle and you hate been like that. Because you dont take sides.
luv roxie
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i suggest you just tel your friends that you dont want to be in the middle or this conflict anymore say your sick of the way there behaving and its really starting to get on your nerves say you aint gonna take sides and they should both stop being so childish and treat you with sum more respect say you aint gonna be in the middle of there pathetic little game anymore tel them they should grow up and start acting there age or they could end up loosing you for good .....
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tell them how you feel and you want to be 3 best friends again and when they fight talk to them about whats gunna get out of the fight, seriously theyre only gunna lose a friendsship over a stupid fight
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Tell them that you dont want to take sides and that you dont want to get in it ! let them fight on there own that way you wiLL end up cOoL ND firneds with both!
xOx ViLLy*
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I'm kind of in the same situation, except I'm one of the friends in the fights. I used to be friends with a girl called Jenny, she was okay but now we really don't get on. Recently we had a massive screaming argument and since then we've been bickering non stop. Our friend, Ruth, is better friends with Jenny than she is with me but it still annoys her when we fight. I don't think that telling you about my own situation really helped but all I can say to you is to keep out of it. You don't have to take sides, just stay away from them both when they argue. Encourage them to make up but don't side with either of them.
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