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my boyfriends mother hates me
ok so im dating this guy tom...we have only been dating for a few days now but he has met my parents and they love him...my entire family and even my brothers friends adore him... its so cute...well the day he met my family i also met his mother...well..she hates me...when i was around she seemed to like me just fine but tom called me like 2hrs after he left and he told me that his mom hates me and doesnt want him and i dating...like he said that he doesnt want us to break up because he realli likes me and stuff like that and of course i dont want us to break up either...i mean ive only met the woman once and shes messing up my relationship with her son already...i was realli polite and stuff when i met her and stuff and im realli not a bad person...im just a simple 16yr old girl...its like im sum whore or anything but she hates me...neither tom nor i kno why she hates me...what am i supposed to do??
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Did she act like she hated you? Mothers usually don't hide their feelings that well. Is it possible that he is using this to get out of your relationship? I think you need to have a long talk with him. If his mother actually does hate you, then he should be able to give you her reasons so you can figure out what to do. :)
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wel for starters if there is nothing that your doing wrong then it must be just her she is proberly just to over protective ov her son and just doesnt want him being hurt, you sound like a nice person and wouldnt do anything to hurt him i can tel you have strong feelings for him so you should just explain to her that you aint just setting out to destroy her sons life or to cum between the to off them tel her your nothing like she thinks you are and that you would love for her and you to get on if your going to carry on dating her son ask her how cum she hates you she hardly even knows you she probly just has strong first impresions of people...
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Ok, well if his mum doesn't want you around the house then it's best to do as she says. I would ask tom's brother to talk about you when he is around his mu and say stuuf like how nice you are etc and see how she reacts and tells him why she doesn't like you. Ask him to tell her, if she says she doesn't like you to him, that she has only met you once so how does she really know what you're like. Good luck
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First of all, get Tom to find a legitimate reason for her hating you. She just can't 'hate' you for no reason. It could be just because you're dating her son. Some mothers are over-protective like that.
Or if you're the confident type, you could confront her with this information. Ask her why yourself, then try and talk it out. *violence will not help in this situaiton*
There's really not much you can do, besides change yourself and try to get her to like you, but I think that's bull crap. If this woman doesn't like you, then that's her problem... Just make sure that his mother isn't going to interfere with your relationship and control his love life. Much less, yours.
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well.. i think maybe you should just go over to toms house a couple of times and just be nice and talk and have conversations with his mother .. i mean not everyone is going to like you but just try to show her that youre nice .. my mom didnt really like my brothers girlfriend @ first until she started talking more so i think maybe she just doesnt like when her son has a boyfriend so just start conversations with her
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