okay so i really like this guy Luke* and a lot of my friends have said he likes me as well. Only problem, he has a girlfriend in a different school. He sits behind me in class and he is always talking to me and putting his head on my shoulder (no hes not trying to copy my answers haha) he teases me too and when I say "ugh i hate you right now." he says "oh no .. you love me!" and he is constantly hugging me and stuff but I dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I dont know what to say because I have already told him he needs to teach me to ice skate (because ive never done it) but I dont know his girlfriend and I dont want to like screw up their relationship. What do I do??
Additional info, added Tuesday May 10 2005, 4:25 pm: now im hearing he doesnt have a girlfriend anymore .. im so confused i want to ask him but i dont wanna like .. be obvious hah. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? IsabelToTheRescue answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:17 pm: Your most likely going to get yourself into trouble with his girlfriend if she find out you two flirt. She might not like you, and neither will her friends. Not that it matters, but its something to be aware of. I think you should tell him you dont really feel comfortable doing stuff with him one on one because he has a girlfriend and you dont want her to take it the wrong way. Tell him for now you want to be friends and not come off to others as anything more than that. Good Luck! Let me know how it goes! -- Isabel [ IsabelToTheRescue's advice column | Ask IsabelToTheRescue A Question ]
karenR answered Monday May 9 2005, 7:25 pm: Its good that you are thinking of the girlfriend. I think you can still be friends. If he wants to make the relationship more, make sure he has broken it off with the girlfriend first. It may not happen right away, but I think he does like you. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
KeiKei answered Sunday May 8 2005, 1:34 pm: You shoud just tell him how you feel.HE obviously likes you.But he probly likes the other girl as well.Maybe he's "stuck in the middle"Just give it some time after you tell him and maybe after he's done with his girlfriend he'll come to you. [ KeiKei's advice column | Ask KeiKei A Question ]
helpful_jess answered Sunday May 8 2005, 12:56 pm: hello
well for a start i think you should tel this lad how your really feeling its always better to get it out in the open cuz he mite like you aswell so if you dont tel him then you could end up loosing him forever or if he doesnt like you then you can tel him that its ok and you would stil like to be his friend tel him its okay if he likes his gf and say your not trying to split them up if he ends up choosing you and it doesnt go rite you will get over it as long as you know you told him how you felt so you wernt living your life wundering how it would turn out you wil never no unless you find out.... [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
mikeejimbo answered Sunday May 8 2005, 11:58 am: Man, the guy sounds like a playa. He's got a girlfriend, but he's flirting with you to that extent? I admire the fella.
nikki*bi* answered Sunday May 8 2005, 11:41 am: just tell him how u feel and that you wont go out with him if he is going out with someone already and that you really like him but u dont wanna screw up his other realationship!then see wut he says and that will be your answer! [ nikki*bi*'s advice column | Ask nikki*bi* A Question ]
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