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Mixed up
I'm a girl, and here's my situation... Okay, I like someone, but he all ready told me he just wanted to be friends. Later, he didn't talk to me for a long time, and got a girlfriend. I dunno what it means when he says that he just wants to be friends, and then he all of a sudden doesn't talk anymore to me, and only gives me a slight head nod when I say hi; no more high-fives or anything. I mean, he seems like the same guy, but he acts so different around me. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend, and I'm not so positive if he's going to act that way around me still. I really love this guy, but I'm just getting unsure of what he's doing. He's not the shy type I don't think, and I dunno how I can approach him with this kinda stuff. He probably knows I like him, still.
HELP!
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It might be he thinks he needs to distance himself from you because of your feelings. You need to tell him that you miss things the way they were. Let him know you can handle it if all he wants is to be friends (if this is true). :)
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wel the best way i think is to be honist with him and honist with yourself i mean if you stil do have feelings for him then you should just tell him you say hes not the shy type so hes probly good at chatting up the gals and if so then that means he might have another gf pretty soon so you have to do it quick or you might never get the chance to do it, maybe if your to shy to tell him then perhaps you can ask your mate for help im sure she would love to just keep on smiling and dont let this whole problem get you down
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Ok, basically you have to understand that "I just want to be friends" is a glorified rejection to your advances. Most likely him saying that, did not mean, "ok you're my new best friend." or "I want to see you all the time." He was being nice in saying no to you... Him "disapearing" from you is not wrong or abnormal, its pretty common. The girlfriend had nothing to do with it, your intrest made him feel maybe a bit awkward in being around you so he probably avoids you to avoid the feeling. He's moving forward, and on with his life, and you'll just have to accept that he's not the one for you, if he was he'd be with you. If you really want to be his friend then well go out of your way to talk to him instead of noding back at him or saying "hi"... let it go, or make an effort don't ponder what went wrong...
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