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fishy prom situation
im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.
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He may be telling the truth. Try and talk to him, if he gets all stuttery and nervous and a bit figitey then he is probably lying. He must love you to be still going out with you!! If you find out that he is still seeing this girl then find another guy to go to the prom with.
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luv shelly
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I think he's probably being honest with you since he mentioned it to you. I think you should simply ask him if he is going to his prom. If he wants to ask you he will. If you have a way to get to his prom then you could mention it I guess, maybe he wouldn't know that information. :)
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You're fine. He's noble. No worries.
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Without knowing him, I can't say for sure what he's thinking. There is a small chance that he's just oblivious. However, it is more likely that he is trying to hint that he wants to go to prom with her.
I don't know him, so I couldn't say if he's still seeing her. Is he the player type? Then it's more likely. Unfortunately, you can't really confront him without angering him if he's innocent, or getting into a big mess if he's not. I would suggest calling together a "talk about us." That way you can voice your concerns, and he can voice his. Striaghten this all out. He should understand, and if he doesn't then you might have a problem.
Also, if I were you, I'd let him to go to prom with her. Prom is a very rare opportunity, and it isn't the same without a date you like. If she is the issue, then suggest he go with someone else. But don't insist he go alone; that's the worst thing you can do.
Good luck!
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I think the fact that he told you about it shows that he wants to be open and honest.
But really, you're only 16, I don't think you should call it love yet.
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guys are complex from where i'm standing but i think he may have been hinting at it. i mean, why wouldn't he want to go the prom with his girl friend? especially when it's long distance and he doensn't see you as much as if he had a girlfriend near by. 2 years with him should be enough to know if you can trust him with other girls. remember that saying, innocent until proven guilty? i'd stick to that if i were you. i think you should talk to him about prom and see if he wanted to go with you and tell him you will if or if not he did. prom's a fun time. good luck.
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I think he might be hinting that you guys should go together. So you should see what's up with that... tell him that it would be awesome if you guys went to the prom together. Or something random, like that. If he doesn't want to go together, that's when I'd be suspicious..
As for this other girl, as long as you go to the prom with your boyfriend, she should be long gone (unless she's a slut.) ...this is difficult, because it's long distance, and a rocky relationship. He could be seeing her... but it's doubtful. I mean, 2 years is a long time, and he obviously knows he can get her.. so if he wanted to, why wouldn't he? I mean, has he ever cheated before, or anything? Do you have reasons not to trust him? And what's the girl like if you know her? Would she do anything with someone else's boyfriend/her ex? << if you can answer those, then you should be able to figure this out. Hope I helped!!
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In a long distance relationship? You honestly can't have any sure-fire way of telling if he's seeing someone else... It's expected though, because he can't see you everyday. Thats probably the one reason long-distance relationships dont always work out. One or the other gets tired of seeing their significant other only every once in awhile, while they could normally see them every day.
Now, pushing that aside, yes, I think you should go to prom with him if possible. Being LD, you want to keep him as happy with you as possible.
He said no when you offered for his old girlfriend? That is a good sign, it may prove to show that he has the utmost amount of patience for you. It's a confusing siuation where I think you just need alot of faith and time put into the love life...
Hope I helped, did my best.
♥EJ(ST)
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Maybe. With a long distence relationship you really can't be sureifyour spout is being fathful. But f he wants to go to prom the better date should be his girlfriend.
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