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weird convos
When my friends and I are in a group and talking, it's easier for me to make a conversation and i'm comfortable talking to everyone. When I'm one on one with a person, it's very uncomfortable and I don't know what to talk about so there will be this awkward silence. Why is this happening? What can I do? (All girls by the way..) I have no boy-friends..How do I make them? I'm incredibly shy and soo insecure!
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Probably because you don't know any one person in the group well enough to hold a one on one conversation. Maybe you don't have enough in common with ony one person in the group.
If you want to make boyfriends you need to go talk to some guys. Hang around them a little and get them noticing you. :)
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Hmm i'm just like you , i feel comfortable when theirs alot of people but when its just one on one it feels very WEiRD but lately i've just been talking about anything .. like me and my friend ,hannah, we always laugh at movie lines and stuff like that .. Hmm do you have anny brothers ? maybe if you hung around him (( if you doo )) you can start having his guy friends , as your friends ! haha thats how i have many CUTE/guy friends !! its beter to have guy friends though because they dont BITCH ! lmao haha but if you feel shy talking to them ,then talk to them on aim , and maybe the next day yall will run into each other , and yall say hi , and the next thing you know is .. yall are really good friends !thats happened to me before !! so try it , you never know ! i hope i helped if you havea any questons , feel free to ask ! ♥Vic
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I have just the opposite problem, that I do better one-on-one. I think the thing is that when you're alone, all the attention is on you, but in a group, there are other people to split and break the attention.
I think the trick would be to remember that it's not about you, and try to focus all the attention on the other person. Ask them about their day, and basically make petty small talk that I and other future engineers seem meaningless, but my shrink tells me I have to make. I dunno, listen to the shrink, he's got a degree in this stuff.
As for boyfriends, I must say you're lucky to be a girl. I think it's easier for girls to get boyfriends. I still wouldn't know how, but what the heck, I can't get a girlfriend either.
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Just say whatever your thinking at the time. Be more outgoing and just say some crazy things. It might seem stupid but you'll probably end up laughing about it with that person. =)
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ok well i think you need to get over your insecurity.. there's nothing to be afraid of.. people can suck but they're not as bad as it seems and you're never gonna have a boyfriend or a friend until you do something about it and you make the stand.. sorry if i sound harsh but that's just what you gotta do
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