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Is Breast Enlargement For Me? I am a teen!
im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME!
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I'm a guy and I love small tits. I love big tits. I love nipples in general.
Chill out about it. You having a complex about it is what's going to make you unattractive.
And I'll tell you, most decent guys don't look favorably on boob jobs. From personal experience, they can sometimes be pretty to look at but they're less than pleasant to play with. And a girl with a boob job is a girl who everyone knows is uncomfortable in her own skin, which is in itself unattractive.
Accept yourself. If you're destined to have small breasts, wear it well and make small breasts sexy. It's really all about your attitude, some of the most beautiful women I've ever known or been with were b cup and below.
Your life sucks because you're focusing on things outside your control and blaming them for your problems, then coming here asking how to fix them. The problem is most likely your outlook and attitude.
If you don't love yourself, how is anyone else supposed to? Conversely, people who love themselves generally attract others purely because they want to be like that too.
And guys just love breasts in general, most of the time unless you make it an issue we wont' either.
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Whoa! Slow down!
If you're too old to date, then all my single friends at 22-23 are shriveled up old hags!
First off, there are tons of guys who like smaller breasts. I know tons of my guy friends prefer them or don't care. It may just be a teenage boy thing, having an obsession with large breasts, but they'll grow out of it.
The right guy for you will like you no matter what your various body part sizes are. Don't worry so much about what you look like - think about what kind of image you're putting out there. Be self-confident! Think of something you love about your body and be proud of it. Be friendly, outgoing, funny, and just your own wonderful self, and guys will naturally flock to you.
Don't worry about not dating yet. I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was 17, and I was engaged at 19. Things will happen when they will.
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You are still young, As much as you think it's all about looks it's not.
If you find someone who is right for you, They will love you no matter what and they will except you for who you are. Breast enlargements is not the answer, Again it is not about having big breast, being skinny, fat, tall, short it's about someone loving you for who you are. I personally did not start dating until I was almost 18, Trust me 15,16,17 is not old.
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Stop telling yourself that the fact that you have small boobs is ruining your life and that you don't have a boyfriend because of your small boobs. Take it from someone with a weird body and big boobs, you don't want them, they're a pain in the ass. If I were a guy I would prefer a girl with small boobs, it's kind of uniquely sexier in a way. If you think that having big boobs is a way to get someone to love you, you're wrong. If someone has ever told you that's the way to get someone to love you, they're wrong. You're almost 16? You're still so young! Chill out, the right guy will come along and it shouldn't have anything to do with how big your chest is.
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hun dont worry to much about it. im goin though the same as you. my breasts are 32A and im 17. and my mum is huge, my little sister is 12 and her breasts are nearly the same size of mine... think how i feel. but what i have accepted is that you dont actually stop growing untill you are at least 18. some 21.
i have also thought about breast enlargements. but not because of what others think. who cares if a guy doesnt like you because you have small breasts. they obviously arnt worth it. trust me. and there are guys out there who dont care if you have huge tits or no tits. the guy im with doesnt give to shits he likes me the way i am. and you will find some one who likes you for you. just give it time.
but if you do decide that you do want breast enlargements, please at least wait untill your 18, thats what im doing. because i have realised, mine, at the age of 17, are not goin to get much bigger. but as i said im not doin it for other peoples benifits im doing it because i dis-like them.
and as youve said your mum is small too. talk to her. ask her how she coped. she could be help as she has been though it.
good luck.
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They could still grow. You never know. And some guys are attracted to small boobs.. Haha big boobs are annoying. They get in the way of everything:]
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if your breasts are small to the point that its ruining your life than i think you should get a boob job not for the guys but for YOUR self confidence
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sweetie, breasts aren't just for the pleasure of being there. You need them to nurse a baby. It shouldn't matter how big they are! If boys don't like you because of that, then they are NOT worth it. Honestly! I was like that when I was like...12 but now I'm 14. Maybe it's just your hormones. Ask your doctor about a hormone pill. PLASTIC SUREGERY IS NOT THE ANSWER. IT HAS SERIOUSLY EFFECTS. it makes your boobs hard. guys like girls with soft, massageable boobs. NOT HARD AND STIFF ONES. lol. Big boobs aren't fun. Maybe a C cup would be okay, but nothing bigger. Seriously, ask your doctor about a hormone pill. Maybe birth control could help. Plus, surgery hurts afterward...and it's expensive. Be smart. And plus, boys want girls who are natural (well the boys who aren't horny bastards). Some might like girls with fake boobs, but if i was a guy, i wouldn't want that. So go the natural way...or try to. if it doens't work, try the suregery. Hope I helped
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doing an breast enlargement is really stupid you should not do that just for a boyfriend the whloe meaning of a BOYFRIEND is someone who loves you for you and not anything he can things about you but he should really love you for you well i would say goodluck but nevermind i'm really against this whole thing well
i hope this helps
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i know exactly how u feel im the same except im 15 im not even an A yet and im a soon to be model and ive never had a boyfriend before..but im sure not all guys want girls with boobs i mean you just have to meet some guys and start talking to them and hanging out and no your nott too old. not all guys want big boobs trust me..but if you really think its right then ask your doctor no it might not get your life back its also very dangerous..be happy with wat you have<3
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Well, first off if they all are pretty small..[espically if your sisters only a C cup, and shes older..] Then, it runs in the family. Because I am C. Almost D. And im 13 [but almost 14] But anyways, It shouldn't be destroying your life for one. Its just your boobs. If boys can't see you, for like your personality, or your face or something..then thats there problem. Maybe you just haven't found the right person yet. or maybe hes standing right infront of you, & you don't even realize it. Try using paddeddddd bras. Put tissue in it & such, anything. Oh, and I know this sounds like weird or something, but guys shouldn't be your life. Which trust me, would be deeply hard for me, to live without guys. =) But, still. Do stuff with your friends. & just enjoy them.. don't worry about boys. But, Victoria Secrets does have great padded bras! =)
Eh, I hope I helped.
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If you think 16 is too old, then girl, you have problems. You have tons of time to grow into your body. Don't think of yourself like that. You are fine the way you are. And so what if you never grow bigger than an A like your mom. People shouldn't care about that and if they do, well, they are too shallow for you!
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You still have time for your breasts to grow. The maximum could be up to 20 years old. However, you still have alternatives to make your breats look larger. There are padded bras and shirts out there you can use to put yourself up to a B cup. Don't worry about it! You have plenty of time.
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you should not get a breast enlargement b/c that is just stupid. a guy shouldn't like you just because you have big boobs or not.he should like you for your personality and such, never your looks. your not too old too. that was messed up too. your 15 going to be 16!your 2 years apart from a 13 year old. and your like.. a freshman or something. you still have college to go to!(if you want to go.)everyone in this world has a their true love.you just can't find yours yet.and thats ok.i don't think you should even think about this.i can't believe you even said this. but take some advice from me..
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first of all your sixteen hello? sixteen. you're worrying too much about dating your not too old! your still too young! you shouldn't worry too much about what people think and anyways your still going through puberty.
second if you are getting breast implants so a guy will like you then you are definetly going for the wrong type of men. you want a guy who will love you for the way you are. guys don't fall in love with big breasts, that's just lust, they fall in love for your personality.
third i think the reason you dont have a boyfriend is because you don't love yourself. if you love the way you look, you'll feel and look different. love yourself for who you are god made you that way for a reason
and fourth breast implants are like tatoos once they are used they cannot be removed. think about it do you really want to walk around not being able to see your own feet? you should think about the pros and cons when making these decisions because a decision like this can change your life
hope i helped
-Matt
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its all geneticss. dont get plastic surgery because at 15 you are still in puberty and still growing. When you are older and stop growing, maybe in your late 20's, and your breasts are still small, then i guess you could consider it. but definitly not at 15
and if a guy doesn't like you just because you dont have big boobs, pardon my french but hes an asshole. Guys that only look at whats on the outside and not the inside are losers and dont deserve your time. They dont want girlfriends, they want trophies to parade around so other guys will be jealous&envious.
hope i helped you ♥ danielle
(rating would be appreciated please&thankyou)
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1. Your sister is a c-cup because of genetics. Perhaps your fathers side probobly is full of big boobs
2. Your not old your only 15
3. You should never get plastic sugery when your young because you'll start seeing all these other problems with your body (that only you could see) and get addicted
4. If your a nice person, and have alot of boys will like you. That means nice to everyone!!
I hope that helps
BleedingBeauty13
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Oh my goodness! You`re 15! You do NOT need breast implants. That is a stupid thought to be thinking about at this age. Unless you want a guy that loves your body and not you, then you shouldn`t worry, because your breast size doesn`t affect the nice guys. You aren`t too old to have a boyfriend. I`m 13 and I dont`t even THINK about boyfriends, even though I like them. It`s not your breast size that is affecting your love life, its something ELSE.
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You are too young to even be worried about this. Your body is still developing, just give it time. Besides that, do you really want a guy that only likes you for your boobs? Big boobs aren't all they're cracked up to be--trust me I know.
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Well first of all, im sorry but no a breast enlargement is not the answer. if you let it happen naturally, then they will develop and there won't be pain....etc. you are only 16 and still on the line of dating and not. well i think that you just need to live carefree of boys and then they will see that you are intriguing. but don't go for all that fake stuff.. a guy should like you for your true self not your fake breasts
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Just remember, guys aren't everything! Something could go wrong. I wouldn't do it. Too much trouble, money, etc.
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i think its obvious why no guy will go out with you. and let me give u a hint it has nothing to do with breast size.
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I know plenty of people with your same size and they are doing fine. Breatst enlargement is a ridiculous thought at your age. Don't wory. Your not gone growing. Love your body. Small breasts can fit into really cute and fashionable tops easier and with tube tops/halter, you don't even have to wear a bra! The reason that you don't have a boy friend is not beaseu of your breat size and if it is, trust me, those are not the type of boyfriends you would ever want to have. Maybe some guys are turned off by your lack of confidence that you seem to have. Just think of the positives. :)
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I'm sorry to tell you, but your lack of breasts is NOT affecting your love life. There is obviously something else going on with you that is preventing members of the male gender to like you.
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dont worry and your too young to get breast implants not until your 18 but if you only like horny guys who can only think about them for get about them im sure you have a great personallity you dont need breast to lure a guy just a good smile and a colorful personality
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okay well intill you are old enough to get breat inplants then just get patted bras or like jack your sisters and stuff it till you are 18 and old enough to gte inplants.and you know thats sad you want to get such a big change just because some dude wont date you because you have miscoto bite boobs.
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Okay well you are 15. That is what you need to realize here. You are still growing and will be until you hit around 20. That's 5 more years of growing and chances are, you're not staying AA forever.
PLENTY of people haven't had boyfriends until they are older than you so don't even think that that is the problem. Why would you want a guy that only dates you for the size of your boobs? That is one of the most shallow things a guy can do and I have a strong dislike to all men like that.
Again, you're 15. You're not old and you probably have like another 70 years to live. All that time you have to find a boyfrined. Why rush into it with someone who only cares about your boobs. Don't date a shallow man.
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Hey, I'm a c-cup and I've never had a proper boyfriend. Chances are it has nothing to do with the size of your breasts, the more likely reason is lack of confidence. You are obviously self-concious about your breast size. Okay, fifteen going on sixteen is not old...its very young. Lots of people don't get their first boyfriend or girlfriend until they're older than you.
As for breast enlargemt, your breasts are still growing. You should wait until you are at least 20 until you consider it. You never know, your breasts might grow. When your breasts are finished growing, if you still feel that their size is getting in your way of feeling good about yourself then it is reasonable to consider it. Although, there are many risks that you should think about. Besides, do you really want to be with a guy who is only attracted to your boobs? I know I wouldn't. There are lots of girls I know that are AA-cups and have had a handful of boyfriends. I wouldn't have enlargment, If I were you. If you do insist on having sugery, wait until your breasts stop growing and consider all the risks very, very carefully. Remember, not all cosmetic surgury goes well.
Love, Rainbow
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first off- your breast size doesnt destroy a person's life!- and i dubt that you havent had a boyfriend because of your breast size. im a 36A- and ive had a handful of boyfriends- believe it or not- the majority of them all wanted me for the way i looked- so im guessing my breast size didnt turn them away!- guys are jerks- but honestly- it takes a REAL jerk to be with a girl because her boobs are big. i believethat if you are wanting to make them bigger so that you can attract guys- then you will never be truly happy- becuase guys will be all over you for the wrong reasons. jsut keep searching. your body is still developing- and still will be until youre about 18. so youve still got a aways to go. and plus, even if your mother told you you could get enlargement- (which would be really hard to convinve her of that) doctors wouldnt let youdo it becuase youre a minor. the only way they would consider enlargement with the consent of a parent for a minor would be if there was a birth defect or disease involved. some kind of health issue. i know from experience because my sister had an undeveloping breast, and they told her she could only get it fixed with an adult's consent- and all they would do is fix the one that doesnt grow- so its not for cosmetic purposes. doctors are real professional about stuff like that. so just keep on goin, girl - things cant be tht bad for you if me and you are the same cup size, and everything's goin alright for me! good luck.
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There is nothing wrong with small breasts. And if you want breasts just so you can get a boyfriend, then your asking for a shallow relationship. You want some guy to use you for your body, then dump you afterwards? You want them to be hanging and giving you back problems when you're older? I don't think so.
You shouldn't get a breast enlargement at such a young age. Your breasts are still developing. It will hurt too, the enlargement. And those stitches, and the pain after that. Do you want that? I don't think so.
You can get someone to love you by being yourself. Be more confident, and show those guys that you don't need breasts to be fabulous. Do you want to live in hiding, never revealing your true self? I don't think so.
You are not too old, and people go to age 19 without a boyfriend. And if you show your true self, you will find a guy who loves you for you. Guys don't judge by breasts, unless their shallow assholes.
Hope I helped!
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First of all, i'm some what offended. I'm fifteen & i'm an AA cup. There's nothing wrong with it, and a lot of older girls do have AA cups. How is breasts destroying your life? All it is, is fat. There not that great. I have a boyfriend & we've been dating for almost a year. He doesn't care about the size of my breasts. He thinks there cute. And loving, & being physically attracted to someone is 2 completely different things.
Don't get surgery. It's expensive, scary looking, dangerous, & you are too young! Gosh.
By the way, you aren't old. You are still in your early teens. It's not to late to get a boyfriend. My lord, darling.
As for the help, if you want bigger breasts, get a wonder bra. VIOLA!
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whoa chill! i know a lot of 15 year olds with AAs. the fact that you have small breasts isn't the reason you don't have a bf... it's your lack of self confidence. no, it won't "destroy your life"... you still have time to grow and you can change things...push up bra? you can get some confidence and get guys with your personality. no, you are not too old. look at it this way... your mom is slightly bigger than you... and she IS your mother. (she had to get a guy sometime in there) see? breasts aren't everything. what about your butt? a lot of guys are "booty guys" meaning they like girl's buts above all things. and then there are guys that like legs, stomachs, etc. so yes, you will find someone to love that loves you and your small breasts. they stay perky forever so learn to love them. <3
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First of all, you are defenetly not too old to have a boyfriend. You're really young and most girls don't even start dating until they're about 16 years old. You're still maturing and your breasts might grow, but having big breasts isn't everything. If guys don't want you because you might have small breasts, they're big jerks and you don't even want someone like that. Surgery is serious. You're still young to get it and I personally don't recomend it but if it's something that you want when you're older, that's your decision. If you want people to love you, just be yourself. You don't need large breasts for that. You don't need shallow people in your life. Surgery isn't the best way to get your life back and besides, your life isn't even ruined..
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Oh honey, every teen goes through this at some point in time, wanting to have bigger boobs. I remember putting socks in my bra just to see what it would look like if nature ever decided to hurry the hell up! You shouldnt want bigger breast just to get a boy! You do want someone to love you for you right? Not what you can offer them. Say you were married to a man who married you because you have big boobs then one day your fake boobs, the sac busted then you have nothing. He will leave you right? because that's why he married you.. Not really but I'm hoping you'll see my point on this. If you have small boobs or big boobs or get your leg chopped off in a car, you want your man to be right there for you forever, because he loves you not because your possess extra meat in the tit area. In answering your other question, no your not to old to have a boyfriend!!! If you still want breast enlargement, then that option is open to you at the age of 18 and about $6 thousand dollars.
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okay first, 16 isn't too old to get a boyfriend.Its old enough to get one but not to old. You have a long way to go. Next, your boobs has nothing to do with if you get a boyfriend or not. Its a superficial way of looking at things. After you get surgury (which I don't advise) you still might not get guys, you may get guys to notice you, but the wrong kind of attention. A guy won't look at your face anymore. Once they get what they want from you they leave and you won't get, or want to get them back. Get someone to love you by talking to them with confindence but not smuthuring them with love and crap. dont be someone your not. dont take any pills or cream because its all a load of crap
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You are not too old to get a boyfriend. You're still very young and the surgery could be dangerous. Someone you date should care about you for you and not just want you because of your body, but your personality.
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Your Not getting too old to have a boyfriend. There are many guys out inthe word that do not care about your breast size. You shouldnt change yourself for any guy. Brest Enlargements are not the way to go. Your still kind of young just wait.
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do not get breast implants. you can get infected and die or have to have them taken out. Plus they DONOT feel real. i'm a DD so i'll tell u a terrible secret about girls that have big boobs- it hurts. Old men stair at u, your back hurts, you look slutty in every shirt you wear. But if you want that kind of attention, stuff em with tissu. and/or gain weight. join clubs at school etc. to meet guys. I wouldn't want a guy that only wanted me for my boobs, i would want a guy that liked me for who i am... but hey thats me. your life isnt ruined, your young still. Continue being a nice smart individual and love will come when you least expect it (:
(i'm 15 and don't want a boyfriend any time soon because all my friends that have them lose their perspective and priorities aka they get really nuts)
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Okay, first of all--stop thinking that boobs=love. They don't. You don't want a guy who likes you for your boobs. It hasn't destroyed your life at all. If you think that nobody wants you because of this, you're wrong. You haven't had a boyfriend because of your attitude, is my guess. Have confidence in yourself and go out there and get a guy. There are PLENTY of women with small breasts who lead perfectly happy, normal lives AND get boyfriends. Example? My best friend has no breasts to speak of, and she's had three boyfriends. Now granted the first two weren't the best guys on the planet and I don't even know about this current one, but that's because she makes bad choices, not because her breasts are small. My other friend has rather large breasts, and has been single for eighteen years. Seriously, okay, just get over it. YOU are worth much more than what you have on your chest.
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i think you should be glad that you don't have big boobs, because if you were super hot guys might be scared to even approach you, or they would date you for your looks without even trying to look beyond that. and besides, do you really think that guys are so shallow that a girl's breast size is so important to them? a guy that would make you happy will like you for who you are, not how big your boobs are. besides, just because they're small doesn't mean you're not attractive - i was practically flat-chested in middle school and in high school, yet plenty of boys thought i was cute.
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You shoudlnt change yourself just to get guys to like you. If they really like you for yourself, they wont care what size you are at all. Dont do that, because you might not be done growing.
hope this helps.
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Hey girl,
that is not an answer. i know the feeling of wanting to be loved but breast enlargement is not the answer to getting someone to love you. i mean it will attract guys a lot more but its only going to get you the creeps that are only in for the physical attraction and sex. put ur self out there but not like that. express urself and that someone will recognize you for you and come along.
runawy_4evr
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Ok, first off... you are SIXTEEN and you're worrying about ending up alone??!! You're still young! It will happen!! And boys don't not want you because you have small boob!! has a boy you asked out actually said no because your boobs weren't big enough??!! Breast Augmentation is probably out of the question, most docters won't opperate on teenagers and besides, I went from being an A-cup to a C-cup in a year, you'll probably get a bit bigger than you are now!!!!!
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first of all if a guy only want you cause your breast than you dont need them. honey were all given what we can handle. there would come someone who would love you with the acups and all you just have to be patient. (by the way i have triple d's and i hate it) so watch what you wish for.
Jazzy**
a boyfriend would come
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hey, your asking if your to old to have a boyfriend, well you still have a long way to go before your to old to have a boyfriend i mean your not even out of school yet. also if guys arent goin out with you because of your breasts then they're very immature and you just need to wait till the rite one comes along. also you should wait to have breast implant until your like in your 20's.and there are a lot of things that go wrong with breast implants. if want to know all of them go to google.com and search "the pros and cons of breast implants" or just "the cons of breast implants" and vice versa.
I HOPE I HAVE HELPED!!!=]
-Mr.Advice1120
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