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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
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Good for you! You don't have to rate me, just wanted to give you a thumbs up!
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I think i might make a good lawyer because im persusive and it seems interesting. What do law schools require you to have? Do you need to be advanced in math? Im not the best in math..so im just wondering. is there anyone out there who can tell me about law school and i know its a lot of money..but would i be able to get scholorships? (link)
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I don't know myself but I do know where you get the info you need. School guidence counsler.They can let you know what you need before you get into college too.
Another thing to get is a college handbook.It will tell you all the classes and pre-requsites to get a law degree.I do know that it will be a lot of hard work.Good luck!
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i rate 5's
sorry if this gets long..
Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me! (link)
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Whatever you do do not kill yourself. You need more help than anyone here is qualified to give you.You don't give your age so the only advice I can give is to get with someone older or go to an emergency room and tell them you're having suicidal thoughts.They will get you with someone more qualified to help you with this problem.If you have no way to go there call them. Do it now.Do not wait any longer.okay?
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At a recent school dance, they had 2 grades there: 7th and 8th, and im in 8th grade. My friend billy was there (7th grade) and me and my friends were hanging out with him and his freidns who are also in 7th grade, a year younger than us. I was flirting like a tonnn with this one kid, steven, and it was really fun and he was being a flirt back..he's very nice and sweet, has adorable green eyes and is very cute. he's got a cute voice and cute hair and is my height too, which is a plus. Anyway, my boyfriend and i of 1 1/2 months just broke up and it was really hard for me. But at the dance, flirting and hanging out with steven made me realize how much fun that was you know? so like we became friends at the dance and then my friends and his friends were like hey i see a connection here! and they kept saying stuff so he asked me to dance and we danced together and talked and like...i really liked it. I felt comfortable with him, in his arms, and i just wanted to kiss him. It was really cool, but hes in 7th grade and im in 8th. People think it's weird to go out with a 7th grader when youre in 8th grade, and if you do, everybody talks about you and it alters your reputation. I don't really want people to think anything bad about me or get a bad rep from going out with a 7th grader. He's very cute and sweet and i think i really like him...but he's not "popular" but i cant see why..i'm confused on what to do..could someone please give me some advice? stay just friends or date him? Thanks!! and sorry it's so long!! (link)
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Date him. My hubby is a year and a half younger than me and we've been married for ages! Not that your going to marry this guy but there is not a thing wrong with it.If you like him and he likes you, the hell with everybody else!Have fun!
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i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do? (link)
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This is the second He's 18 I'm 14 Question.Are there no boy's your ages out there anywhere? Give 'em a break and check them out! There is a law against 18 year olds and 14 year olds. He can GO TO JAIL for dating you, especially if mom gets wind of it. Mom is right in this case--move on girl! Do they still use the term "jail bait"?
This is where it comes from. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but that is just the way it is.
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Why is it when I look at certain people's typing, my eyes begin to burn? My eyes burn especially with sticky caps, and internet abbreviations.
(luv, gurl, boi, seckz, lol, brb, kay, ur, u, r, etc)
It's almost unbearable, how do I make it stop? (link)
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Boy, I hate those internet abbreviations too, I thought maybe it was my age, maybe it's not! I'm glad I'm not the only one.I don't think it's going to stop anytime soon though.I just ignore it myself.I don't mean to offend anyone but it always remings me of grade school kid's who can't spell. Perhaps we need a I hate foolish looking gibberish group???
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Okay me and this guy have been friends for this whole school year and we've been pretty tight. I really like him but I'm not sure he feels the same. He smiles at me a lot, we talk in class all the time. And he used to never talk to me at my locker, but now he does. He gives me back rubs in class and I don't know what to do. How can I talk to him and let him know how I feel without wreckin' our friendship? (link)
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If he's talking to you and giving you backrubs I'd say he's interested in you. Just sit back and enjoy the friendship you have.Don't be in such a rush to tell him how you feel.If he feels the same you will know soon by the sound of it!
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ok i have this friend and she thinks she has the worst skin and really all that's bad is she's got kind of redish skin and a few spots of acne and its not TERRIBLY bad..but she thinks its really bad so she fricken LOADS on concealer..powder..foundation and all that junk and it takes her AT LEAST 20 min to do her make-up (meaning just the foundation n stuff) and it looks SO bad and people are now starting to talk about her and she just wears sooooo much foundation and idk how to tell her and its disgusting almost..what should i tell her?? (link)
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You don't say how old you guys are.I'm going to assume you are younger girls.
Do you have an older friend or sister who could be of help here? Maybe have a girls day "in" and teach each other makeup tricks? Sometimes it's easier if you let someone a little older help out so your friend doesn't get upset with YOU.
Go to the library or go buy some magazines that give makeup tips.Read them with your friend and try some new things. When she looks good and is not as spackeled up, make a big deal about how great she looks. I think you might be able to tell her without coming right out and saying "you look like a clown" this way.
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Okay, He's 17, I'm 14, I really really REALLY like him and have known him for about 5-7 years. Family freinds, tight. whatever. ANd he knows I like him and he's said a bunch of times that he like's me as much, we were valentine's, have plans on "hooking up", and then I asked him what our relationship was, and he says "friends with benefits" and I was hurt by it, just because freinds with benfits sounds like he doesn't care about me as much as I do him, even though he's said it. I know age is a thing to get over, but it's not that bad. When he's 18 it'll be differnt. And he and I live in different towns, like 30 minutes away, and see eachother on vacations and what not. Distane and age is not an issue for me at all. But it is for him. And I don't know what to do, because I really like him, and can't figure out what he wants from me. Any adivce? I'll rate and whatnot.
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I know you probably like this guy but here is the problem. When he turns 18, if you two really "hook up", he can get in some big time trouble.It is called indecent liberties with a minor and can get him thrown in jail should your parents decide they don't like the idea.
I'm sure he likes you well enough but he has to think of these things.And I don't think you would like him to get into trouble with the law either would you?
The "friends with benefits" remark was really a hurtful thing to say. My advice on it is this-Boy's and men sometimes say REALLY stupid things and think they are being cute. They USUALLY mean no harm by them, but they hurt just the same.Let him know you were hurt by it.
I think you would be much better off finding a boyfriend closer to your own age.I know 3 years doesn't seem like a lot of years and when you are older it won't be a big deal,but right now it is even if you don't realize it.
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I am 21 and my fiancee is 25.I am a female. My fiancee and I have been together going on eight years in July 2005. There is not enough love making and not hardly enough sugary stuff.(kissing, hugging, sweet nothings) He seems to be tired all the time! Well now I'm tired. Am I being to demanding? What should I do to let him know I need romance without offending him? (link)
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Why wait for him? You make the first move.Don't think any man can resist that! Buy yourself something sexy and seduce the poor man!
What does he do? Is he in school?
Maybe he's working to hard.Share a bubble bath.Have some candles.Use your imagination. If this doesn't work, let me know a little more and we'll come up with something else! Good luck
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Ok, Well you see I'm not allowed to have a b/f. But I do. And when I go somewhere with my friends and hes there he always hangs out with me and stuff. And he's awesome! But when I go ice skating or something my brother usually goes. And since I'm not allowed to have a b/f or anything we can't hold hands or anything! It makes me so mad! My brother is 11 and he'll tell my parents whatever I do!! Someone please help me because this is gonna happen again tonite!! (link)
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You don't say how old you are but I'm guessing your parents don't think you are old enough to date, right?
You can have a friend that is a boy without dating you know.And holding hands while skating is not a big deal I don't believe.
Instead of making a big secret of it why don't you just ask your mom's advice? They like to give it once in awhile and letting her know that you value her opinion and that you will consult her about such things may just lead her to believe You are growing up.I wouldn't go into the times you have seen him before...I would just start fresh today. Tell her a friend of yours who happens to be a boy would like to skate with you tonight, and does she think this will be okay. Have fun,Hope things go your way. Let me know!
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I have to do a speech and presentation in English on Tuesday. I am really nervous and hate looking at people, and if I look at my friends I just laugh. However, I can't get anything higher than a B if I don't have 'audience awareness' and I have to get all A's. So does anyone have any tips on how to be less nervous or how I can have more 'audience awareness' or even how to stop myself laughing at the funny parts of my presentation?
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Sounds to me as if you might just be to nervous to laugh at the funny parts! I feel for you, I really do.I have the same problem.
I hope this helps.Take a couple of deep breaths and kind of look out over their heads.Look at them but don't if you get my drift.And for gods sake don't look at any of your goofy friends.If they know what will happen they will try to make you laugh and you don't need that. Look at someone you don't like maybe.
I know it isn't much but I hope it helps.Good luck and let me know how it goes!
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M/18. Me and my best friend talk on messenger all the time and we both have talked about how we have feelings for each other. Before we knew how we felt about each other, I could talk to her all day until my face turned blue. But now, I feel like I need to impress her since we will be starting something soon. So now whenever I am with her, it seems like I can't think of anything to say. It was so much easier when we were just best friends to get something out of my mouth. It's even getting more difficult on messenger. I don't know how to fix it. Somebody help me. (link)
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Oh please, do not go out of your way to impress her now! She likes you already right? Nothing has changed except for the fact that you now know how each other feels.
That is not to say you can't do nice things for her, lets just not go overboard!She will think you are up to something for sure.
What kind of things did you talk about before? Do it again. Things might be a little awkward at first but you will be okay.You are already friends so just move slow and don't think you have to jump right into being REALLY serious.That is making you too nervous isn't it?
Continue to be the guy you've always been with her and everything else will come with time.Good luck!
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ok i have a friend that is so called in love with this boy they only met once and she though that they will last forever but now he doesn't even try to call her he calls me non stop and now she thinks i like him but i don't. i don't want to loseany of my friends as of right now. so what should i do (link)
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Tell the guy you're not interested and to stop calling you. Simple as that.
Now, if you really do like the guy and want to be friends or something that is different.But, since you say not...Tell him not to call you.
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i used to be good at basketball until certain circumstances in my life forced me to give it up for a long period of time.
i'm in love with it again; but unfortunately i am badly out of practice. still decent, but not great.
is it possible (please look at the age*) for me to improve, and regain my old skill? obviously i am going to practice- but will simply practicing do it?
i understand that this is all very general, but please just tell me what you know.
also, any general tips on how to get better at basketball (exercises, etc) would be very much appreciated.
*sixteen/female
thanks in advance. (link)
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If you were good once you can be good again.You know what it takes already.Practice, practice and more practice!
You make it sound like you are ancient! 16 is young! You have all the time in the world go play basketball!
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I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now (I'm 15/f) and things have been going great! We love eachother very much but lately he's been getting to protective of me. I'm sure many of you know what a "myspace" is, if not it's a site where you pretty much make/find friends. One of my friends that is a guy commented on almost all of my pictures telling me how beautiful I was and how lucky my boyfriend is to be dating me yadda yadda yadda. My boyfriend sees the comments and gets really mad because he said it's a "dick thing to do" for a guy to call another guys girlfriend "hot" and "sexy" and "beautiful". He said to me "I don't know what goes on in your school and I don't trust the guys there." So, now he's mad at me for not saying anything to the guys who were merely COMPLIMENTING me. I said to him that he should be happy that another guy is telling me that I'm pretty because you're the one that is dating me and you're the one who has my heart. He said that's not the point, he doesn't want other guys saying I'm pretty. He's driving me FREAKING INSANE! I don't know what to say to him! He's never been like this up until a few weeks ago! I can't convince him that there is nothing for him to worry about. What should I do? This is getting out of control. (link)
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You need to tell this boyfriend of yours that it is YOU he is supposed to be trusting.Who cares what other guys say.
I wouldn't accuse him or anything but maybe this stems from a guilty conscious on his part? I'd ask some questions about HIS behaviour.
The whole thing in a nutshell sweetie is if he doesn't trust you (and vice versa) your relationship is not going to go anywhere anyway.
Tell him to shape up or you're gonna move on.
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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much. (link)
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The best way to get over a guy is go out and find a new one.I know this will be hard to do since you are still in love with the guy but, you really need to try.This guy does not have the same feelings for you so waiting for him is a waste of your time.
There are plenty of nice guys out there- go find yourself one of them! Good luck.
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Well, this is probably one of the most random questions I personally have ever asked. I love Panera's French Baguette (sp?) it's basically a long loaf of french bread. It is by far the best bread ever. But, getting to my question, I buy the bread when it is nice and fresh so it's warm and soft. After about 2-3 days, the bread gets hard. Is there any way to prevent the bread from getting hard? I had to put it in the microwave just to make it soft enough to bite into! I can't bite into hard things because I have braces and they might break off. But can anyone tell me as to how I can keep the bread from getting hard and virtually unedible? Thanks! (link)
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but "homemade" type breads just don't keep that long.I love to make bread and luckily it is usually gone by the next day! Bread you buy at the store has preservatives in it. Homemade breads have none. So, unfortunatley they just don't keep long at all.I guess you will just have to get it ate faster! OR, if you are adventerous you could always make your own! Try it. Don't let a failure stop you either(failures still taste good). With practice you can get real good at it.If you try-let me know how you did.
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well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do? (link)
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Dear PH,
Sounds like you were used.You really need to try and get to know someone a LOT better before you have sex with them.Start over from scratch and wait until you are older. I realize this is hard to do and that there is a lot of pressure to do so.
This boy will probably come back for more.Try not to give in to the pressure of it.I always told my daughter not to sleep with anyone she wouldn't marry if the need arrived.You are still to young to make that kind of decision.Really you are.
If you find that you just can't help yourself, make sure the boy uses protection.There are all kinds of diseases out there that can ruin your entire life.You are also to young to have to deal with an unwanted pregnancy.
Please think of these things before you have sex again.You have plenty of time for all that later.Be a kid a little while longer!
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i think im a really good advice-giver on here. my rating a 4.62. well when my friends come to me for advice i dont really know what to tell them. but when random people ask me advice i no right away a 'solution'. can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do to start helpin my friends? (link)
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Dear advice giver,
I think you are probably pretty normal!
Giving strangers advice is pretty easy.You give it and they take it or they don't.You never really know for sure.
Friends on the other hand are right there in your face!There is more room to doubt yourself.
Just try an advise like you would anyone else.Tell them to take it or leave it,you don't care.When it turns out you were right-rub it in,HAHA!
Really I wouldn't let it bother me.If something big comes up you will give them advice.If not,don't worry about it.YOU ARE NORMAL!
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