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Premaridal sex
im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m
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Aww, why aren't there more guys like you in the world. You are so considerate, unlike some selfish guys who just use women for their body. I LOVE that goal. But go through puberty, and adolescence, and all those stages, then talk. Your hormones will be driving you crazy, I tell you, crazy. CRAZY! You might not be able to make it out a virgin. Sorry if I'm bringing you down, but lots of people say that, then they can't take it, and need pleasure.
Hope I helped.
P.S.- In your subject, you spelt premaritial wrong.
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Why are there not more guys like you? Most guys I'm around are total perverts that think sex is just a thing to laugh about or do for fun. I think sex is the greatest expression of love and I'm thrilled that you want to wait till you're married! Never give in to hormones or peer pressure because once you've lost it, you can't get it back and I (as well as many other girls) think non-virgins are turn offs. Good luck & good idea! I hope you start a trend! lol!
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good for you. we need more like that. lowers the STD numbers! ;)
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thats the sweetest thing ever i think its really good when guys want to wait until they get married. that shows that you have a lot of respect for women and girls.
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If you want to stay a virgin until marriage thats up to you. In my opinion you need to be fully intimate before you get married because you need to make sure everything is perfect. Considering you are only 13 my guess is that you will probably change your mind. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck your desicion.
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i think thats a great goal for you but 13 is still young to be deciding whether or not you are going to wait until marriage to have sex. If you are strong minded and dedicated to it then propz to you because its an extremely hard thing to do. Theres your feedback! Best of luck. xoxoxo sar
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Go ahead!!! That is fine. If you want to wait, the special girl WILL soon enough come a long.
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Well i dont know many guys that want to wit til they are married... i wish i would kinda of waited but i plan to get married to the guy im with now and i lost my virginity to him.. i love him alot and dont want anything that i have with him with anybodu else he is my everything.. well anyways i think waiting is a great idea that way you dont have to worry bout STD's or gettin a girl pregnant...or even emotional things like that can affect anybody if you love and care for somebody then have sex with em and get hurt... i've never had that happen but i know alot of females that have and a couple of guys, but i hope my feedback was good..much luv dez
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iTs a good thing! sometimes i wish i would have waited.. or at least for a guy your actually in love with! some people may not accept that... but dont let anyone tell you anything different! you will be totally glad you waited for the right guy you know your going to be with! :)
xOxO, aLeX
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If your in love, then you may not have to wait untill your married, unless you absolutely want too. It's sweet that you want to wait, and some girls wil appreciate it, if they wnat the same, so all in all, it depends on who your with, if your in love, and how your significant other feels on the issue.
Rate?
-Hope I helped-
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That is a good thing. Most guys don't want that. Good for you!
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Yes... that's the best thing you can do... you should save yourself till you get married... that way it'll be really special... & you will be very happy with yourself...
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I think it's really great that you want to wait because it shows that you also respect women. I'm 13 and all my friends, guys n girls, are planning to do it before they get married. so maybe a lot of kids in your area arent planning on waiting either. and in highschool, they might make fun of you for still being a virgin. o well, I'm sure your parents will be very proud of you. just ignore all the insults that you might get and you'll be fine.
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I think it's great that you want to do that.
You might get a bit of stick from your peers, but you should ignore that and stick to your guns.
You're obviously very mature for your age and I'm sure that you'll find someone who can give you what you want :-)
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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Thats very cool and im sure you'll do it and you'll find someone whos will to as well if your ashamed by it dont be its your choice
roxie
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xxxxxx good luck
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Omg thats so awsome! You rarely..RARELY hear a guy say that! That is so awsome! i respect you so much for that! What ever you do DONT let your mind change!! ♥
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Good for you! You don't have to rate me, just wanted to give you a thumbs up!
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that's so amazing! you never meet anyone that says they want to wait until marriage!... especially a guy!
Love Always,
Maria.
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irish -
If it's feedback you're seeking for your decision against premarital sex, my opinion is good for you! Why aren't there other guys like you out there? :)
Keep in mind you're still pretty young though, once you enter high school your hormones might get out of control and you'll end up feeling like you want to break your word on this goal. If you want to strictly abide by it, control your urges and remind yourself that the wait will pay off especially with a special girl of whom you love. In simple words, be prepared for the future and everything that follows along with it! Good luck!
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Its easy to say that when you 13 because sex isnt really there yet. But being a male it will be easier to wait till marriage, as long as you have cool friends that wont say shit to you about it. Good luck though!
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That is so sweet and amazing. Good luck on trying to keep your virginty for that special girl. That is great that your waiting. At least you'll know that she loves you and it will mean something. Don't let losing your virgin be something you want to lose to say you lost it. It's great that you thinking this way. You seem like a great guy, because not a lot think like this! You'll make some girl happy someday
♥ Krissy
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I think that that i a good goal. and if you can do it im very impressed....
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hit puberty, then come back.
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I think that is the most amazing thing I've ever heard out of a guy's mouth.
If you stick through it all through high school & college, then that would amaze the woman you marry.
No matter what anyone else says, wait. I think that's really awesome, and most WOMEN do. Some GIRLS think it's stupid, but fuck them, they're probably whores and will end up pregnant by the time they're out of high school.
Good luck.
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I think if you really stick with this promise until you're married, it will be really special. I'm doing the same thing and think it's a really good thing. It may be a long time to wait...but in the end it will be worth it. =)
♥ lAuRa
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