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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
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Why are there not more guys like you? Most guys I'm around are total perverts that think sex is just a thing to laugh about or do for fun. I think sex is the greatest expression of love and I'm thrilled that you want to wait till you're married! Never give in to hormones or peer pressure because once you've lost it, you can't get it back and I (as well as many other girls) think non-virgins are turn offs. Good luck & good idea! I hope you start a trend! lol!
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(Sorry if this turns out really long!) I've only been cutting myself for a little over two weeks but I'm already addicted. I told my boyfriend first because I vent to him a lot. I trust him and he can comfort me. Then later I told my teacher and she suggested for me to talk to my school counselor. My teacher told my parents, too. My mom talked to me but it wasn't about ME, it was about what my sister went through. It wasn't helpful. So I talked to the couselor. She freaked out and kept telling me, "You can't do that! STOP! You have to stop! If you do it again I'll tell the principal!" That is not what I expected from her. It wasn't helpful or encouraging. It was threatening! It almost made me want to cut! Later that day I was sitting alone in the gym slicing the skin on my arms and my Gym/Health teacher saw me and made me go alone in a room with him to talk. He kept telling me that even though life may suck now, it'll get better because I "have a good mind". I didn't think it was helpful either, but I started crying. Everytime I had to talk to someone, I wanted my boyfriend there holding my hand helping me endure it. I feel uncomfotable around everyone but him. One day my teacher actually tried to send me home because I was cutting and crying and miserable. I told her I didn't want to go home, I just wanted to talk to James. (James is my boyfriend.) She said she couldn't let him out of class. I glared at her and wouldn't talk to her. She called my parents and they took me home. The whole time I wanted to scream, "I JUST WANT JAMES!" When I got home I just reread old notes from my bf. He's the only one who can comfort me and it feels like he's the only reason I go on living. Do I depend on him too much? How can I stop cutting if I have nobody to talk to? Please comment or give advice! Sorry so long! (link)
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You obviously love your boyfriend. You wouldn't want him to cut himself, right? That's probably how he feels about you cutting yourself. Also, What if every time something didn't go right, you cut his arm. You wouldn't do that, would you? Of course not; you love him! So why do you do it to your own arm? What if someone else wanted to do it to you? You wouldn't let someone else cut your arm. To stop cutting you've got to look at it from different points of view. Good luck!
-Sammi-
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