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pleazzz hellpp
well im only 13 years old...and ive just recentaly lost my virginty to my boyfriend...and now that i did have sex with him he dosent call me that much or come and see me ....i think he might of just used me ...but im not sure??? what should i do?
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Isn't it obvious? That boy used you. Just forget about him. Next time in a relationship, I wouldn't give in sex so easily. No offense, but wow. People younger and the same age as me are losing their virginity. Amazing. I'm not directly pointing it you, though. Sorry.
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try to talk to him. he might just be nervous around you. give him some time, and he'll come along. if you feel like he's using you, let him go, because obviously he's not worth your time. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
ps- youre only 13?!? why did you do it that soon?
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Uh, yeah, he definitely used you. Forget about that slut.
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Whatever you do..dont freak out too much. And yes i suppose he did use you. Sweetheart, i kno that you regret losing your virginity to some freak, but dont ever regret anything that you took action in when you kno that you wanted to. The reason i said "no regrets" is becuz now you kno that he is an idiot and you learned for yourself. Sometimes its better to learn on your own FROM regret.
Just stay cool and stay protected!
Sam ^_~
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Dear PH,
Sounds like you were used.You really need to try and get to know someone a LOT better before you have sex with them.Start over from scratch and wait until you are older. I realize this is hard to do and that there is a lot of pressure to do so.
This boy will probably come back for more.Try not to give in to the pressure of it.I always told my daughter not to sleep with anyone she wouldn't marry if the need arrived.You are still to young to make that kind of decision.Really you are.
If you find that you just can't help yourself, make sure the boy uses protection.There are all kinds of diseases out there that can ruin your entire life.You are also to young to have to deal with an unwanted pregnancy.
Please think of these things before you have sex again.You have plenty of time for all that later.Be a kid a little while longer!
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I think he has used you why dont you try calling him and ask him why he doesnt ring you anymore or speak to you if he did use you dont let him see that it gets to you find yourself a new guy and make him jelious
roxie
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xxx hope it goes well
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Yes, it does look like he's being using you. But he could also have a good reason for not calling you as much. Maybe he's been busy? I think you really need to talk to your boyfriend and see what is going on. Ask him if he does still you like because he hasn't been calling in the last few days. Maybe you'll work everything out with him, maybe not. But this does seem like he's been using you. And if I were you, I'd dump him. He shouldn't be putting you through this type of heartbreak!
♥ Krissy
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I f i was you i would go and tell him whats what i mean it's obvious that he used you to have sex and you are not to blame because you did'nt know about his intentions and i think that you should play it cool for a while them get rid of this boy...
I hope my advice has helped and please rate me thanks
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