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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much.
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How can you love someone who doesn't love you back? You're enamored with him, you're infatuated with him... and yet this guy just floats from girl to girl - is he really worth your time? Look at how he treats his relationships... he has no respect, he pretty clearly doesn't care.
It sounds like you're in love with the thought of being in love more than you are actually in love with him. It is time to stop paying attetion to him - let it go, he's not worth your time.
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I'm sorry that you didn't like what I had to say to you on this topic. I offered what I did because I've seen it time and time again, and lived it myself. Love IS a two-way street - love is built on trust and communication. You don't have that with him at all... you think you love him... I don't doubt that at all... but he clearly doesn't love you. And that pretty much kills it right there.
You need to move on, for the sake of your emotional health. You've the only one who can make that decision. There isn't really a magic techinque you can use to let you. It has to be a consious decision by you to realize that it is over and that you have to move on. Don't dwell on the past... don't reminisce of your relationship with him... think instead about the future and what possibilities it might hold.
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The best way to get over a guy is go out and find a new one.I know this will be hard to do since you are still in love with the guy but, you really need to try.This guy does not have the same feelings for you so waiting for him is a waste of your time.
There are plenty of nice guys out there- go find yourself one of them! Good luck.
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This guy is obviously a user he dates girls just for a bit of fun and you should not feel guilty about loving him as it was not your fault you dated him just try and look at the positve's and try to move on i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped please rate me thanks.
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He has a new girl every week? Wow, what a slut! He obviously has a lot of issues, too. It's hard but you really need to get over him, you don't deserve a guy like this. Trust me, there are plenty of other guys that are way better than him. It's possible you don't really "love" him, but are just lusting after him. Try doing some things that will help you be less obsessed, for example, play video games, have a party with your girl friends, go shopping, get your hair done, etc. Also, get a livejournal at www.livejournal.com
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Well, I know exactly how you feel. Last October I started to see this guy that I had just met. He had another girlfriend, but we weren't technically going out. Then hr finally broke up with her and we started to officially go out. We did have some problems before that, but I was happy that we were finally going out. But the night before Thanksgiving, he broke up with me. I felt that he did that just because his cousin didn't like me and told him to do that and also he wanted to go out with someone else. But let me tell you, there are some people out there who aren't ready for relationships or just don't want a committed relationships. Do what I did and let time heal you and try to busy yourself with your friends or extra-curricular activities. It may seem hard at first, but eventually it will get easier, that's what I did and it helped for me. Try it out and get back to me if you can. I'll try to help you out again if that doesn't work. Plus, you just to forget about him because he obviously doesn't feel the same and is a big time jerk.
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Hun, you really need to get over this guy. He isn't worth the pain. Think of it this way; he moved on and found a new girlfriend. Why can't you move on and find yourself a new boyfriend? I know it's really hard to get over someone, especially if you love him. I think you should get out there and try dating new people. Maybe it'll help you get your mind off your ex and you'll start to crush on someone new. Remember, this guy wasn't your Mr.Right, or else you and him would still be together. Keep looking for that special someone, you'll find him. But you got to get out there dating again, so go to it. You'll get over him, I promise you that. You just have to find a guy that is better then him. One that makes you feel so special and you'll forget all about your ex!
♥ Krissy
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