ok i have a friend that is so called in love with this boy they only met once and she though that they will last forever but now he doesn't even try to call her he calls me non stop and now she thinks i like him but i don't. i don't want to loseany of my friends as of right now. so what should i do
Claire15 answered Friday March 4 2005, 4:19 pm: First off, does this guy know how your friend feels about him? If he does, you have to get together with him and remind him of this fact. Then you have to tell him that in order to keep your friendship, he has to back right off or you may risk losing your friend. It would also be helpful to find out if he likes your friend back, so that you are able to advise her properly.
Then you have to talk to your friend. Tell her that your friendship means the world to you and that you don't like this guy. Also say that even if you did like him, you would never do anything with him as that would mean betraying her and you could never do that. However if she still doesn't believe you, it would be helpful for you to gently point out that she has only met him once and is she really willing to put a guy that she has only met once before your friendship. If she says yes, then she isn't really your friend. I know you don't want to lose her, but is it really good for you to have such a jealous friend?
Good luck, I hope everything turns out okay for you
Teza answered Friday March 4 2005, 4:01 pm: Tell him to stop calling you because you arent interested and that you would just want to stay friends. You dont want your friend to keep beliving that so tell him so she doesnt get more mad at you. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
karenR answered Friday March 4 2005, 3:09 pm: Tell the guy you're not interested and to stop calling you. Simple as that.
Now, if you really do like the guy and want to be friends or something that is different.But, since you say not...Tell him not to call you. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xSammieXlubsXux answered Friday March 4 2005, 12:07 pm: Not trying to sound rude or mean, but you should set that one guy straight and tell him that he should stop calling you. The next thing that you should do is talk to your friend about what is going on and then she will understand, then you wont lose anyone. Also, its in your friends nature to think that you like that guy and for that guy to like you becuz of the fact that, that guy keeps calling you. Everything will be ok once you get to the bottom line of it all.
Just stay calm and talk it out with the peepers.
LOL!!
AskNick answered Friday March 4 2005, 11:31 am: Tell this slime ball whats what tell him that you don't like him and that your mate does...
i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped you please rate me. thanks [ AskNick's advice column | Ask AskNick A Question ]
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