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i think im a really good advice-giver on here. my rating a 4.62. well when my friends come to me for advice i dont really know what to tell them. but when random people ask me advice i no right away a 'solution'. can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do to start helpin my friends?
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yes this is normal.with anyone you are afraid if give wrong advice so before giving your friends (or anyone really) advice tell them that it is in your opinions and their and no promises at all.
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It is normal. When you give advice to other people, you speak your mind, and thats the end of it. Buuutt, when you give advice to your friends, you think of if they would think bad about you because of what you do. I would think about what you say, act like you are giving advice to a random person, and say whats on your mind. If they get offended, just say that they asked for your advice, so you gave it to them. Besta Luck
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maybe your afraid that if your friend follows your advice, you'll watch them get hurt and know that its your fault. and with random people, you dont care as much if your advice doesnt turn out the way it was supposed to. i totally understand that. i guess if my friends ask me for advice, i have no clue either. but i guess on here you have a long time to think of ways to word it, etc, and you can erase it and start over! i think you should tell your friends what you honestly think but tell them they should do whatever they think is right.
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Dear advice giver,
I think you are probably pretty normal!
Giving strangers advice is pretty easy.You give it and they take it or they don't.You never really know for sure.
Friends on the other hand are right there in your face!There is more room to doubt yourself.
Just try an advise like you would anyone else.Tell them to take it or leave it,you don't care.When it turns out you were right-rub it in,HAHA!
Really I wouldn't let it bother me.If something big comes up you will give them advice.If not,don't worry about it.YOU ARE NORMAL!
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Thats because if your advice sucks here, who cares? With friends, you can keep them or lose them over it.
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Well this might be becauce if you tell random people you only know the problem thats it.But if your friends ask for advice you already know the type of person they are and a little more then the problem so that affects what you tell them.You can't change this but you can try to give advice to your friends.Good luck with this all.
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