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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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The possibility exists that he does still like you.Don't put the rush on him though, he may only want to be friends.
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now (link)
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I don't see why you can't be friends.You may have to do some apologizing though.Make it clear you don't want to be her boyfriend so that doesn't get in the way, or cause confusion down the road.
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ok well im a girl and i went out wiht this guy for like 5 months and i swear i am in love with him. and i cutt over him (that was an oopies) but anyways i kno im in love with him cuz its been like 6 months and still i havent gotten over him... whoah thats a long time. and he got a girlfrned like a month after we broke up. and he didnt cheat on her but he only wnet out wiht her for a day. and then he had another girlfrend a while later. and he came to my house and we madeout on newyears and everything while he was going out wiht her. and he just recently had a girlfrend and he slept at my house and we held hands and cuddled and see i had a dream about us going back out and having sex. and i told him about it and hes like. well maybe it doesnt have to be a dream. and he used to say he wont go out wiht me again and then he just sayd i dont know .. thats wutt he says now.. but when he dumped his recent girlfrned we just wnet to a movie last friday and he like got mad at me for no reason.. like he does this sometimes but i thot he started to like me again. but i dont know. my frends just thot it was just a thing around his frneds but he wouldnt talk to me or sit by me. i told him that i love him and that i love him more then his recent girlfrend did and hes just like ohh ur soo sweet!
i wanna kno... does he like me ? do you think we will go out again ? why is he being like this.. ? i need major help on this stuff and wutt do i do??
please help me or just IM me on deEply iN l0ve69
thanks andrea*x0x (link)
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I think he's just using you between girlfriends.
And you let him.
Say no next time.In love with him or not.Either that or put up with it.I don't think he wants you as a girlfriend He just wants the benefits when no one else is around.Sorry I know thats not what you wanted to hear.
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I'm 14 years old, female and in the 9th grade. I've been sick for 4 1/2 months now, out of school and everything with an illness called colitis which is a disease in your large intestine and causes constant trips to the bathroom...it's embarassing yeah, but it's not like i picked to have this. Anyways, i would have thought being sick would bring me and my friends closer together but really, it ripped us apart. My best friend, or at least thought she was my best friend, completely ditched me 24/7 and said some really mean things to me and she lives right down the street from me and not once outa the 4 months did she come to my house to just visit with me and whenever she needs me, i'm ALWAYS there for her and like i wanna end the friendship cuz she is just a complete b**** like you wouldn't believe but the thing is, its hard to end the friendship as much as i wanna cuz i have so much fun with her. I need advice on what to do!! It's been driving me crazy for months on what to do and i just don't know anymore...:/ (link)
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People..young ones included, sometimes really don't know what to say to someone who is sick.They feel really uncomfortable around them.
They don't know if they should discuss it with you,They don't know anything about it so it makes them uncomfortable.I say cut her some slack.Things will get back to the way they were soon.
I've worked in medical field so I know about colitis.I hope you are feeling better.:}
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically (link)
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Take it slow.It may not be any better now than it was six months ago.If you continue to see each other then carry on as before.
You also want to be sure that isn't the only reason his going out with you.
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today i sniffed my fabric softener and it smelt good and i stuck it up my nose and the powder rubbed off into my nose and i have no sense of smell what do i do? (link)
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Both nostrils or only one?
Just kidding.You probably shouldn't be sniffing dryer sheets.If it was dryer sheets.
If you still can't smell tomorrow go see an ENT doc.I think you'll be ok.
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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??
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You talk to her the same as always.She has a boyfriend now and that is just how it goes i'm afraid. Someday you'll have a boyfriend and do the same thing.It doesn't mean she doesn't like you any more.She just has other friends now that aren't necessarily your friends too.Tell her how you feel though and see if she can take time to spend a little of her time with you.
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
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Ahhh :} How sweet are you!
Anything complimentary will do.
Write her poems if you can, they like that too.
The only thing I want to add is don't go overboard.You want it to really mean something when you give a compliment.Does that make sense? You don't want it to become expected of you.
Wanna get married? I didn't think so, I'm taken anyway! You are going to make some lucky girl very happy! Good luck!
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... uh.. ya.. i just screamed at my parents at the dinner table since i got pissed off.. and guests were there.. i need help on blowing up like that.. people will think that i don't have any manners which is partly true.. anyway.. i hope that you have good advice on how to iunno.. calm down when i get mad and not scream at ppl. thx
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And you are still able to acsess your computer? Your parents are nicer than I was!
You have to think before you speak.You have to try your best to stay out of situations that you know are going to set you off.You have to take control of your emotions. If you can't do it by yourself, request help getting treated by an anger management counsler.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, and we really love each other. i'm 15 and he is 16, and going to be 17 next month. he thinks everything is perfect in our relationship and i feel the complete opposite. like we will go out and it will be the most amazing time ever, but then he finds someone to completely ruin the magic of it all. like he will go somewhere and wont talk to me or lie about what he did etc. ( i know he lies sometimes but i dont tell him i know ) he always asks me why im upset and i just say im not and he always asks me why i dont tell him things and its because everytime i call him to talk to him about something he asks me to call him back and i have gotten so fed up with it i just dont call back anymore and then he like freaks out.. and he has been lying to me about him smoking.. and all he does is hang out with his friends.. he talks about them non stop, like i dont know if he wants me to be jealous or what.. but i guess its kind of working.. i dunno, how can i talk to him ? am i being selfish ?
- i dont want to break up with him though, i mean, i really love him, and i almost feel like i am being stupid for putting up with all that i am, but i dont know, please help :( i'll rate high (link)
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If you can't talk you don't have a good relationship.You need to change that.No magic way to do it, you just talk..Honestly about your feelings.
If he is lying to you already, he has no respect for you at all.If you can't get him to stop lying then your relationship is in trouble.
Don't make it necessary for him to lie to you.If you don't like it that he smokes...he knows that. Don't nag about it. He doesn't want to hear it so he lies to you.Same deal with the friends.Don't make him feel he has to lie.
You need to discuss these things and get them straightened out if you want to continue to have a relationship.
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ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl? (link)
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You better not do anything without a condom.
Only she can tell you how far she'll go.
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heyy ok.. umm this has been going on for about a month now and i really cant take it anymore! my friends think ive changed, they think im dramatic, and they think im obbsessed with gossip.. me nd my 3 best friends have been best friends for 2 years now and everything was perfect then.. we never faught.. we never talked about eachother.. nd we were always there for eachother.. this year is different nd were all starting to fight.. nd my 1 friend always takes other peoples sides wen i fite with them.. its like she hates me.. nd i dont think any of them trust me.. nd oh yea my really good friend and i have been hanging out more nd they think i like her better then them and i dont! and they dont believe me wen i say i dont! i said i wanted to kill myself nd some1 told the guidance office nd now i have a therapist! ughh.. my parents now kno about it nd no1 leaves me alone at all anymore! nd another reason why they think ive changed is becuz i smoke nd im 13.. i kno its not smart but ive only done it a couple of times cuz people say it relieves stress nd as u can see theres been alot of that going on in my life! well thanx sooooo much for reading this and please give me adivice.. it would mean alot to me! (link)
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You probably terrified them with your suicide threat. Thank goodness someone got you help.Since you are seeing a theripist discuss this with him/her.They will help you out.
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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long. (link)
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ok, the mom in me is gonna come out and say stay away from such partys because if it gets busted you do to.
But, since you may not listen to that fine piece of advice...You could tell him you're there because it's a free country and you were invited.If he still keeps hounding you kick his ass.He's probably wasted anyway and won't remember how his nose got broken.
P.S. good for you on staying away from all that junk.It takes a strong person to stay clean in todays world :}
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well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long. (link)
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Talk to your boyfriend about it.Tell him you would really be happy if the next time he would tell her to stop.Might be better coming from him,since she doesn't listen to you.
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couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you. (link)
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You're probably ok since she started her period.Don't forget condom in future.Even though you pulled out, a small amount of semen will (for lack of better term )leak out before you ever come.It is very possible to get pregnant from this.So, play it safe in the future.
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On St. Patrick's Day it is my birthday. My family was planning to go to New York (I live in the Tri-state area so it's pretty close) to see the St. Patrick's Day parade (my brother is marching in it). The only problem is in my science class we will be disecting a heart. Even though it's kinda gross I really wanted to be there for it. So now I have to chose to either go to a parade tomorrow or on my birthday. What should I do? I honestly have no idea. (link)
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Ask your teacher.Maybe he/she will let you discet a heart on another day.
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(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say? (link)
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Talk about something else. If they ask about your boyfriend just tell them that since they don't believe you anyway your just not going to waste your breath.
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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !
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Try just talking to some of them. Maybe your flirting is scaring them off.Just be yourself and sooner or later one will take notice.You have to talk to them though.
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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do? (link)
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He'll say whatever he can to keep you on the hook. After all if the other girl should break up with him he can fall back on you right.And in the meantime He can have his cake and eat it too.Save yourself problems down the road and find a new guy.I know you like this one but I think he's using you.Just be friends but don't expect him to dump the other girl anytime soon.
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i was just wondering about this with some friends the otherday:
-If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
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-If you ask someone if they're a compulsive liar and they answer yes, should you believe them?
--ohh also
-If a person with multiple personalities threatens suicide, is that a hostage situation?
thx and plz answer asap :)
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1}We wouldn't.But it's probably the most popular mispelling.
2}no not me.
3}Could be.If a person with multple personalities kills themselves will all of them die or just the one?
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