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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.
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ONe... what are you doing at a party like that if you don't do what they do? If you don't do the stuff they do then don't hang around them or you'll start. You shouldn't feel like a "loser" if they dont accept you. They'll all probably end up on america's most wanted or in jail or dead doing drugs and stuff. If you want to avoid the temptation to not kick some ones... butt...don't hang around with them. You wont be tempted if you don't hang with them.
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Next time you're at a party, have some clever repartee! Tell him off, for sure. You have just as much of a right to be there as he does, and if he has a problem, he can't stick it where the sun doesn't shine. Just because his life is so boring that he has to fill it with drugs and booze doesn't mean the rest of us are so inclined.
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I have to say, good for you. What's so cool about drugs and stuff? That's right, nothing. I guess you could try writing your feelings down, or venting to someone whenever you get mad about those things. Or try screaming/punching your pillow.
-Hope I helped.
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okay my answer is pretty basic: YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING AND THIS KID IS A LOSER. when he gets cancer/charged with drunk driving/an HIV he will be kicking HIMSELF in the ass. i mean think about this kid when he is 50? how cool will he feel then?
straight edge all the way lol!
im not sure if that really helped but i hope it was encouraging?
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Just tell him that crap like that isnt for you and that your just here for the party. If not just completly ignore him.
~Always
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Just stay away from those kind of parties. Maybe if one of your friend isnt going or friends, get them together and go to a movie or hav dinner or something together. Just do something fun on the party nights. That way you had an excuse if someone asked you where you went! I wouldnt mess with those kind of people because sometimes they can get to you and make you do drugs somehow. I hope you have fun! and good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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Stop going to parties, if going to parties means dealing with him, and being around a bunch of low-life druggies, then don't go, you are not one of them, you sound like a smart person, I am shocked, and happy with you, I hope you don't ever become one of those people.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just ignore the SOB tell him to f*ck off and to kiss your ass and that you are better then them for not doin all the shit they do
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ok, the mom in me is gonna come out and say stay away from such partys because if it gets busted you do to.
But, since you may not listen to that fine piece of advice...You could tell him you're there because it's a free country and you were invited.If he still keeps hounding you kick his ass.He's probably wasted anyway and won't remember how his nose got broken.
P.S. good for you on staying away from all that junk.It takes a strong person to stay clean in todays world :}
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Why do you want to keep yourself from kicking his ass? Seems like a perfect candidate for it if you ask me.
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I would kick his ass! Hes a freakin loser! You are acually better then them for not doing that and its great that you dont! Ignore him because the more you let it bother you the more you are gonna be pissed. No one else is against that you dont do drugs or drink and have sex. Hes the only one that thinks that and he isnt important anyways! x0
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Ignore him! You're better than they are, and they apparently know it! You are an intelligent person with enough common sense to know what is right from wrong! Just because you don't smoke, drink, or have sex doesn't mean you're a loser...And violence is never the answer, as corny as that sounds, it's the truth! If you are really going to have to deal with him for a long time, then yeah just ignore him, don't take anything he says to heart...he's just trying to bring you down because it makes him feel better about himself. So Hope it all works out, stay smart and strong! Much Love!
XoXo
Jessie
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You can either ignore him, or tell him to fuck off because your beliefs are your own, not his. A party is supposed to be about enjoying yourself with friends, it has nothing to do with alcohol, drugs or sex. If this guy gives you a hard time again, just tell him that you don't tell him what to do with his life, get the hell out of yours. Your decisions are your own, and you live with the consequences of your decisions. He has no right to make you feel unwelcome just because you are clearly more intelligent. You could ignore him, but I think it might be better if you just tell him straight that you don't give a crap what he has to say, his opinion holds no value to you, and you can do what you want, just like he can.
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Ignore him. You can't let what someone says about you bug you. The only thing that matters is that you're doing what you want and you're not letting anyone change your mind about these kinds of things. You should be proud of yourself! And by getting in a fight with him, you'd be sinking down to his level.
♥ Always,
Maria
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To make things easy, completely ignore him. Druggies deserve it. They should have to pay to breath our air, eat our food and breed with other human beings. Ignore him and any other stoners.....
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why would you want to restrain from kicking his ass? just do it or get over it.
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