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At school I sometimes feel I am too mean. I joke a lot but lately I have been feeling like the jokes are too mean. I don't want people to be insecure about themselves around me. If my friends and I joke around I'll say something a bit harsh and I'll feel like I hurt the person's feelings. Even if I say "Oh, but that joke doesn't work because you're skinny," or something I still feel bad.
Now, don't get me wrong. I am not a mean or horrible person. I am very caring and kind. I just feel I can sometimes get too witty and make a rude, unkind joke. Can someone just help me try and be less mean? Thank you. (link)
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Do you get the feeling that they get upset?
I wonder because my daughter and her friend are horrible. You wouldn't believe the crap they call each other, then just laugh like idiots!
It is just the way your sense of humor is.I'd be willing to bet that you've almost always had it, and that your friends know how you are! If you think someone was over sensitive about something you said just tell them, you know I'm kidding and hope for the best.
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Hi im vanessa. im 14 years old and i am in 8th grade in ohio. My qwestion is that i dont really have any frends in my school. school will be over in 3 monthes so im kinda happy. all my friends go to the other school acadamies so i see them on the weekends. i dread going to school without friends. sicne the year is almost over should i just try to get through it? i will be seeing my other friends from the other school in my secondary school (highschool) so i am excited. Help? (link)
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It's almost over. You've done it this long just hang in there.Good luck in high school!:}
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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Perfect moment, perfect guy.Why not make it a pleasant memory?
Really doesn't matter. But, when you are ready you will do it.Until then don't worry about it:}
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I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me! (link)
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So long as you let them they are going to do it.If you don't stop you are going to get a reputation that I don't think you want to have.The only problem is, you won't be able to do anything about it because it will be true.
If you don't want to do it you tell them to stop. If they continue, that is called RAPE and you call the cops.
You could do it the easy way and just stay away from them. They are not your friends they are just using you.Further more, since you are being questioned about it they are probably announcing it to anyone who will listen.
Sorry to be so harsh but you are to young to have
your life ruined by boy's who are going to wind up in jail one day by the sound of it.
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ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
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No way! Speaking from experience here. My husband was a grade below me in school.Don't let it stop you!:}
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Is there anyway to get bigger boobs besides breast implants? I'm 14, and have no boobs what-so-ever. Please don't tell me to wait. Im desperate here. (link)
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No there is nothing you can do.Guy's seem to like any kind so long as they are boobs so don't worry about it to much. If you want artificial ones ya just have to get surgery. They can cause problems down the road too.
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i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?) (link)
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Do nothing.It would only hurt your aunt.She will find out on her own (may already suspect, womens intuition is amazing) Or she won't. Maybe it will just end and she never has to know.
I know it's a terrible thing but you really have to leave it alone.
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im going to be tutoring a 5 year old this summer. Does anyone know of any web sites that have activites that will help her? Thanks! (link)
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If you punch ABC into google you will come across bunches of things.A lot of printable worksheets etc. at a lot of diffrent sites that have ABC in the text! Most geared toward pre thru 3rd grades.
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Okay at my job, I like my manager.... he's metrosexual, and of course we have that fratnerization rule. But anyways, he found out (not from me) that I like him, and he said he likes me too, but when I am around him, I don't feel like he likes me... I mean yeah he still laughs at my jokes and things like that, but he also said that if he wasn't my manager, he'd talk to me.... so I dunno if I am wasting my time, or if I should go ahead and keep talkin to him (promotions are in April, so if I do get promoted, I can talk to him...) so what should I do (and apparantely, he likes this other girl who's a manager, but she said she's over him...) (link)
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If anyone guessed that you guys liked each other you could both get fired.That is probably why he has kept his distance. I don't see the rules being diffrent if you do get promoted. usually they don't want employees dating if they work in the same building not just between employee and manager.May not be the case where you work but be sure.
If he likes another girl who works there he may be hard catch, even if SHE is over it.You basically need to figure out if you two dated and had a bad break up would you be able to continue to work in the same place without it being a problem to get along and also not make the other employess uncomfortable around you both.
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Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.
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It's normal.
He sounds great!
I know how you feel but he's dating you so,he must not feel that way!
I have felt that myself.
It sounds like you are indeed lucky.And happy!:}
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Ok...I've never met this kid in person but I talk to him online all the time. He's lets call him J's friend, and lets call him B. Well J told me that B likes me...I want to know if it's possible to like someone that you never met in person? I think I like him. (link)
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You can certainly like the personality they show you on line. Doesn't mean you will like what ya see! Proceed with caution.And, if you decide to meet the guy or something, make sure it is in public place and take a friend or family member with you. Be safe.
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my step-dad made me download mozilla firefox because it is supposed to be better than microsoft internet explorer.. so my question is.. is it really better? and i also am having a problem seeing my mail on optium online (link)
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Before I got this new computer, I had so many pop ups etc.and my IE had about blank in there and wouldn't let me go ANYWHERE. I downloaded firefox and was amazed that it cut WAY down on all that.And I could actually surf the net. It was great. I think you will like it.
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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do? (link)
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I personally wouldn't do it because the itching is murder when it starts growing back like you say. Tell him you will when he does. Once ought to do it!:}
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my best friend is ditching me for her boyfriend, hes basically taking my place and i feel like she just wants to be with him and doesnt care about me anymore.. and i was wondering if anyone knows any songs, quotes, or lyrics that might have to deal with something like that.. or does anyone know any good quotes about life or changes (link)
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well, I have a pretty good one on my column at the moment.I'll keep it up another day in case you wanna go look.:}
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ok ive been going with my new boyfriend for about a month now. our parents have already met and my parents LOVE this guy. and his parents love me. everything is perfect, but for some reason i dont even like him that much. i dont know why, but i just dont. a TON of girls like him, and he likes me alot and is very loyal to me. he goes to a different school but we live 3 blocks away from eachother and hangout all the time. the prob is theres this guy at my school who ive liked since the begining of the year. hes liked me too just a crush, but he had a gf and they been goin out for a year. well a bout 3 weeks ago they broke up. he broke up with her for me. he wants to be with me. well we talk on the fone 24/7 and hes super sweet. i really like him. but i dont wanna break up with my bf because hes perfect and my parents absolutly love him/trust me with him. but brandon and me really like eachother...heeelllpp (link)
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Date both until you can decide who you want to spend the most time with. That is what dating is all about. Plenty of time for serious relationship down the road:}
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ok so i've been going out with this unbelievebly sweet kid, ryan, for like 3 weeks now and my BEST friend is getting really jelious. i love ryan and am not going to break up with him but my friend cant even stand to see us together. i dont want to lose my best friend but i'm not willing to give up my boyfriend... what should i do? there are plenty of guys who have asked my friend, aubrey, out but she denies them all. i dont know what to tell her. (link)
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She's jealous because a lot of your time will be spent with the boyfriend now. Maybe she feels you are going to abandon her for him.
Reassure her that while you intend to spend as much time with Ryan as possible, you don't intend to totally desert her.Just have a nice long talk and see if you can get her to understand. She will have her time with you divided by a boy one of these days too afterall!
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months and his mom found notes about us having sex and both of us are really christain and love eachother so much.. otherwise we wouldnt had done that ... and his mom n dad freaked and he was away and i was here and then i went away and i didnt see him for 10 days... he picked me up frome the airport and everything seemed ok that night.. then that morning he seemed weird... and now i feel like hes avoiding me and doesnt love me anymore... he never calls me or acts like he cares... we have almost been togather for a year and i cant imagine my life without him. hes my bestfriend and boyfriend.. and i couldnt lose both.. but now both of his parents think im a slut and dont like me. i think they are getting to him. i was soposed to hang out with him tmmr and have a talk with his parents so that they will let him come over again... but then he said he couldnt because he had a birthday party to go to. im torn. i love him so much. i dont know what to do about him. or what to do if his parents are mean to me... i know i should stand up for myself. but im scared and dont know what to do. (link)
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He's probably embarrassesed that his parents found the notes.He's probably embarrassed that his parents want to discuss it with you.
If his parents think you're a slut they must think he's one too.So, that probably isn't the case.You might get a lecture but if you want to see him again it is something you are gonna have to put up with. Just be as honest as you can with the parents and hope they allow you to see each other.
Next time you talk to him ask if he has any idea what they are gonna say so you'll be prepared.
Good luck to you both:}
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I'm 16, i get told i'm pretty, 5'3, 120lbs, brown hair and eyes, sophmore, friendly, funny, and i love just about everyone... ok well thats the 411 on me but theres a huge problem with it: I'm sick of being single! Ive been single for waaaayyyy too long now. I want a real relationship that lasts! I used to like this one guy who just got out of a really long relationship, so that obviously didnt work out so well... then i started liking this other guy who goes to another school (i still kinda like him now too but things are confusing) and i THINK he likes me too. He's let me drive his car w/o my permit, he's taken me to this romantic park that i really wanted to go to so i metioned it to him and he surprized me, he didnt smoke for a week because i dont like it, he's spontaneously stopped by my house to pick me up, he takes pics of me on his camera and he left a message on my phone last week saying that he was looking through them and seeing me made him happy so he thought he'd call me... basically hes done adorable things like that! but the problem his he has a gf that he got after i started having a thing for him... i heard about it before he talked to me about it and he said "do you think i was sober when i asked her out?? no.." and "youre better than her, thats why i'm more worried about you being mad right now than even being with her" but yet like 3 weeks later he's STILL going out with her. I have a feeling he likes me, but since i'm not a skank i wont do all the things that his "gf" will do with him (i wont do them especially because he has the gf now). I think that he's falling for me and my personality but he's still with her because he wants some.. but i dont want that at all! I want a boyfriend who will love me for me.. i dont want to get played!!! what should I do?? PLEASE (link)
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Is this other girl really a steady girlfriend, or just another girl he goes out with? People can date more than one person at a time.Though, doesn't seem like they do it much anymore!
He really seems to do things that say he likes you a lot.Maybe you should just ask him exactly where you stand in his life. Just ask like you told it to us....You told me I was better than her, so why are you still dating her ,you have me a little confused.?
Tell him you don't want to get hurt so you really need to know.Don't want to fall for him more if you're going to be hurt in the end.See what he has to say. He did come clean about seeing her so he must want to be honest with you.So you get him to tell you.
Hope it turns out the way you want it to! Good luck.:}
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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out
Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude
It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.
So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
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I think your best answer is right under your nose.Ask Paige and Alex to help you.Try some make up. I really doubt that you are ugly!
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i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
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My dear, there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian but it's something you have to fugure out for yourself.Sorry that's not real helpful I know. Don't worry about it you are young yet.Your feelings will become more clear as you get older.
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