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My best friend is jelious of my relationship with my boyfrie
ok so i've been going out with this unbelievebly sweet kid, ryan, for like 3 weeks now and my BEST friend is getting really jelious. i love ryan and am not going to break up with him but my friend cant even stand to see us together. i dont want to lose my best friend but i'm not willing to give up my boyfriend... what should i do? there are plenty of guys who have asked my friend, aubrey, out but she denies them all. i dont know what to tell her.
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Maybe your friend has a valid reason as to why she doesn't like your boyfriend. Have you changed at all since you have started dating this guy? Do you find yourself talking about him, and you and him, non-stop when you are around her? Have you been pushing your friendship with her aside to be with your boyfriend? All of these things could play a factor as to the reason why she is jealous of him. To me, friends always come first. Because your boyfriend can dump you anyday, and where would you be then? Without a friend because you ignored her while you were dating him. Talk to her, and find out the exact reason as to why she is jealous of him. Let her know that you love her as a friend, and that you don't mean to do things that would jeapordize your relationship with her.
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She's jealous because a lot of your time will be spent with the boyfriend now. Maybe she feels you are going to abandon her for him.
Reassure her that while you intend to spend as much time with Ryan as possible, you don't intend to totally desert her.Just have a nice long talk and see if you can get her to understand. She will have her time with you divided by a boy one of these days too afterall!
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Tell her.. you dont want to lose your friendship with her over a boy but your not willing to give up Ryan. just be with your boyfriend and she needs to get over the fact that you and ryan are together.
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