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Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.
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I actually feel EXACTLY the same way! I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now but we have dated before in the past. He is one of the hotter kids in our grade and every girl drools over him! So i sit there and think why me? When he could get any girl he wants at this school. But hes very commited to me and seems perfect for me! We have many things in common. Of course im in 8th grade and all the 7th graders just say how lucky i am to being with him but if they say that to me maybe the boys are saying it to him? Maybe not but who knows! So dont look at you as the lucky one! He obviously wants to be in a relationsip with you!
Hope i helped!
~KiNky4bLiNk182
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thats great!! feeling that way about a guy shows that you really care and are true about your feelings towards him. it is definately normal to "praise" him and think he is amazing. dont tell yourself you dont deserve him cuz obviously you do if you are with him!! take care and good luck to the both of you!! :)
-ashlea
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Its normal to think that your boyfriend is better...i mean...if you think hes amaising then your gonna get to that stage sooner or later! Well if he is so "Amazing" he wouldnt be going out with you if you didnt think you were amazing too! asHleyx3 & <3 AmBeR <3
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It's not normal, that guy's a tool.
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Oh, yes.. know it well, actually. Sometimes I'm just happy to know a person 'cause they're so absolutely AWESOME! I know how you feel, I think this often, "Why in the world do you hang out with me? There are much better people out there!". I was writing in my prayer journel, and I try to be very, very specific when I write, and I was attempting to describe how I felt about a friend and our friendship... and it was useless. There are words in my head, but I can't make them come out making any sense! Is that what you mean? Because if that's what you mean, I know the feeling quite well. :)
-FunnyCide
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It's normal.
He sounds great!
I know how you feel but he's dating you so,he must not feel that way!
I have felt that myself.
It sounds like you are indeed lucky.And happy!:}
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yeah its pretty normal, especially if its a new relationship, but as you get more familiar with him and the two of you are completely comfortable in each other's company, you need to feel like equals. if he's so amazing then he'll treat you just like you deserve to be treated and you'll live happily ever after! ♥
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♥ its great that you found someone who is so amazing! but i think you are cutting yourself short. i bet you are just as amazing as he is..he is lucky to be going out with you! hope i helped!
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Aw, I am glad you got such an awesome guy. You must be amazing too, or he wouldn't be going out with you. Remember, he probably feels the same way you do! Its okay to feel the way you do, just don't idolize him so much that you let him take adavantage of you or anything (although it sounds like he wouldn't do that anyways, if he's such a great guy...) It's fine to look up to him and admire him, because obviously you love him! Don't criticize yourself though, or compare yourself to him, because you are worthy of having a great guy, and not only are you lucky to have him, he is lucky to have you as well. I went out with this really popular guy last year for a long time, and I felt like the luckiest girl, and I absolutely adored him. I was so flattered that he liked me, and I know exactly how you feel. I finally realized that others see the great things in you that you don't see in yourself. While you are focusing on all the things you don't like about yourself, your boyfriend just sees how beautiful and sweet you are. I hoped this helped you, congratulations on finding such a great guy, good luck to the two of you! Have a great day!
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Dont be so down on yourself. If you with an amazing guy, than you must be an amazing girl. You have him and thats all there is to it. Just be happy with him! And yes people feel that way all the time...its just their insecurity getting to them. I hope you guys have a great relationship!
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wow you are one lucky girl.. i mean ive never felt like that but i wish i did.. he probably feels the same way about you.. he picked you out of all the other girls so he likes you more than any of them.. dont think that he could do better.. this guy is going out with you!
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If he's so great, he obviously see's something in you. I'm sure he has a choice in girls, but he chose you, so there's gotta be something good about you.
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