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Well me and my boyfriend have exsperimented "below" the belt. He never said anything before, but now hes complaining about me not shaving. I shaved once before, now i usually just trim. When i shved i hated it i couldnt stand it, it itched and hurt and it was annoying. What should i do?
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well, thats not nice, he souldnt care.
do you know what would happen if you two didnt do anything? would he leavE?
jsut make sure that what you are doing isnt whats holding you two together
Kels
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just tell him if he doesn't like it then go screw himself he should be glad he has you.
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I think shaving is all about what you want. Not about what the dog, your mom, or your boyfriend wants. I rather it be shaved, but I won't tell my boyfriend/girlfriend/whoever I happen to be dating at the time that they have to. If they don't want to shave...so be it. That...is really up to them doll face.
If you don't like to be shaved, tell him that. Tell him he should respect what you think and feel and ect. Tell him to shave and see how it feels. (haha.)
If you do want to get rid of the hair though, you could always try waxing..but trust me...that does NOT feel good.
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Trim it into the shap of a dog. If he's a white American boy he will think, "..hmm. Man's best friend." Either he loves your now snazzy hair-do or maybe he's into beastiality...
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Get it waxed! It doesnt feel gross and it will be gone for like over a month!
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He doesnt HAVE to touch you there..am I right?
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Turn around and tell him (if he's old enough to shave) 'well, you should too since kissing your stubbly face is pretty much the same thing'. If he's not old enough to shave then tell him, if you want it shaved, then do it yourself. Strangely enough, some ppl find shaving their significant others' pube hair erotic. It shows that you two are deeply intimate and close enough to do such an act. But during the first time, guide him in the shaving since you don't want any nicks or cuts down there. Put your hand over his.
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um well when a guy tells you to shave...u need to get shaving cream and a good razor and shave for crying out loud!
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Wow, I feel very, upset with this guy, hes not going to ask you why you don't shave, hes not going to be curious why you don't shave, hes not going to compliment the fact you don't shave, hes going to complain?! Rewind here, when he complains about the way you treat yourself, thats when this guy should have been dumped, whether he likes it or not, you don't shave, he needs to get over it. You tell him that you feel uncomfortable with this, and if he doesn't like it, you dump him fast. Thats really nice of you to try and please him, but it hurts you, so you need to stop shaving now.
-TheTeenGirl
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ditch him.
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Shave anyways.. or tell him if he dont like it then to leave you alone.. cause he should like you no matter what you do with your body..much luv dez x0x0
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It is your body, not his so just do what you wanna do to it. he has no right telling you what to do to your body...and if you really wanna shave it , thenh just do it when you guys do it.
I hope i helped.
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I shave down there you can talk to me I was in the same position you can talk to me about it my screenname is Bipolargirl15. i am on my friends screenname now but im me sometime.
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Its not what you shoudl do, its what he should do. He needs to respect that it can be... painful for the first time. If you do it almost every day though it won't be as bad. Trimming low low low is fine though, sheesh.... if he's like that don't bother doing that with him.
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wow that sux um... i shaved once before and i will NEVER do it again i dont suggest shaving but trim it real short and explain to him why you did not shave it
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I personally wouldn't do it because the itching is murder when it starts growing back like you say. Tell him you will when he does. Once ought to do it!:}
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Shave it. I dont know l0l. But if you dont like it and if you arnt comftrable with it then dont. Do what ever you want. Who cares if it dosent make him happy. As long as it makes you happy. x0
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Well, I think he should stop complaining, it is your body, and he shouldn't dictate what you do with it. But anyways, an alternative to shaving is getting a wax. Most salons and spas will do it, call a few and ask for prices. Yes, it will hurt, but it is a pretty quick process, and it lasts a long time. The only part about the wax that will hurt is just getting it done, I don't believe that it hurts/itches/annoys afterwards. I don't know if thats an appealing option to you at all, but it is something to consider I guess. Otherwise, tell your boyfriend that it is not his place to tell you how, when, or where to shave. Guys do have personal preferences about that, but it doesn't mean the girl has to oblige. I hope this helped, good luck.
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just tell him that shaving there hurts you and tell him u'll trim it as much as you want to. maybe u should make him shave too and see how he likes it (probably not that much either)
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Well you could get it waxed. But from what I heard that hurts like crazy! I was the news one day and women rated it just below childbirth. Or use that Nair stuff. But if still bugs you, then tell him to forget about it. It's your body and not his. As for the itching, put lotion on it!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Oh hun, same thing happened to me. Same exact thing. My boyfriend had been begging me to shave down there and then when I did, he loved it. I sure as hell didn't. It itched like a mother fucker and there were so many damn ingrown hairs! It was gross. Tell your boyfriend that you're really not comfortable shaving there because when it starts to grow back, it makes you very uncomfortable and it bothers you alot. Apologize, but tell him that he has to understand and that you wouldn't ask him to shave himself down there for your liking. (By the way, when they shave there it makes it look bigger =x) ANYWAY! Tell him you're not comfortable doing it, you could keep it nice and short for him, but not completely bald. If he still complains about it, ask him to shave it himself and see how he likes it and how comfortable it is for him to be dealing with it. Trust me, it's not sexy at all having to scratch yourself there in public because it itches so damn much. Hope everything works out for you!
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Just trim it really good to where its not that bad. I know he cares but its your choice..you dont have to shave. And besides you dont like so dont do it..tell him to get over it. lol.
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