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he wants to but i feel weird bout it


Question Posted Sunday March 27 2005, 8:59 pm

I dont know what to say I am thinking bout it but .... my boyfriend said he wants to go down on me but I dont know I feel weird bout it you know what I mean I know I am clean but I dont he says it different for the guy then it is for the girl I feel he is gong to look at me different after he does it he said after he does I am goig to want him to do it again what do I do HELP!


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QueenCece answered Monday March 28 2005, 3:21 am:
you should do it. But hold first check yourself:
1. Is he a kiss and tell bf?
2. Have you guys had sex before?
3. Is he doing it because everyone else is doing it.
If 1. is no, 2. is yes and 3. is no go for it. It feels great and you'll have fun with it. Don't make it as a habit for him to go down all the time. Make it a treat for him since he wants to do it and not you. If 1. is no, 2. is no, and 3. is no then he wants to have sex pretty soon with you. If your not ready for going all the way don't go for it. Chioces are you'll feel bad and nasty. So think about it very hard! Hope I helped

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RoadkillSalad answered Sunday March 27 2005, 9:57 pm:
Stay clean, and I'd advise you to get a new boyfriend. Sounds like all he's interested in is your body, and that could be really bad news. If you do go down with him you'll regret it, not want him to go down again... Even if he wears a condom, it can still break and get you pregnant, something I assume you do NOT want to happen. I'm just going to give the sound Biblical advice and tell you that it'd be wise to stay clean until your married. But the choice is up to you, if you want to go through with it, then you can, but don't say I didn't warn you. I'm just saying that he probably just wants you for the sex and that's it... And as soon as he isn't getting any, he'll probably dump you for some other girl, something you probably don't want. Hope that's clear to you!

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Sherry answered Sunday March 27 2005, 9:22 pm:
if you dont want to do it, then dont. If hes a good boyfriend he should respect that and not ask you anymore. Maybe you should wait until you feel more comfortable in your relationship!

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LoveNJstyle answered Sunday March 27 2005, 9:13 pm:
ok DONT DO ANYTHING YOU DONT WANNA DO! if you feel weird about it, make him wait. it could lead to other things if u mean what i think u mean then your gonna regret it after he breaks up with you. <3

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