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I am 19 and I love my boyfriend with all my heart but the thing is he is in jail so i'm not aloud to be with him because my parents found out but I just can't give him up because the love is so strong. I think about him everyday and I often start crying because I miss him so much. What should I do? (link)
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Guy's in jail make bad boyfriends. I don't know why he's there or for how long....but if he cared about you and your relationship, well, he wouldn't be there.You need to get over him and move on with your life. If you stay with him I think you will have a miserable life for years to come.
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Okay, I'm really confused about this guy, it's drving me crazy. This boy and I are in the one of the same classes together, and we talked somewhat, and I did flirt with him, but didnt expect anything to come out of it. Well, we started talking on the internet a lot, and he admitted to me that he liked me. So me and him started going out. Well in school he doesnt talk much and it's kind of awkward between us, and sometimes we don't even talk. It doesn't seem like he wants to be around me much. For that first week, he was online all the time, and was the sweetest person to me, always telling me how much he wanted to see me, and now he's hardly ever on. I confronted him and asked him if he still wanted to go out with me and he said he did. it just seems like he acts like two diffrent people. At times he'll seem like he doesnt wanna be touched, and then the next second he'll put his arm around me and pull me closer. And he doesn't talk to me on the phone, and he doesnt make much of an effort to see me on the weekends. But, he is really nice most of the time, and really sweet, there's just nothing to talk about between us.I know this sounds trivial and unimportant, but it really bugs the hell out of me. So could someone please help me and tell me what's going on or what to do? (link)
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It's not trivial really. It is a good example of how people can seem one thing online and be somebody else entirely in real life. Especially a shy person, which he kinda seem's to be.
He is probably a great guy and will make a good friend. But, seems to me that you want more from a relationship than he does right now. Maybe you should just remain friends. :)
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13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how? (link)
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Has he put pressure on you yet? That was 2 months ago. If he hasn't put pressure on you yet he probably isn't going to.
Everyone makes mistakes.If you can't forgive him or stop dwelling on it then break up.
Otherwise just try your best to forget it (It's hard but possible). Don't keep talking about it etc. and forgive the guy.
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on my FAVORITE dvd, i got a scrath on it, and it skips at my FAVORITE part that i want to watch. i wiped it off with water and a tissue, and it skips a LITTLE bit less, but still at my favorite part. is there any kind of home remedee that i can put it it to make the scrath go away? even if it doesnt completely go away... what can at least help? THANKS SO MUCH... (link)
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The do make a product that fill's in the crack's for you. I myself (playstation fanatic) have used car wax, and even crayon to fix cd's. I don't know how well it will work on dvd but it doesn't change cd picture any. You need to wipe it off smooth or spin it in a cheap walmart cd cleaner to get off excess wax. :)
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does masturbation cause any diseases or stds or anything like that? (link)
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No. It's a very safe way to have sex.
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My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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They may feel the same when they see you with others too. It is just a natural reaction though.
You just have to ignore the feeeling as best you can.:)
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I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this? (link)
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I think he said it because he may have been embarrassed. Not all girls want to kiss on the first date. He probably thought he was doing the proper thing! Or he may have told you the truth about not wanting to make you sick. Holding hand's spreads more germs than kissing by the way,:) He probably dosen't know that though! I think your next date will end diffrently. Don't worry about it.:)
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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
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I would keep it to myself unless the chance s of him finding out are real good.
Telling him would relieve your guilt but would only hurt him. I believe in honesty, but I see no reason to hurt someone to feel better about mistakes. You did wrong, you know it, now forget it and carry on. :)
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i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this? (link)
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Maybe you are to young to be serious about any one boy. Date all who ask and don't get tied down right now. Dating is just one big search for the perfect one. :)
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im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks. (link)
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You mean you can't but anything online?
It is such a hit right now I,m sure you can get it even at walmart.:)
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okay im 14/f.
i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.
the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.
the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.
when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
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Can you think of someone who might like the job?
If so tell her I can't babysit anymore because the new hours aren't good for me. But, I do have someone who would be interested.
The big thing is leaving her with no one to watch her kid's. If you found someone else she wouldn't have to and you wouldn't have to give the two weeks notice either. Unless maybe she wanted you to trin the new person. :)
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There's this boy I like. He's always been kinda weird. Think a guy version of me. He's crazy and goofy and sweet and fun and weird.
Ever since October, I've had the feeling he likes me and for maybe a month or 2, I've developed a crush on him. We've been talking on AIM for a while but never chilled outside school. He flirts with me a lot during school but sometimes gets real quiet with me when he's talkative with everyone else. Lately he's become kind of withdrawn and I don't know why. But he still flirts with me a lot and acts like he likes me. A mutual friend of ours thinks he likes me since one day he says they were "comparing girls butts" and the boy I like just randomly said he liked mine soo....ok.
He's always been somewhat emotionally withdrawn but I don't know what to think. I've put the idea of us chilling outside of school on the table but he doesn't seem to want to because according to him he thinks hes some kind of horny ba****d. My friends think that's nice he's telling me about that kind of thing because it shows he cares about me but if you liked someone like he acts like he does, wouldn't you want to be around the person?
Our mutual friend thinks he likes annoying me and that he actually does care about me more than the other girls he hangs out with but I don't really know what to think.
If I want him to do something or let me do something(like once when I stole his chair and he wanted it back) I'll say "But I love youuu" and with the chair thing he laughed and said "No you dont" and let me have his chair.
In what ways could I make it more obvious to him that I like him without going all out or asking him out or telling him?
Anyone have any advice for me? Thoughts? Comments?
If you want/need any additional information, just ask. (link)
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Well you did sorta mention it once already with no results. I don't know.
Have you talked to him in person without a lot af others around? If not try that. It could be he's just a little shy. He does seem to like you so I don't really know about him! I think you just need to takl to him in private.Don't come on real strong or anything. Just ask him why it is he hasn't asked you out yet. Good luck:)
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I'm going on holiday with my friend in the summer and I am a very picky eater!!! I have given her a basic list of what I really don't like and like, totally won't eat, but Iunno, there's obviously going to be other stuff they feed me that I don't like. So I'm gonna take a bit of food in my suitcase just in case. I've already thought of cereal bars and crisps but is there anything else I could take? Ignore the fact that I'm a picky eater, just say anything you can think of. If it's a good idea but I don't like the food then I'll still rate high because you tried. (link)
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How about those snack puddings and fruit's.They don't need refridgeration.:)
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Alright...I'm not really sure what to do or think so could someone please give me some really good advice.
-My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he was thinking about dumping me. Just because he doesn't think I really like him (his friends were telling him that). And one problem is I don't know if I really like him or not. He decided not to dump me after all becuase he said he really does love me. I don't know if I feel the same way about him though. And I think I like another guy but I'm not really sure. Someone please help me!!! (link)
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Date all the boy's you can now. Don't stick to only one. You'll be tied down once you find MR Right.:)
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hey me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and everything is great until he got into some legal trouble and he has cournt on the 4th of this month. i live him with all my heart and he feels the same way that i feel for him but the thing is he said that if he gets locked up then i should break up with him....he thinks that when he gets out that it wont be the same but i no it will....my ? to u all out there is should i wait for him or no and why..i no that we will have a great furture together. he means the world to me. thatnks!!!
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I think you should break up with him anyway.Unless you like criminals? He may mean the world to you but that didn't stop him getting in trouble. And, it won't in the future either.
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Alright, so there's this guy in my class, that I really really like. I've liked him for a while now, but I've always been too afraid to say anything to him.
The other day in class, kids from other classes were passing around questionaires for data and whatnot. Well, one of them was about sexuality. My friend had told me that she figured he was gay, because, he's got great style, he's got a gentle voice, he's an amazing artist, (I know, I'm stereo typing), and he's just interesting and whatnot. So, I was watching him as he filled the survey out, because I was kinda curious. The first part of the survey was like this:
"What's your sexuality?"
a)Straight
b)Homosexual
c)Bisexual
If you answered a, then continue on to questions 2-10. If you answered b or c, then continue on to 11-16.
11 and 16 were on the back, and he filled it out on the back. I have no problem with him being gay, but it's just that I always seem to fall for gay boys, and it feels like I'll never find a cool, straight, guy.
I personally wouldn't want to date someone who's bisexual, not because I have anything against bisexuals (a couple of my close friends are) but it would be weird dating one, because it's bad enough thinking that a guys comparing you to other girls, but to other guys? That would just be uncomfortable.
Am I being stupid? Should I just forget about him? I really would just like being friends with him, but it's impossible to talk to him because he's so shy. Please help.
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I have a problem with these kind of survey's in schools. That information is nobody in the educational system's business.
The fact is that you don't know for sure what he wrote on his survey. Maybe he wrote it's none of your buisness! That would have been great.
Unless he tell's you straight up that he's gay, you guy's really shouldn't be speculating.There is absolutley nothing wrong with being gay.BUT,my guess is he is to young to deal with the malicious gossip that will spread like wildfire about him if people start gossiping.So make sure that your friend doesn't go around tellin everyone that the guy is possibly gay if she hasn't been told this by him.
When he ask's you out, then you decide what you want to do.
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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this? (link)
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I really don't know what to believe.
I think they have been saying this for ages.
I think there has alway's been crime and wars and hate. I don't honestly know that they are more now than they used to be.I think they are reported better now a day's and sensationalized in the media more.I know for a fact that more wars (that killed plenty) were fought in the name of religion than any other thing. It is all a big mystery.That's my nickels worth for you! Not worth much more i'm afraid :)
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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
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I think you should not do this again.You are only 13. I know that seem's old enough to you but it isn't. You have to tell boy's NO, and make them understand you mean it.:)
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My GF and i have been together for 8 months now and every once in a while she will get kinda upset at what i do sometimes but we always work it out. there are somthings that she does that bothers me too but i never bring it up i always ignore it, do you think i should bring it up or not? i need some help (link)
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It just depend's on how much it's bothering you. If it really really bother's you then by all means say something. If you don't she think's it ok with you and then later it will be harder to get her to stop it.:)
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hey can anyone help me? i am 13/f there is this guy at my school who i really like and think he is totally hot and cute and sweet and nice. he is all i think about and i am always talking about him to my friends. but the problem is he ignores me and is annoyed by me but i really just wanna be friends right now but he won't even talk to me anymore!!!! can anyone tell me how to get his attention? i need some help!!!! thanks so much!!!!
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I'm afraid that you'd better just leave him alone for now. The more you annoy him the madder at you he's going to get.He may just not be ready for all that yet.Girls mature faster than boy's as a rule. Not all of them of course but most of them. He will come around one of these day's.:)
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