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I don't know what to do about my boyfriend
I am 19 and I love my boyfriend with all my heart but the thing is he is in jail so i'm not aloud to be with him because my parents found out but I just can't give him up because the love is so strong. I think about him everyday and I often start crying because I miss him so much. What should I do?
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Hmmmmmm, your first sentence grabs my attention. You mean allowed, not aloud first of all. Secondly, he's in jail. He's a loser. I don't care about ratings,he's in fucking jail. What did he do anyway? Love is strong huh? Get some dignity and dump the jailbird.
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Guy's in jail make bad boyfriends. I don't know why he's there or for how long....but if he cared about you and your relationship, well, he wouldn't be there.You need to get over him and move on with your life. If you stay with him I think you will have a miserable life for years to come.
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i h ave been in a sitituation like yours but my exe boyfriend didnt go to jail (our parents talked) and the age diff was big but anyways i think you should do what you feel is right talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about him and how much you love him. im sure if your parents raelly do care they will give in and let you be with him .. and with not being able to c him arent you allowed to write letters or visit every once in a while?? good Luck Ashlee
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Well, you're 19. It's your decision who you see and who you don't. Try and calmly explain to your parents that you really love this guy and you want to be there and support him. If they don't agree, well...it's your choice whether you accept that or not. At 19 you could move out anyway, right? Try and get a few part time jobs like newspaper rounds, sandwich delivering during your lunch hour, working in a bar, etc and save up some money if you don't have enough.
And...well, 'you can't see him' doens't cover 'you can't write to him'. Write to him loads! It'll be nice for him to know that you still care about him despite the prison thing. Plus they (whoever 'they' are) say 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. When he gets out, the relationship will probably be even stronger than when he went in.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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