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Too confusing
There's this boy I like. He's always been kinda weird. Think a guy version of me. He's crazy and goofy and sweet and fun and weird.
Ever since October, I've had the feeling he likes me and for maybe a month or 2, I've developed a crush on him. We've been talking on AIM for a while but never chilled outside school. He flirts with me a lot during school but sometimes gets real quiet with me when he's talkative with everyone else. Lately he's become kind of withdrawn and I don't know why. But he still flirts with me a lot and acts like he likes me. A mutual friend of ours thinks he likes me since one day he says they were "comparing girls butts" and the boy I like just randomly said he liked mine soo....ok.
He's always been somewhat emotionally withdrawn but I don't know what to think. I've put the idea of us chilling outside of school on the table but he doesn't seem to want to because according to him he thinks hes some kind of horny ba****d. My friends think that's nice he's telling me about that kind of thing because it shows he cares about me but if you liked someone like he acts like he does, wouldn't you want to be around the person?
Our mutual friend thinks he likes annoying me and that he actually does care about me more than the other girls he hangs out with but I don't really know what to think.
If I want him to do something or let me do something(like once when I stole his chair and he wanted it back) I'll say "But I love youuu" and with the chair thing he laughed and said "No you dont" and let me have his chair.
In what ways could I make it more obvious to him that I like him without going all out or asking him out or telling him?
Anyone have any advice for me? Thoughts? Comments?
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well, it sounds to me from how you describe him as being the "male version of you" that you really understand him, and know his personality really well. what could work, (it worked for me), is if you guys have something in common, talk about it and then invite him to do something related to it, without acting mysterious, b/c that would be more like asking him on a date, and you said you dont want to do that. some examples would be: if you guys are both into scary movies, ask him "have you seen _____ it looks good im goin friday at 7 you should come" or if you guys are both fans of the same teams and like rly into sports (and if your ok w/him bein at your house) ask him over to watch a game....this way your making it obvious that you kno him well, you kno his intrests, your into him, you want to hang out with him outside of school, you want to do something special with him, and yet your not asking him out, so your not obligated to be romantic about it. i really hope this helps!!!! you said you din wanna ask him out you just wanna make it obious that you like him and i know exactly what you mean! jus talk to him like a friend like always, but make it special by talking about something you both share in common or that is unique to him or to your friendship. it worked for me! : ) good luck!!!! -G-
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Well you did sorta mention it once already with no results. I don't know.
Have you talked to him in person without a lot af others around? If not try that. It could be he's just a little shy. He does seem to like you so I don't really know about him! I think you just need to takl to him in private.Don't come on real strong or anything. Just ask him why it is he hasn't asked you out yet. Good luck:)
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