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I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?
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tell him he has to find out sooner or later or just turn straight or not its just gonna hurt more the longer you wait
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1. buy a dildo, or if you arent old enough get a friend to buy it
2. give it to your bf
3. tell him to go fuck himself
why are you dating a homophobe? and seriosly even homophobic guys like bi girls, its that whole threesome fantasy every guy has. this guy sounds way hardcore, to the point where i wouldnt be suprised if he got violent, or at least spread rumors about you. i dont know who the she in "she would be licking and then trying to kiss him." is but im guessing he is assuming that bi girls are sluts. seriously this guy sounds like a class a asshole, and probably would not accept you. i say dump him and date someone more open minded.
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You got to tell him the truth it doesn't matter how he reacts and if he does break up with you then it's because he's shallow and he's not worth it
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If I were you, I would've broken up with him, but that would be harsh and rash. I think you should tell him. If he loves you too, he shouldn't mind much. If he calls you 'nasty as hell,' the relationship would obviously be over. Someone more open-minded might be best for you.
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Honesty is the best policy in any relationship if you expect it to last. But you say that no way he would stay with you if you are bi. Then it is time to find someone who loves you for who you are. If being bi is an important aspect of your personality that you are invested in, then you need to find someone who respects that. However, if being bi means you have the right to cheat on your boyfriend with your girlfriend, or cheat on your girlfriend with your boyfriend, well...that's no different than them doing it to you. So be sure that this is all ok with you before you enter into any committed relationship.
Michele
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This isn't really a tough problem. If you're bi, that'd be really cool, at least for the boyfriend. He's saying how nasty bi girls are b/c he think you're not one and he's trying to impress you. Most girls think being bi is gross. If he really cares about you, he's not really gunna care. I wouldn't. I'd say "At least you're not getting dick anywhere else." Then I'd care.
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If your boyfriend truly loves you back, he will always love you for you no matter what. You have to keep an open, honest relationship otherwise you will never be happy- I mean if he was, wouldn't you want him to tell you? Hope I've Helped! ♥
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Why are you with him if he can't accept your sexuality? Of course you should tell him. You love him, or so you said. So you shouldn't be keeping things from him like that. Being bi is nothing to be ashamed of. And if he disagrees... maybe you should start rethinking things with him.
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Here is my opinion... if your boyfriend is talking stuff about what you are then maybe you should have a sit down with him and be like well i havnt been able to tell you this because of the stuff you had said about it but im bi and if he dumps you for that reason then you to werent meet you want to be able to find some one who likes you for who you are and that your able to talk to Good Luck Ashlee
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Maybe you should tell him, but in a way that he knows that you love him more than anything and would never ditch him for a girl or another guy! It's ok a lot of girls go through it! Don't be scared and if he doesn't understand then...he's not someone that deserves you as a boyfriend!
*I HoPe I HeLpEd!*
-*Marissa*-
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Well, you should tell him because it isn't fair to him. How would you feel if he was Bi too? He was looking at other guys the same way he looked at you, and you never knew it. He deserves to know because he's in your life too. Tell him and I don't know if he's going to understand or not. After all, you can't have a girl who looks at girls the same way you look at him. Sorry if I sound harsh, but it sounds like he has a strong opinion about Bi and Lesbian girls, and he's sticking to it. You should tell him, but i can't garuntee how he's going to react. Good luck ♥
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