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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do?
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one this your 13 and think your in love.yes that could happen but truthfully all he wanted to do is have sex with you.theres consequences like STDs,rummors,and you could get pregnent.theres nothing you can do its over and done with
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ok fingering isnt a big deal i mean if your ready to let a guy see you naked and you dont want to go too far fingering is the way to go...but sex...your a little young. Make sure you are not pregnant or have STDs and tell the guy you did it with not to go and tell people what happened for saftey of keeping rumors from starting. if your comfortble enough tell your mom you dont want he to hear it from some one else if the guy does blow it and start something....but if your not comfortable keep it to yourself until you are ready takin things slow is a good thing.
hope i helped
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you think that that is inlove?
well, what if you wouldnt have let him do that stuff, would he still be with you?
if the answer is no, then lose that freak, pray to God and Jesus about your Virginity, and you have to tell your parents!
And, You asked for my opinion, just so ya know, so when you are rating me, That is my opinion, i wont give you what you wanna here, jsut what I think, wich is just what you asked for!
Hope I Helped-
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well for one you should have stopped him because you are way too young to do these things.
and for two did you think of the consequences?
a. std's
b. pregnancy
c. rummors
NEED I GO ON?
you need to talk to your mom(gaurdian). because she will eventually find out anyways. and it's better to hear it from you.
you also need to go talk to your little boi toy, and tell him how you feel. and be honest
sorry if i seem brutal but it's nothing compared to what is going to happpen to you.
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Are you kidding me? You think you're in LOVE? I don't think you even know what LOVE IS! Just because he touched you and did things you like, doesn't mean you're in love. You should have more self control. If you really did have sex, I'd be worried if I were you. You could be pregnant or have and sexually transmitted disease. You are not a good girl after what you have done because you could have prevented it, so don't say that you are. I am not trying to make you feel bad, but you need to realize what you've done. Tell your parents, do something, because you may be at risk. Self control, that's all you would needed to have prevented this.
PS, a guy that would use you for sex is NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. He is using you for your body. Think about that. If he was responsible he would have thought about his actions.
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Um, excuse me? You tell me all of these sexual things you have done with a guy, and you tell me how much you're in love, and he was touching you, and then you say you're 13? This is a sick, and depressing story, another teenage girl throwing her childhood away to sex. You say this like you're innocent and you were raped, and then "wut should i do?" is your question. I think you need to stop being stupid and don't have sex ever again until you're about 20!If this continues, you will be up in the middle of the night taking care of a screaming and crying baby, and the babys' father will have walked out on you, and you will be only about 15.
-TheTeenGirl
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speaking as a guy whos first relationship went fast (first kiss to first oral in a month and a half, but no sex still) i know there is a difference between fast because of what youve heard about relationships, and fast because of what you feel about the relationship. everyone is going to tell you that they think you are too young and that is way too fast-- i am too, you are way too young and taht is way too fast-- but in the end you have some things to ask yourself to decide how you feel.
did he do it without you wanting him to?
did you feel that it went too fast without taking society's standards into account?
and most importantly, do you love him?
personally i think he is probibly the wrong kind of guy. but in the end, its your opinion.
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I think you should not do this again.You are only 13. I know that seem's old enough to you but it isn't. You have to tell boy's NO, and make them understand you mean it.:)
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well if you where un comfortable with the situation you shouldnt have done anything. if you still like the guy keep in touch but if he just ditches you pretend like it never happened and get back to more important things like school work.
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Well, thats moving quick. But whats done is done. Next time, make sure its what you really want to do before you do it.
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Well..hopefully you dont regret it because its ddone and over with. if the guy is 18 i would stay away because its a huge age difference, its sagitory rape because hes 18..even though you were willing,,its still rape. I guess now try and build a relationship with him..because sex is a big deal. im 16 and beelive me i get urges..but i havent had sex yet..you just didnt fight that urge..If you got your period already..you might be pregnent..and thats a big deal. im not critisizing you..but next time i would rethink things before doing stuff like that..but nobody can stop you from having sex..
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Well, sorry if I sound harsh, but during a movie he did all this? You kind of gave him your first kiss, so now your first kissless with some scum bag. You're 13 and you shouldn't even let him touch your boobs more or less finger you! You shouldn't have had it with him because you're 13, you should have saved that for someone you loved and waited until you got happily married. I sure hope your not pregnant because that would make this situation a lot worse. I hope you've learned from your mistakes.
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god i hope your not pregnant
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ummm well... he fingerd u... during a movie?!?
howd he di that gosh... well idk wut to say...umm..well you shouldent hav had sex with the guy i mean expecially if it was only your first kiss... jus take kare of yourself nd dump this guy cuz if you werent ready he woulda known it if he really loves you bak
take kare of yourself kid...
xo the ones who help
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You gave into your very human, very natural base urges. I don't think you're in love. It's just sex, it doesn't really matter. How old is this guy? If he is 18 or older, he raped you, even if you technically consented. The whole situation is very serious. Go to a doctor to get checked for pregnancy and STDs, and if he is over 18 you need to tell someone right away. Don't love this guy. He has probably done this with a million other girls; all the more reason you should be concerned about diseases.
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uMM.. wow moving kind of quick? what do you mean what should you do. its done and over with.
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