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Boyfriend Acting Sketchy
Okay, I'm really confused about this guy, it's drving me crazy. This boy and I are in the one of the same classes together, and we talked somewhat, and I did flirt with him, but didnt expect anything to come out of it. Well, we started talking on the internet a lot, and he admitted to me that he liked me. So me and him started going out. Well in school he doesnt talk much and it's kind of awkward between us, and sometimes we don't even talk. It doesn't seem like he wants to be around me much. For that first week, he was online all the time, and was the sweetest person to me, always telling me how much he wanted to see me, and now he's hardly ever on. I confronted him and asked him if he still wanted to go out with me and he said he did. it just seems like he acts like two diffrent people. At times he'll seem like he doesnt wanna be touched, and then the next second he'll put his arm around me and pull me closer. And he doesn't talk to me on the phone, and he doesnt make much of an effort to see me on the weekends. But, he is really nice most of the time, and really sweet, there's just nothing to talk about between us.I know this sounds trivial and unimportant, but it really bugs the hell out of me. So could someone please help me and tell me what's going on or what to do?
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well if he acts like that then you need to jus be friends and try and find you a guy that actually wants to be wit you. dont waste your time. jus be honest wit him and tell him how you feel.
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Who knows what is going on in his head. Perhaps he doesn't know. Instead of asking him whether he still wants to go out with you, you should have been asking yourself whether you want to go out with him. He maybe sweet and nice some of the time, but unless you are happy with things as they are now, walk away. There is little point trying to change someone. They will do it themselves when they are ready.
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It's not trivial really. It is a good example of how people can seem one thing online and be somebody else entirely in real life. Especially a shy person, which he kinda seem's to be.
He is probably a great guy and will make a good friend. But, seems to me that you want more from a relationship than he does right now. Maybe you should just remain friends. :)
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You know, im kinda going through the same thing....but not really. I have a relationship with a guy and we are like family friends but he goes ot my school. He like nevr talks to me in school, but onlne we always talk, and like whenever i go ove rhis house in the summer we always have fun. I sometimes do care about the way he acts with me in school, because it makes me sad. But we arent going out. But as for you, i think you need to make a bigger effort to go up to HIM and talk with HIM at school, and make some date plans, and see how he reacts. If in school you try to talk, and he acts like he doesnt really know you..then forget him, you deserve better. I know its hard...but for a relationship to work, there must be communication...whcih there seems to be lacking in this one. Hope i helped!
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