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This guy I know has told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I STARTED to like him BEFORE he told me. When he told me and continued to confess his love for me, he just got less and less attractive. He got clingy, and obsessive. He calls me 3 or 4 times a day and can't go a day without tlaking to me on the phone, as if we are in a relationship! I suggested we hang out during spring break so I can get to know him, but then I got too busy. Then he made me promise I'd go out with him during the summer when I'm not too busy! OMG! I have tried not talking to him on the phone and avoiding his calls, but nothings working. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I DID tell him I wasn't into a boyfriend right now. Any advice? (link)
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You may just have to get nasty. I know you don't want to hurt his feeling but he doesn't seem to be getting the message. So, if your absolutley certain you don't want to go out with him...Get nasty!
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ok well i have this boyfriend i love him him soo much and he loves me too and he wants a kid reallie badd and i do too and we kinda said we want one but im afraid of my parents reaction if i did end up getting pregnant. and i mean im scared becuz my da tends to have a very bad temper problem like one time i juss wanted to go to my room and so he grabbed the bak of my head and literally threw me into my room and made my head hit the wall and i cut it open on a tack thing and so i tried to walk past him to get a wet rag and he wouldnt let me! and so im not afraid of my moms reaction becuz all she would do is give me andvice and help me raise it and tell me i was stupid and kik me out of the house cuz they said if i mess up reallie badly one more time im out of the house its my dads reaction im afraid of becuz when he gets madd he juss like blacks out and doesnt kno wat hes doing until its done and my boyfriend says that if my dad tried to hurt me that he would defend me and hit my dad and all but i dont want anyone to get hurt you know? but you have no idea how badd i want a baby!!!! and if i did get pregnant i'd want it to be my boyfriends baby. im juss afraid of my dad he scares me more than anyone i have ever known in my life
answer as fast as you can plz!! (link)
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You don't say your age. You do use the phrase that you mom would "help you raise it". No way.
you are not ready for a baby. I had one when I was a teen and take it from me...Life as you know it is over. You may think you want one but until you are married or at least able to support yourself AND a baby forget it. Nice guy or not his life will go on pretty much as normal.You will have a baby to care for. He will go play, you will stay and watch the baby. Doctors and hospital bills are horrible. You would be in debt big time for YEARS. You will live in the very worst part of town to raise a kid because it's all you'll be able to afford.If you can maintain a car, how will you pay for tags and insurance. Or tires and car parts. You will be unable to pay your utilities and eat.You won't be able to afford diapers. You won't have friends anymore because once they see the baby and gush over it a couple of times...they will go on with their lives.Which no longer will include you. Because you will have changed and they will still be carefree and out having fun.Your bf will have to work a minumum wage paying job, maybe two. You won't see him and when you do he will be tired and no help at all. He may begin to resent it all, you included. Or it may be you who has enough. That isn't something you put on your parents. They can't, nor should they have to support your family. They've done that already. If your REALLY lucky you may survive it all. But that is so very rare that I really don't think you want to take that chance. I'm also sure that I have left out plenty. So, I really hope that you reconsider the notion of just getting pregnant because you want a baby. Think of him/her and not yourselves. It may be a romantic notion and maybe someday it will happen for you, but do it right. Because I'm here to tell you that you don't even want to travel that road. Now, i'm sure this isn't the advice you wanted to hear.But you needed to hear it. If,for any reason you should want to talk some more, my email address is on my column. I am not trying to make you feel bad, I'm really not. But don't do something stupid on purpose.
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im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me? (link)
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I'm not gonna tell you to diet because I don't know enough info. Boy's do tend to go for the looks at 14. They do grow out of it though. So don't let it worry you to much.
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I went to a dance last night and had a BLAST! My friends went up to the kid (Ive admired from a distance lets say for like 2 years! lol) and they asked him (Logan) if he would dance with me and I guess he said yes (I wasnt there though.) So, the next slow song came on and he asked me to dance. =) Yay! And we both seemed to really like it and I could tell he was nervous which happens when you like someone right? But, then I kept trying to get his attention on the FAST dances. He would be right next to me and not even look over @ me! I mean, all these other guys told me I looked hot nd stuff byt Logan didnt even care! I was so mad. I was dancing with all my friends and we were dancing really dirty ..lol but obviously it didnt get his attention. ANyways, he didnt ask me to dance at all again the whole dance! So I danced with other people but he didnt dance with any other girls so thats a good sign?? At the end of the dance, my friends dad picked me and my friend up because I was sleeping over her house. And, we were stuck in traffic for like 3 seconds, and i saw mike with a few friends and he looked at me and i looked at him from the car and i smiled and he smiled back! We used to flirt all last year, but then he got really popular and wasnt in any of my classes. DO you think he likes me?! i hate boys ..what would you do NEXT if you were me? I dont know what the next step is for logan and me ..or if there is one at all . SOrry its long! (link)
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I don't think I'd let the fact that he didn't dance the fast ones bother you. A lot of people feel kinda stupid trying to do them. He probably just doesn't dance fast dances.
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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up? (link)
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I think I would ask him. If you're that good of friends I doubt that he will stop seeing you though.
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I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do? (link)
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Youo just tell him you don't want to do it anymore. Your afraid of all the diseases and stuff and you just aren't ready for all that yet. If he still tries to pressure you then find a new guy. Because if he cares for you he will wait.
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ok, see, there's this guy at my school that I like ALOT for a LONG time. I know this is kinda a typical question, sorry, but, how do I find out if he likes me as much as I like him? And what do I do to get us talking? I never talk to him, but I see him in the halls everyday and we always glance at each other, but we're both too shy to say anything. I don't know what to do, because I never talk to him, so I don't wanna make a fool of myself by just all of the sudden talking to him out of the blue, you know what I mean? Anyway, srry so long!!! Please help me though!!!
Thanks a lot=)
XO0OX (link)
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Start by saying hi when you pass him in the hallways. Then, you just look for something that you could talk about. Does he drive? If so ask him about his car. Doesn't have to be that but something like that. Are you more confused now? I hope not!
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I think I love this guy but I really don't know anymore. I'm confused. I just moved a little while ago and we never see eachother. It seems like he likes other girls to me but I think it is just because I'm so far away and I barely ever get to see him. We live almost half an hour away and I'm scared to get hurt. I don't know what to do... We've been through a lot together and I know I love him but I feel like he's pushing me away. HELP! 14/F (link)
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He could very well be. You need to get with him and have a very serious talk about the furure of your relationship. It's real hard to keep a long distance romance when you can never be together.
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I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much! (link)
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I'd let him come to me. If he get's cool towards you when you tell him you like him it's probably scaring him off. So I think I'd wait.
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well, i used to like this kid, but im slowly growing out of him ( if you know what i mean)
and well i like this other guy that almost everybody in my school likes. Hes realy perverted and everyone knows he is just kidding(most of the time)
but lately he keeps calling me, sitting near me at lunch and he keeps grabbing my ass..and i dont know if he is just kidding or not..what do i do? (link)
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Well if he's just kidding I think I'd tell him to stop grabbing my ass! He probably likes you. If you want to know for sure just ask him.
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Ok i didnt really start like this kid until i heard that him and his g/f broke up because she had sex with another guy.. and when i found that out he started to talk to me alot and in gym class he started to come over and play tennis with me and some friends...well after a couple of days of that i told my friends they could tell him after gym soo they did and he said he may possibly like me too ( of course he didnt give them a complete answer cuase i mean he is a guy)..well that day i heard that his ex g/f wanted to go back out with him and she asked him back out(they went out 7 months b4 the break up)well i was hoping they werent going to go back out but then the next day in 5th hour she told me they were dating again after class i told my friends and broke down in tears i cried all 6th hour and when i got home i stayed in my room and didnt eat....i felt terrible..he stopped playing tennis with me but now 2 days later he is playing with me all the time and is always flirting but he has a g/f.....sooo should i like him still. . .forget about him and just be friends or is there anything else i can do. . .Please help . . i may be falling for him!!! (link)
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Just be friends. His relationship with his girlfriend must be pretty good if he forgave her. He may just want to be friends but I think that is all for now.
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ok. so my friend likes this guyy named cody. he has a gf tho. it all started when he was constantly flirting with her and all at this party so she got into him. also when she had a dare to go kiss every guyy in the circle. when it came to him he kissed her back! so now shes also flirting with him constantly even tho he still is together with him gf. she found out but thinks its a rumor. So cody and his gf still havnt broken up but he told my friend. (the one who likes him and who likes her also) he told my frined that he really likes her but cant because he has a gf. but sounds to me like he likes her. and supposidly he asked he out while he was still going out with his gf. what should she do? And is it right for her to still be flirting with him? (link)
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Let me ask you this...would you like it if another girl was flirting with your guy? Not a real good idea. He probably does like your friend. But then he probably likes a lot of other people too. I'd stay friends with him but knock off the flirting until he doesn't have a girlfriend.
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What are some good "I Love You" quotes?..ANY love quotes.
Thanks =) I'll rate.. (link)
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There are millions of sites out there just put quotations into google and find the right one for you!
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My boyfriend told this girl that i hate that one of her friends is hott and hes denying it but i know he said it cause he always says stuff like that what shold i say or do help!!
from Jess (link)
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Mine has always done this and he's been around for years. He even tells me ooh look at her. As if I care....Males are just very strange. I wouldn't get to upset unless he starts following her around. If he does then you don't want him anyway.
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i want to have a party but my parents think that all my friends are bad and they will brake stuff even though there like isnt anything to brake in my basement can someone tell me how i could talk to my parents aobut it or something because my friends think im like a bitch for not inviting them over
and could you give some ideas of what to do because the only stuff thats down there is a tv pool table ping pong table and like a couple chairs
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If your parents said no chances are good they won't change their minds. But you can alway's ask again. Try asking if you can have a party outside. That alway's worked on me. :)
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ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy (link)
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No it isn't weird at all. Have fun!
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I have a question about dating/love.
I mean, whats the point? You date, you "fall in love", you break up, your heart is broken. I don't believe that love exists among teens. They all go around saying I love you to the first person they meet without ever actaully knowing what it feels like. I've done it, I admit and when I said "I love you" I knew I didn't mean it. I only said so because he said it first. I always told myself that I would never say those 3 words unless I really thought I was "In Love". I broke the promise that I had with myself and i'm starting to think that love is just a word that everyone throws around. I mean IS there really true love? Everyone is so wrapped up in having a boy/girl friend do they ever see the pattern they make? All the tears and confusion. Is it worth it when your only 15? Why can't all the hormones be turned off until were considered a adult? Seriously.
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Feedback is all I desire but do try to sound just bit intelligent in your answers. Don't make me wonder if the schooling system is failing too.
AG (link)
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I've been married for thirty years so of course I think there is such a thing! But among teens, I know what you mean. They say they are in love with guy's they've never even been out with yet.
All those hormones do make being a teen rough. Emotions are all over the place most of the time.
You seem to be more mature than some. You'll get through it okay. Love is a word that is thrown around way to much and for all the wrong reasons. Probably most of the time to justify behavior. Have fun but keep your head on straight! :)
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Today my friend Liam invited me to his 18th birthday party. I was rather shocked because I don't really know Liam, but I guess he likes my quirkiness. So I was really excited until I realized that I don't really know any of Liam's friends besides the people he talks to in art class, and only one of them is really a friend. Her name is Rachel. Sometimes I talk to them about things in the art room where I know them from. They're both very open about themselves and have said that they're into drugs among other things. So I'm worried about going to this party tomorrow because I don't want to get caught up in drugs, but I also want to be friends with Liam and Rachel because they're nice people who talk on my level and care about the things I care about.
so should I go or should I stay home and be perfectly safe? and if I go and there are drugs, how can I stay away from them and not come home smelling suspicious? (link)
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I guess you could go and then leave when the drugs come out. The biggest dangers are not getting roped into doing something. If you don't are they the type to ridicule you for not doing it? If they are then you don't want them as friends anyway. And never do something just to fit in. The other thing is if for some reason they get busted. You do too. Doesn't matter if you were actually doing anything or not. The cop's won't believe you. Decision is your's to make. Think about it before you decide. :)
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ok, i went out with this one girl for about 3 weeks, no longer. But i didnt really really like her. Then i started liking this amanda girl, shes like exacly my type, and we were so happy together and then rachel my ex girlfriend thought it would be a great idea to start telling my girlfriend all this shit about me and lying to her about half of it n stuff. i started talking to amanda on the phone on thursday, for like 4 hours at night, and then on friday we hung out at my house and she slept over, we had a really fun time, she is the sweetest girl. butttt i was still "techincally, not emotionally" going out with rachel at that time, well needless to say i broke up with rachel on saturday, and then asked amanda out. well she found out about that and wassnt happy, which it wassnt my intention to piss her off at all, i didnt want her to not consider me as a bf cuz i had a gf, cuz i really liked amanda... well now shes skeptical about me because of lying to her about rachel, and now rachel is telling her stuff and she dossnt know who to believe... yea so what do i tell amanda, like ive already apoligized, and told her i care about her n stuff, and bought her flowers, perfume, and chocolates... so before you suggest those thing, already done... words dont really help because she still dossnt know who to believe, i know in the end rachel will be wrong, i just dont want amanda to do nething dumb and find out later that i was right, so what should i do... thanks warren :)
btw... im 17, and rachel is 16 and amanda is 16, 17 in june... all juniors in high school, rachel lives 30 minutes away from both of us, and me n amanda live about a stones throw away from each other... thanks again (link)
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Are the ex and Amanda good friends? If not then I wouldn't worry overly much about it. Exes are notorious for causing trouble sometimes. She probably knows that. Since it seems that she is at least talking to you I think you will be okay. Just let your actions do the talking. Treat her nice and don't lie to her and she will come around. It may take a little while but she will. Have patience okay?
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Me and my friend were walking up to her house, we got round the corner near the lampost and we were like 20 metres away from her house. As we got round the corner there was a tall white van parked and a man standing there with his door open, I saw his arm moving so i looked down to see him wanking!! It was groose and he smerk at us.
I told my friend and she looked down to quickly we walked up to her house, when outside the house she shouted "MUM!!" as we climbed over her fence, he looked up at us quickly jumped in his van and drove off at the speed of light. He now knows where she lives and she cant sleep at night. Her mum didnt believe us and we told everyone in the neighbour hood to keep an eye out.
Im scared for life when anyone metions the words, wanking, penis, white van. I hate it so much i went white as a ghost when i saw him doing it.
I was shaking all day we tried to get her mum to report it to the police but she said "He might have just been goin for a piss" but i know he wasnt or piss would be comeing out of his dick.. not spunk. and he wouldnt exactly point it right at us..
How can my friend get over the fact that he knows where she lives?
sorry for it being so long lush me x (link)
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The police should be called. Most likely you scared him away and he won't be back. Used to call them flashers. What about your mom? She can call and report him too. So can you girls if you want too.
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