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Ex girlfriend telling girlfriend stuff (please help!!)
ok, i went out with this one girl for about 3 weeks, no longer. But i didnt really really like her. Then i started liking this amanda girl, shes like exacly my type, and we were so happy together and then rachel my ex girlfriend thought it would be a great idea to start telling my girlfriend all this shit about me and lying to her about half of it n stuff. i started talking to amanda on the phone on thursday, for like 4 hours at night, and then on friday we hung out at my house and she slept over, we had a really fun time, she is the sweetest girl. butttt i was still "techincally, not emotionally" going out with rachel at that time, well needless to say i broke up with rachel on saturday, and then asked amanda out. well she found out about that and wassnt happy, which it wassnt my intention to piss her off at all, i didnt want her to not consider me as a bf cuz i had a gf, cuz i really liked amanda... well now shes skeptical about me because of lying to her about rachel, and now rachel is telling her stuff and she dossnt know who to believe... yea so what do i tell amanda, like ive already apoligized, and told her i care about her n stuff, and bought her flowers, perfume, and chocolates... so before you suggest those thing, already done... words dont really help because she still dossnt know who to believe, i know in the end rachel will be wrong, i just dont want amanda to do nething dumb and find out later that i was right, so what should i do... thanks warren :)
btw... im 17, and rachel is 16 and amanda is 16, 17 in june... all juniors in high school, rachel lives 30 minutes away from both of us, and me n amanda live about a stones throw away from each other... thanks again
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I think that you should try talking to Rachael and tell her that you and her are over. Tell her sorry but now you want to go out with amanda.. Amanda is probably worried that you might do something to her so try be yourself, talk to her about how you really feel about her and that you love her ALOT.
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Warren, you have learned the definition of technicality among girls. When they have dirt on you, it will be flung. You hadn't officially broken up with the other bitch yet, but you were going to. In a man's mind, this counts and you are allowed to try to get some from another girl. But to a woman, it doesn't count and she does have some dirt to throw at you. "He's tryin to get you and he's still goin out with me." That bitch. Cock blocked you. Key here is you can't let it affect you. Don't kiss Amanda's ass quite so bad with the chocolates and flowers. Just say something like "I was wrong in this situation. I shouldn't have done that. I really care about YOU, Amanda, a lot. I wasn't trying to hurt the other bitch(put her name here). You're more my type and if you can forgive my mistake, I think we could make a nice couple." Good luck, Warren.
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Are the ex and Amanda good friends? If not then I wouldn't worry overly much about it. Exes are notorious for causing trouble sometimes. She probably knows that. Since it seems that she is at least talking to you I think you will be okay. Just let your actions do the talking. Treat her nice and don't lie to her and she will come around. It may take a little while but she will. Have patience okay?
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