this girl named bethany has asked me to borrow my clothes, come over to my house, go to the movies, the mall and suddenly im her friend. i dont have a problem with it but i was on a 3 way call with my friend monique and bethany was on to only she didnt kno i was on. I had to get off the phone because my brother had to use it. I called monique back and asked her what bethany said. Monique said that everything she said about me in the conversation was a lie. ( the things were all good things about me) and now i just hate her im going to talk to her tomorrow i dont kno if i should trust her or when i confront her shes just going to lie. PLEESE HELP!!
karenR answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:10 am: Don't believe anything that you didn't hear yourself. Give her the benefit of the doubt. It isn't like she said bad things about you. Maybe she thinks you're the best! [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
mitsugi answered Saturday April 9 2005, 9:53 am: Well, try not to judge her. Maybe in her eyes, the things that she mentioned about you were actually true. *Unless you're absolutely sure that they aren't true*
With the conversation you heard when you were still on the phone, was she lying then?
How much do you trust Monique that you're so sure that she's telling the truth? Maybe, she isn't. *Then again, I'm not that sure since I don't know your situation.*
For the time being, don't trust her. Try to confront her first. If she can explain it, it's all well and good. If she can't, drop me a line or something if you want to talk more! ^__^ [ mitsugi's advice column | Ask mitsugi A Question ]
sk8trash answered Saturday April 9 2005, 3:43 am: I dont think you should trust her... Try asking Bethany first. But it seems like she doesn't really consider her as your friend. I don't know, im prolly wrong but give it a go! [ sk8trash's advice column | Ask sk8trash A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 1:55 am: Don't let the vindictive cunt borrow anything, see nothing with the slutty bitch, and her skank ass is not welcome in your home. That's just as a warm up. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
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